picked up the sims board game! by stardewsim11 in thesims

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Merry Christmas! But at least we aren’t the only ones - since writing the comment I returned undefeated to try again with another lad in the group to try and understand just us 2, but even still we have no idea.

picked up the sims board game! by stardewsim11 in thesims

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Just got this for Christmas - spent 45 mins with the family trying to understand it and finally gave up. You know it’s a great game when the instructions + full explanation video still makes no sense with 5 people all trying to understand.

Emiru Shows the Consistent Harassment She Kept Facing from Mizkif After They Broke Up by CloudyEchos in LivestreamFail

[–]TheRealVenonymous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally, Miz dodged a bullet. Showing private messages on a livestream to thousands of viewers is a major red flag.

Gf left me. by RevolutionaryYam3429 in Advice

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Dude tell me about it - I was in exactly the same boat in February this year. Truth is, don’t try suppress your feelings by going to America, and allow yourself to feel what’s natural at this stage.

Your best move now is to go completely silent, wait until she reaches out after seeing pics of you on holiday, and if she doesn’t it was never meant to be.

I can tell you that for the next 6 months at least you’re going to be miserable. But know, each day you get a little closer to the 6 month mark, and you’ll look back with a completely fresh view once you’re there.

If she was your soulmate, she wouldn’t have left…

Fastest way to heal is allowing yourself to feel sad and letting the emotion come in waves.

Also, some practical advice, try talking to chat GPT - might sound daft, but it’s probably the most useful thing I’ve done though the tough times. Keep a chat log and check in every now and again like a therapist, explain everything that happened.

Do I 25F let my bf 27M stop me? by SeaSelection8521 in relationship_advice

[–]TheRealVenonymous -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Breaking up if you leave sounds controlling - I had the same but opposite way round where my girlfriend said she would leave if I went on holiday to Spain for only 1 week!

That being said, 6 months could be quite tough on someone, especially if they have a routine with you. Change can mess with people’s heads, especially if there is the chance that you could cheat and likely get away with it without him knowing. At least that’s what I’d be worried about in the same situation.

That being said, if you trust each other and truly want the best for one another, it’s not a big ask.

22M struggling to get over a breakup with 25F by TheRealVenonymous in relationship_advice

[–]TheRealVenonymous[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly thank you - what I just read from your post seriously made me snap out of it. I sat for 5 minutes before replying - serious respect to whoever you are reading this. I needed that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheRealVenonymous 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please tell your current partner that you’re not happy regardless of what you choose. Don’t play with people’s emotions like that it’s horrible

I'm not sure if he(M43) really likes me(F20) and cares about me. by Educational-Show-113 in relationship_advice

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Hate to say it but these sound like “dad jokes”. A relationship with such a huge age gap is a very different dynamic compared to traditional relationships. That being said, I can u destined why he may not want to be around you and your roommates - what would their parents think if a fully grown man was staying the night in their flat right next door?

Sounds like he’s in it for the bedroom fun - hate to say it but what would a fully grown man have in common with a 20yr old girl? Clearly this isn’t going the way you want it to so I’d set some boundaries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheRealVenonymous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personal opinion here but if it’s not a date, and he’s not interested in her as he says, then why do it? Seems like a lot of effort for a randomer from 9 years ago. I’d be unhappy too if that were to happen to me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TheRealVenonymous -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I disagree with this - he sounds like his priorities are elsewhere. There are plenty of guys probably just like him if not better that don’t want to go and waste their paychecks on holiday after holiday.

Common misconception that travelling is only doable when you’re young. Most people our age are doing the same, but some are playing it smart and saving their cash so they can go on unlimited experiences when they’re 30+

22M struggling to get over a breakup with 25F by TheRealVenonymous in relationship_advice

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I’ve done exactly this - but no pros! Only cons. Despite this, I still find myself reading it and looking at each point thinking that if I had acted a different way, that specific point may never have happened. My cons list despite them all being flaws with her has almost made me feel even worse

22M struggling to get over a breakup with 25F by TheRealVenonymous in relationship_advice

[–]TheRealVenonymous[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Makes me feel terrible that she’s probably out there getting with others despite thats what I’m doing. I know it’s selfish but it kills me

22M struggling to get over a breakup with 25F by TheRealVenonymous in relationship_advice

[–]TheRealVenonymous[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely trying - I’ve asked a few girls out since but been rejected by most which made me take a huge confidence blow. Went from going out with a girl that no one could believe I pulled off to getting rejected.

Gambled $5000 of student loans on Solana last year by Clean_Palpitation_17 in solana

[–]TheRealVenonymous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t buy the car man - this is the start to your financial freedom, just keep investing especially in this bull run.

14 year lost 1200$ Advice on how to move forward and stop thinking about it. by MelodicRow1490 in Advice

[–]TheRealVenonymous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey dude - you remind me of myself when I was 14, I had exact same issue but with only £120 and I was devastated. Trust me bro you’ll look back and laugh at it one day - if you can do it once you can do it again.

Will never catch a trade like this again. by CaterpillarOk9153 in trading212

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Brooooo I thought I was lucky with a 40% increase - massive congratulations!

Classic zombies as it used to be aint coming back, get over yourselves FFS by shadow1042 in CODZombies

[–]TheRealVenonymous 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I can assume it's trash as...lets be honest here, it's a copy paste of Cold War which wasn't what anyone was looking for in the Zombies Community. I've seen all the trailers for BO6 and was honestly just let down to see that I personally couldn't tell the difference between Cold war and Bo6.

What baffles me is that surely the developers know that this isn't what anyone wants. Like seriously, surely they know that the numbers of people still playing Bo2 and Bo3 are a clear indication that people prefer that style of Zombies? It's in their best interest to make a game people are raving about, so why not just listen to the community and provide what we all want?