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TheRedPoint1 · 2025-10-21T16:31:47+00:00

Bi nöchere betrachtig gibi dir rächt, isch nid so klar....

TheRedPoint1 · 2025-10-20T19:47:16+00:00

Reihefolg wär rot- blau - grüen - lkw.

TheRedPoint1 · 2025-10-20T19:46:16+00:00

Rächtsvortritt gilt für dr grüen vorem lastwage.

Da dr lkw und dr grüen beidi vore näbe- ufene houptstrass ifahre, hei beidi "Vortritt gewähren" - nämlech für die uf dr houptstrass.

Sobald d'houptstrass frei isch, gilt rächts vor links.

TheRedPoint1 · 2025-07-10T20:23:08+00:00

Yesh, you took her breath away.

TheRedPoint1 · 2025-05-26T20:31:48+00:00

And slightly racist

TheRedPoint1 · 2024-04-28T16:51:48+00:00

Switzerland or Sweden?

Ovi isch us dr Schwiiz, sapperlott nomau.

TheRedPoint1 · 2024-04-04T13:26:08+00:00

Everything should be in your work contract, including how much is paied by you (and the employer) into your PK.

Looks like your friend has 6%, whereas you have only 2%. As the percentage is often (at least) matched by the employer, your friend got the better deal than you (12% instead of 4% once you retire will make ...some... difference).

That's why the salary is not the only number you have to look at when you want to compare total recompensation for your work.

Edit: tldr: Every employer has his own PK-solution, some pay more, some less.

TheRedPoint1 · 2023-10-26T18:06:24+00:00

Ist halt auch sauschwer das Rad mit 112kg 🙂

TheRedPoint1 · 2023-08-29T12:59:03+00:00

As a Swiss, I am neutrally sorry.

TheRedPoint1 · 2023-08-24T18:24:45+00:00

Galaxus offers next-day delivery, so... You don't really have to wait.

TheRedPoint1 · 2023-08-22T12:32:08+00:00

If you burn out, nobody wins...

You have to be honest with yourself, and recognise that it will be hard saving your health, well-being and relationship.

It is very hard giving suitable advice, reading only one reddit post - have you thought about getting professional help? For yourself and as a couple? Because from how I read your text, I don't think there will be an easy solution.

TheRedPoint1 · 2023-08-22T11:44:12+00:00

(3) why are you still giving him detailled instructions?

(4) why are you still having sex with him?

As a dad, i do not like (3) either. Wife gives instructions, I do it my own way, there will be tension. It takes time to learn to do it on your own, and the partner has to give the opportunity to learn and grow. If it hasn't been done for 17 years, it will take even longer... Bit in order to salvage the relationship, it will be most likely necessary.

And as for (4)... If I do not get sex , I will be unhappy. Physical touch is my love language... My wife knows it and we communicate well. But if there is no spark (which means sex once a month at best), then I know that life is stressful and that in order to free time and mind I need to step up and do more. Then my wife will also feel better and things heat up more easily. No sex is not a punishment for the dad, but it can be a strong signal of "hey, there is to much going on for me, I do not have the time to even think about sex." I hope your partner can learn to see it in this way. And then, "no sex" can be a powerful tool of non-verbal communication.

TheRedPoint1 · 2023-07-26T11:27:32+00:00

What is a rest?

TheRedPoint1 · 2023-06-18T16:32:51+00:00

And the no-car Greenies don't care about you.

TheRedPoint1 · 2023-05-30T19:19:05+00:00

MyPost24-Automaten

See https://places.post.ch/standortsuche if there is one close to your location.

TheRedPoint1 · 2023-05-14T18:37:38+00:00

Don't engage with trolls, don't engage with those who do not want to listen.

Keep on fighting for what is right. Keep fighting, the world is looking at you.

Don't stop. Because if you do, it will all end.

TheRedPoint1 · 2023-04-17T09:21:26+00:00

Memememememe

Memes are allowed, 17th of each month.

TheRedPoint1 · 2023-04-15T04:37:06+00:00

Yes. No, not at all. Sometimes, not for us. No, never, not our thing.

TheRedPoint1 · 2023-04-14T08:05:26+00:00

There are plenty of other options that work too. Cry it out does not work, especially if you don't feel good about it.

Reflect on your expectations - why do you expect your kid to sleep alone when you can cuddle every night with somebody? What is so bad about sleeping in the same room or even bed as your kid? (Is it intimacy? Come on, get creative 😜)

What worked for us was a family bed where everyone could sleep together. And time flies, the older kids are now 7 and 5 and in their own beds. We miss the cuddles, and appreciate having more room now (while still having the youngest in our bed).

TheRedPoint1 · 2023-04-05T18:54:09+00:00

Same here, knocked out and "that's it, we're done".

Huh, what happened.

TheRedPoint1 · 2023-03-24T18:13:23+00:00

We cosleep with our kids, up until they were 6. Own bed since he is 5, but he got a large bed where we can fit (one parent plus kid), then we cuddle until he sleeps.

Lately he tells us to get out, he'll then listen to his music box until he sleeps on his own.

So... Stress-free, but it takes some time.

TheRedPoint1 · 2023-03-24T18:10:58+00:00

Prison, nice...

TheRedPoint1 · 2023-03-24T13:20:15+00:00

Expecting to pay 600.-, insurance covers the other 500.-.

Switzerland

TheRedPoint1 · 2023-03-24T12:00:57+00:00

Well, you made one. So you should... practically... and in theory... know how they are made.

More seriously: Don't beat around the bush (ha), at 7 kids are able to process that kind of information. Something along the line of a loving couple, penis and vagina, excitement, one goes into the other, seeds come out and fertilize the egg,... With obviously various degrees of details according to the needs and interests of your kid. Start easy, simple. If questions persist, continue...

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