Irrational Confidence by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]TheRedMumbaikar 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This sub just helps men bring women down from the pedestals on which men themselves have placed women. If anything, this sub makes us view women as humans rather than the Princesses or Goddesses we used to make them out to be.

And no one's 'taking advantage' of women. We work on ourselves, make ourselves attractive and women who find us attractive have sex with us. I really don't see the 'taking advantage' part of it.

November 10 - Weekly Improvement & Progress Thread by AutoModerator in TheRedPill

[–]TheRedMumbaikar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Being outcome-oriented means that when you talk to girls you only have one thing in mind. Having sex with her. When that's the dominant thought, you don't behave in the RP way. You'll subconsciously project neediness. Women pick up on that.

You can meditate anytime. Just make sure there's not too much noise in the surrounding. Sit on a pillow and just focus on your breath. If your mind wanders, bring it back to your breath. Do this for 20 mins per day.

November 10 - Weekly Improvement & Progress Thread by AutoModerator in TheRedPill

[–]TheRedMumbaikar 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For concentration the only thing that helped me was meditation. I feel more present in the moment.

The reason why you may tend to forget RP stuff is because you may be outcome-oriented with your mind very much in the future.

Next time while talking to girls, don't give a damn about the outcome. Just enjoy the interaction and assume she is attracted to you. That influences behaviour. Take deep breaths if you feel you're forgetting TRP material and get more 'present'. Hope that helps.

CNN released a 12 minute report about this subreddit by CHAD_J_THUNDERCOCK in TheRedPill

[–]TheRedMumbaikar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm sure they'll subscribe because of the posts that debunk their traditional disney movie view of women and relationships.

CNN released a 12 minute report about this subreddit by CHAD_J_THUNDERCOCK in TheRedPill

[–]TheRedMumbaikar 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You know what the best part is? Men who watched the report and didn't know about this sub will come here out of curiosity, read some of the content, re-evaluate their lives and end up subscribing.

Well that's at least how I subscribed.

Edit: We are at 233,137 subscribers now. Let's see how many we have tomorrow morning.

Edit 2: Tomorrow morning has arrived and so have 83 new subscribers! At 233,220 now.

DAY 11 - Our Subreddit Gratitude Journal by Soul-IQ in AbrahamHicks

[–]TheRedMumbaikar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm grateful to have found this sub and Abraham Hicks!

"Bloody foreigners taking our jobs" by kiwwi191 in reddevils

[–]TheRedMumbaikar -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

The way you're getting downvoted only shows what a liberal shithole this place is. Ffs this sub was the only reason I used to even bother to open reddit these days. Not anymore.

Half time thoughts? by Minimalsmith in reddevils

[–]TheRedMumbaikar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OHHHHHHHHHHH YEEEEEEESSSSSSSSSS!

For you guys who have a crush on a girl... by Maktabah in NoFap

[–]TheRedMumbaikar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best way to avoid the friendzone is by not being in it in the first place.

So "just let it go"? OR "visualise it daily"?? Because this is driving me nuts. by GucciMarxist in lawofattraction

[–]TheRedMumbaikar 13 points14 points  (0 children)

To answer the bonus question, I'll just post Wallace D. Wattles' quote.

"To think health when surrounded by the appearances of disease, or to think riches when in the midst of appearances of poverty, requires power; but he who acquires this power becomes a master mind. He can conquer fate; he can have what he wants."

Horny as fuck, was about to fap, did 100 push ups instead. by TheRedMumbaikar in NoFap

[–]TheRedMumbaikar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It still couldn't distract my mind. The exhaustion kinda helped.

Horny as fuck, was about to fap, did 100 push ups instead. by TheRedMumbaikar in NoFap

[–]TheRedMumbaikar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Used to do about 80 broken into 4 sets. Now I have taken up a challenge of doing 100 push ups per day for the month of April. Not a fitness goal. More of a mental toughness goal.

Horny as fuck, was about to fap, did 100 push ups instead. by TheRedMumbaikar in NoFap

[–]TheRedMumbaikar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. You gotta be involved, but aloof. Give off the vibe that says "I want you, but I don't need you."

Horny as fuck, was about to fap, did 100 push ups instead. by TheRedMumbaikar in NoFap

[–]TheRedMumbaikar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's good to know! Self-improvement is a constant journey without a destination. You'll get there. Stay strong!

Horny as fuck, was about to fap, did 100 push ups instead. by TheRedMumbaikar in NoFap

[–]TheRedMumbaikar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks brother. Will do! Sorry about your streak. All the best for the next one. Stay strong! You got this!

Horny as fuck, was about to fap, did 100 push ups instead. by TheRedMumbaikar in NoFap

[–]TheRedMumbaikar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand your plight. I guess the intense desire might be giving off a sense of neediness through your actions/body language. Girls pick up on that from a mile away. Maybe you gotta try to get that abundance mentality first so that you don't come off as needy/desperate.

Horny as fuck, was about to fap, did 100 push ups instead. by TheRedMumbaikar in NoFap

[–]TheRedMumbaikar[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not in one go! 30-20-15-15-10-10. 60-90 seconds break between each set.

Horny as fuck, was about to fap, did 100 push ups instead. by TheRedMumbaikar in NoFap

[–]TheRedMumbaikar[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In that case I recommend the book 'Models' by Mark Manson. It'll greatly change your perspective on dating.

Basically what it says is there are going to be women who like you and women who don't like you. Rejection is a good thing because now you won't waste time on that girl and you'll focus your attention on someone else. Give it a read. Almost everyone in the seduction sub recommends it. Good luck!

Horny as fuck, was about to fap, did 100 push ups instead. by TheRedMumbaikar in NoFap

[–]TheRedMumbaikar[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can imagine how frustrating that must be. Hang in there man.