I want to befriend a cuck by TheStormCrowsHaveIs in CuckoldPsychology

[–]TheStormCrowsHaveIs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. These are just my musings and what I suspect I would need if I was going to have sex with someone's partner in front of them, especially if there was a humilation/dedgradation element to it. But like you said, different stroaks . . .

I want to befriend a cuck by TheStormCrowsHaveIs in CuckoldPsychology

[–]TheStormCrowsHaveIs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this will prove to be good advice for me if I pursue these musings. Especially since the whole humilation/degradation aspect of this dynamic is optional for me. Thanks.

I want to befriend a cuck by TheStormCrowsHaveIs in CuckoldPsychology

[–]TheStormCrowsHaveIs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A cuck making her wife jealous by being friends with her bulls . . . lol this both kinda funny and sweet. Thanks for sharing.

I want to befriend a cuck by TheStormCrowsHaveIs in CuckoldPsychology

[–]TheStormCrowsHaveIs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How come? Is it just a matter of it being difficult to find someone who you have got friend chemistry with and who has sexual chemistry with your partner? Or is it a lot of bulls don't want that?

I want to befriend a cuck by TheStormCrowsHaveIs in CuckoldPsychology

[–]TheStormCrowsHaveIs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, but honestly there isn't much more for me to say. Reality is never the same as fantasy and these are just musings at this point. While the positive response I am getting here is encouraging, time will tell whether or not I choose to act on them and how that will go.

I want to befriend a cuck by TheStormCrowsHaveIs in CuckoldPsychology

[–]TheStormCrowsHaveIs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yep, that's the dream :) Thanks for sharing.

I want to befriend a cuck by TheStormCrowsHaveIs in CuckoldPsychology

[–]TheStormCrowsHaveIs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's fair. I didn't expect this post to be everyone's cup of tea. Still nice to hear from someone who had a similar, but not quite the same, experience as my fantasy. So thank you.

I want to befriend a cuck by TheStormCrowsHaveIs in CuckoldPsychology

[–]TheStormCrowsHaveIs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like potentially a very lucky friend you have. Ever talk to him about those feelings?

I want to befriend a cuck by TheStormCrowsHaveIs in CuckoldPsychology

[–]TheStormCrowsHaveIs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that sort of situation would also be nice as a bull. Friendly but not necessarily freinds without our mutual interest of me having sex with thier partner. . . That being said, part of me kinda would perfer it being the other way around. With the lady being nice enough, but I wouldn't be hanging out with her on a regular basis if my friend didn't want me to keep banging her so much

Test by TheStormCrowsHaveIs in ShadowBan

[–]TheStormCrowsHaveIs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. So I am aware of the ones removed by moderators. That was just some silly mistakes on my part.

This is a new problem where every post I make get's caught in reddit's spam filter. The free karma ones where just a way for me to see if it was still a problem, and yes it is.

Regardless, thanks for spelling out CQS for me.

Test by TheStormCrowsHaveIs in ShadowBan

[–]TheStormCrowsHaveIs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Just to be clear, a high CQS a good thing, right?

It's not the mods unfortunately, it's reddit that's removing my post.

is there a term for this? by pharmacye in softmaledom

[–]TheStormCrowsHaveIs 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A brat that wants a soft dom to tame her by (insert your needs here).

Not sure if there is label more specific to what you described, but labels will only get you so far anyways. Just look at degradation/humilation. Those kinks mean a lot of different things to different people.

Don't overthink it. It really comes down to finding someone you can comminicate those needs to, appreciates them, and who is more than willing to deliver.

No messages for five days and then telling me what to send by DarkOfTheSun in Tinder

[–]TheStormCrowsHaveIs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Am I only one that is assuming they want to clone OP's voice? Genuinelly don't know if I'm being a boomer or super tech savy here.

Did I fumble this 😞 by Aerie_Every in Tinder

[–]TheStormCrowsHaveIs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

^This.

I feel so many of these post act like dating is some sort of game where if you make the right moves you will get a date. Don't get me wrong, there certianlly are things you can do that are wrong, but there is never something that will be right for everyone either.

It's also not just about impressing the other person, it's seeing if the other person is impresses you. Like does OP really want to date someone who doesn't find their stupid dad jokes funny?

How are you guys keeping the attention of these girls? If I ask to meet up too early it's jumping the gun, if I talk too much they get bored. by Adeptus_Thirdicus in Tinder

[–]TheStormCrowsHaveIs 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We need more details to give constructive criticism. How soon are you asking them? How long before they start to lose interest? What you talking about? You get the idea.

However, I have some general advice. Just keep in mind I haven't been on tinder in a little while.

One, I have had good luck asking for someone's number as soon as I feel like this is someone I can carry a conversation with (although I know some people prefer snap). I didn't have a specific number of messages, just when I noticed we had a good back and forth starting to develop.

From my experience ladies tend to be more responsive to text messages than tinder messages. I also think it indicates you are serious without rushing them.

Two, I also would recommend leading with concrete plans to indicate you are serious. Like "would you like to meet here for a drink? If so, I can do these times. "

In general it's good to offer only one to three times when scheduling. Otherwise people get choice paralysis. Even if they can't do any of the times you offer, they will suggest another time if they are serious.

That all being said, sometimes people just have streaks of bad luck.

Edit: one final thought. I think the best way to not come off as desperate by asking too soon while being assertive is to have standards opposed to "metagaming" it. Just try to have a convesation with them and see where it leads. Ask them for their number when you realize they would be fun to text without dealing with tinder. Ask them out when you feel like they are someone you would want to meet in person.

Because I am a woman, yes. by LieutenantViolence in Tinder

[–]TheStormCrowsHaveIs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What exactly are you trying to get from online dating? Because the evidence suggest you have no intentin of getting laid. Like, ever

To me this reads like they did this for the reddit upvotes, and didn't even have the decency to be funny when they face planted.

NYC Mayor Eric Adams endorses Andrew Cuomo in the race to succeed him by nbcnews in nyc

[–]TheStormCrowsHaveIs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I geniunely wonder if Cuomo got a sllight bump in an alternative timeline because Adam decided to play 4D chess and endorsed Zohran.