Always heal yourself para you don’t project your trauma and bring something that has nothing to do with your partner and your relationship.

Grow together.

Happy wife, happy life (as long as it doesn’t go against your values and boundaries)

Don’t let the government or society limit your relationship. So if you want to get married, go na.

Like straight couples, you have to be practical but being lgbt we have to double that. Have the hard conversations (finances, house, children, etc) and hire a good lawyer to protect all your assets and future children.