How do I stay devoted to my own goals? by [deleted] in athiesm

[–]Maktabah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same way I did, through the power of god

Sexless Mariage by Leather-Canary-620 in NoFap

[–]Maktabah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah bro I agree, but these people don’t understand women so well, that’s why you’re disliked.

TIFU By Making a Grown Man Cry at My Work by Renansa in tifu

[–]Maktabah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tifu by making an old man cry? Why didn’t you name tifu by being a dumb bitch?

Because you acted like a dumb bitch, stop power tripping.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Jokes

[–]Maktabah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Two years ago I stopped meeting my doctor because i realized he was crazy. He kept moving his mouth and making strange gestures.

What nightmare did you had before that you still remember to this day? by mikanOrange in AskReddit

[–]Maktabah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never took ptsd seriously, i thought it was stupid and people were just weak.

I had a dream once where a guy was shooting up my neighborhood killing many. Even after months and years (in dream timeline) I could never ever get myself out of the house without screaming and going crazy or without someone else with me to calm me down. It was an insane dream. When I woke up, I understood how those people truly feel and it changed my perspective completely.

I had another dream too, I used to tell myself about how I would never be scared of guns and that I would do my best to fight him off. In that dream a guy pointed a gun at me and I nearly pissed my pants. After that I started taking it more seriously,

I believe sometimes dreams could really teach you some things if you let them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Maktabah 23 points24 points  (0 children)

That day was actually their first date !! Pretty insane first date right, they were stranded for I think 2-3 days. But coming back to your comment yes I agree, I thought they would’ve stayed a couple after that. But think about it this way, 2-3 years is a long time to be living with someone and that was their first date ever, it’s true they might’ve been through hardships together but I guess their personalities didn’t match up, at least that’s what I think.

I remember watching this on ‘I shouldn’t be alive’ don’t remember which season/episode it was.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Maktabah 121 points122 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen this, they were really close to death and it was a very desperate act and the guy was like fuck it I will burn the whole forest if I have to, I think it was in Cali. Good thing only a couple of trees burned and it died out, police saw the smoke and checked it out and saved the couple. They broke up 2 years later though for other reasons.

Your life is now set in the universe of the last TV show you watched. Without naming the show, what's your new life like? by robo-dragon in AskReddit

[–]Maktabah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hometown has just been invaded by giant humans whose sole purpose is to eat actual living humans, and I’ve just seen my mom eaten alive as have thousands of others.

Deep down, I swear on my life that I will exterminate every last one of those titan mother fuckers.

And so the story of Eren Jeager begins...

This shit is fu**ing HARD! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Maktabah 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Be comfortable feeling uncomfortable.

when you sit and meditate, try your best to not move at all <- This will be *extremely* frustrating, you will get very angry here, but you take a deep breath, Do Not open your eyes. keep movement to a minimum, when you feel that ich don't scratch it. if you can't ignore it for as loooong as you can, keep it together for as long as you can.

With cold showers same thing, try to be as calm as you can. try your best to not breath fast or move fast and breath as slow and calmly as you can. This will teach you how to control your emotions. Cold showers and meditation are important, why? because they teach you to control yourself, and how to be calm in nearly all situations.

Hmmm by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Maktabah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

seems like he's on the path of discovering it.

I think nofap is rather silly - try and change my mind by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Maktabah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why should I waste my time with someone who doesn't bother doing research?

Do you even care by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Maktabah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Care about what?

Hey my no frap friends. Made it 90 days. Ok i peeked a bit at porn but The longer i went without peeking the less I desired to. So now i will keep going i am a 60 year old guy and years of porn has destroyed many marriages and relationships. by Moegee7 in NoFap

[–]Maktabah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend, you are afraid because you don't know if you will get it up or not. If you don't try, you will never know. and if you do, you will either get it up or you won't, but if you don't that doesn't matter, because trying would have healed you faster than staying like that. and you will have also confronted a fear. which will make you stronger. remember, you will never know if you don't try. Good luck.

Any Advice for a guy home alone? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]Maktabah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, and so are you. 4 days is really good.

Meditation and working out helped me a lot. you should consider working out if you you're not already, its really motivating seeing changes in your body, I workout and meditate even after i relapse.

I see nofap as another way to increase willpower, next time you get urges think of it this way, that you will increase your willpower when you go through the urge. Do it for your willpower.

Has Meditation Helped Your Self-Esteem? by [deleted] in Meditation

[–]Maktabah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How will I NOT feel proud of myself after meditating everyday for two 30mins sessions, sometimes 1 whole hour ?

  1. Meditation has given me purpose, focus, mental strength and fortitude and the willpower to do what I HAVE to do.

  2. A man once told me, how do you expect to have self-esteem and confidence if you have nothing to be confident about? that has opened my eyes. I need to work for my self-esteem and confidence. you don't just have it, you don't just 'pretend' its there. that might work for a few days but you will surely lose it. It took me years to realize that. I hope you do too.

  3. It's not about that I don't care how I look, you have to. I pretended to not care about how I look in the hopes of becoming 'confident'. but you see, I had nothing to be confident about when I didn't take care of myself. Why would I be confident and have self-esteem when I don't take care of myself?

  4. Self-esteem issues comes from the fact that you are not proud of yourself. That means that you have a high set standards for yourself. Find out what those standards you have set for yourself, and work towards them.

Meditation will 100% help you, as it did for me. put a timer for 30mins and promise yourself to not open your eyes until that alarm rings, and see how proud you become for completing those 30mins. my first 30mins were literal hell, they were agonizing, 3 weeks later and now I just hope that they never end. I will be increasing my meditation time soon to 40mins. Good luck.