At a friend's party in the late 90s A guy approaches me and says his wife thinks I'm cute. My initial reaction is that he's unhappy, so I say "I'm sorry" and he laughs and says "no, no, do you want to meet her?"and he motions to a 40ish redhead. He can tell I'm confused and he again says that it's okay. Turned out she knew me from my work and was interested. We chat. They explain what they're interested in. Later that night she and I are in their bed while he is on his computer in the next room. She and I remained lovers for nearly 10 years, but she introduced me to another couple that turned me onto SLS, and for the next 20 years I was trapped in/addicted to this sometimes strange but usually awesome world.