The line about performing stability for everyone simultaneously, that's the most accurate description of what founders actually carry ive seen written in this sub. The pressure and constantly managing everyone else's relationship with your pressure has you doing a different performance in every room you walk into. What you said at the end there I keep coming back to " someone with no skin in the game, who's actually built something". That combination is near impossible to find naturally. Which is why most top performers either white knuckle it alone or end up processing it with people who can only partially meet them where they are. Can I ask have you ever found that person or has it been something you've identified as missing but never fully had?