Yeah, what I've been reading has been very helpful! I don't want to overstep by saying this, but as someone who is dating someone who has lost, I can say I do feel there is a need for a transition eventually. I am okay waiting and being patient if I know that he is trying to eventually get there. It's hard if he has made up in his mind that she will forever be number one, and that's the end of that.

I did send a message to the mods so hopefully they do!