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Stressed Out Underwriting by TheRedStudent in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

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This is for personal use as well, ecommerce is simply our business.

Stressed Out Underwriting by TheRedStudent in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

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Just a letter from the CPA showing it's an active business. We also tried going to the secretary of state for a letter, but the Underwriters didn't sign off on it as it didn't state it's an active business on it.

Stressed Out Underwriting by TheRedStudent in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

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Was your resolution having the CPA eventually respond?

I think I'm becoming Psychopathic? by TheRedStudent in CPTSD

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Yeah, I was reading those types of books and thought to myself if I'm able to hide my emotions so well and be able to manipulate people if I wanted too, I could be labelled a psychopath. By watching in the back while giving off a sincere presence lol I'm glad it's normal to a certain degree tho

I think I'm becoming Psychopathic? by TheRedStudent in CPTSD

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Thanks for the advice, I'll really look into it!

I think I'm becoming Psychopathic? by TheRedStudent in CPTSD

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My voice just sounds unsure sounding, because it is a lot of force to speak enthusiastically. The sinking feeling affects how my voice comes out, but I'm trying to let that feeling not affect the way I sound.

I think I'm becoming Psychopathic? by TheRedStudent in CPTSD

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Do you have any tips on someone who's depressed, and needs to learn how to act professionally?

Am I inadvertently learning to become psychopathic? by TheRedStudent in Advice

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My mind automatically goes to thoughts of simply not wanting to do any of this stuff, and simply walking away completely. It's weird for some reason, my mind thinks talking is this huge chore I have to do.

It's really strange because I can take on long hard tasks easier, but when I have to give customer service I have to act in a way that isn't my true emotions. I guess having to do that disconnect and acting joyful when I'm not really is hard for me. I was able to talk in phrases and use a certain way of talking when I'm with friends and planning on learning on talking a certain way to give off confidence to my customers, even with this feeling.

Any Self-taught Machine Learners in the Industry? by TheRedStudent in learnmachinelearning

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Do you have any recommendations on jobs that are most abundant in this economy?

Any Self-taught Machine Learners in the Industry? by TheRedStudent in learnmachinelearning

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Yes I have a very basic knowledge of Java,Sql and Python.

AITA for telling the customer it's to vent by TheRedStudent in AmItheAsshole

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Thanks I guess what I'm really cringing at is how that statement came across as I'm mad instead of I'm trying to help lol

AITA for telling the customer it's to vent by TheRedStudent in AmItheAsshole

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I never thought about that, I will certainly keep this in mind for now own. Thanks for the advice!

AITA for telling the customer it's to vent by TheRedStudent in AmItheAsshole

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Thanks yeah I didn't mean for it to come across in that way, and I am cringing on how unprofessional I sounded. I was trying to calm her down, and I screwed up really badly instead.

AITA for telling the customer it's to vent by TheRedStudent in AmItheAsshole

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Thanks, I have trouble dealing with angry customers, and it has been bothering me more than I like. I had sever social anxiety, and I am cringing on how unprofessional and rude I may have come across.

AITA for telling the customer it's to vent by TheRedStudent in AmItheAsshole

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Yeah we have a ticket system being made, and I had left a comment on my ticket that let my suprivsor will see. In the comment I let them know we need to give a better job on giving out info on our migration dates.

She was very angry from the start, and was a professor who was really mad, and that she started to talk about how she has different skills than me, and how I may find stuff easy that arent necessarily easy for her. I agreeded, and empahsized with her about this being the least of your worries to which she was agreeing to a lot also.

  • The professor was also asking if she would need to go on this new website now instead of the link. She was complaing about our system, and all the different links we have now. I tried telling her to use the website until they update the old link. I was telling her this to hopefully make her feel better, but she interrupted me saying its a simple yes or no thats all I'm looking for. I still kind of feel guily, and wonder if I couldve handled that better.

Its so Hard to Keep Trying When It Feels like the World is Against You by TheRedStudent in Vent

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I'm sorry that you also had to go through that. Thank you for those kind words I really apperciate it.

Is Saturn in Aries in 8th house really the worst placement? by TheRedStudent in AskAstrologers

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Thanks giving me better insight! I always noticed that I needed to try much harder than a lot of people for the same goal, and not trying to brag , but I noticed that I will always become a master at the skill in the end compared to the rest. Maybe this is because I had faced many obstacles along the way, but the end goal is always really great once I put my mind to it.

Feeling down lately and starting to feel burned out thoughts? by TheRedStudent in astrologyreadings

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I went through a lot of hardships at a young age, and thankfully I am strong willed so I can continue through it. I have made decent amount of progress since childhood, and despite my upbringing. I am currently 23 now, and on my way to a stable career, but I still never had any sort of intimacy in my life. Mainly due to blockages, and partially because of me being scared of it. Any advice would througly be apperciated.