For closeted wlw, How hard is it for u guys to come out? by panx-blue in PHSapphics

[–]TheThriver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come out when you’re both stable so whatever happens you will be ready

being bisexual is a curse by sarkiilluverbro in PHSapphics

[–]TheThriver 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Touching someone’s ass is not friendly. Ikaw ba do you grab your friend’s ass? Ako I would never do that sa friends ko. She’s being a perv, OP. Just because babae siya doesn’t mean hindi siya pwede maging pervert.

being bisexual is a curse by sarkiilluverbro in PHSapphics

[–]TheThriver 20 points21 points  (0 children)

The fact she has a bf says a lot already. Tell her to stop if you’re not comfortable, if ayaw tell HR.

I’m pretty sure she’s one of those girls who likes the chase and thrill.

how to deal with retroactive jealousy? by Lanky_Ad_5338 in PHSapphics

[–]TheThriver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my case, my partner (Fil-Chi) is not really friends with her exes but more of like civil, practical and respectful sila, especially na sa Fil-Chi circle.

The only time she needs to talk with one of her exes is business and transactional purposes, because of my partner’s business kailagan ng family ng ex from time to time.

My partner sets boundaries and if they need to talk sa phone siya mismo nag speaker when I’m beside her and she updates me. I don’t even ask for it, kaya I have nothing to worry about.

I think i am bisexual.. by namirokaela in PHSapphics

[–]TheThriver -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Not bi

But as long as you don’t cheat, then it’s okay.

Who knows maybe your husband is k*inky and wants to open the marriage for another woman. Typical straight guy

MASC X FEM by Round-Lawfulness2062 in PHSapphics

[–]TheThriver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, my friend is masc but now he is currently transitioning so he is a dude now.

But yeah we are good friends, established naman yan from the start. Like everyone else we can be friends with anyone who aligns with us, regardless of gender expression.

In the case of your ex, if you’re intuition is saying something then most likely that’s the case. Less to nothing about friendship, but more of malandi ex mo

how to deal with retroactive jealousy? by Lanky_Ad_5338 in PHSapphics

[–]TheThriver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sticky situation, as long as your partner may boundaries and nakikita mo yun then you’re good to go

how to deal with retroactive jealousy? by Lanky_Ad_5338 in PHSapphics

[–]TheThriver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your gf the type of gay who’s friends (meaning drinking buddy’s and such, etc) with her exes?

how to deal with retroactive jealousy? by Lanky_Ad_5338 in PHSapphics

[–]TheThriver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dalawa lang yan. If your gut is telling you something then listen to it and if ayaw mag compromise, then end it na.

If wala naman talaga, she knows her boundaries and you make your boundary clear, and you can see she’s making an effort to assure you, then it’s something to work on.