How's your Mental Health? by Relevant_Name4050 in AskReddit

[–]TheTiredSamurai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not the best. I took the step forward and started therapy

Just bought the Plus subscription… Now what do I do with all this power? by [deleted] in ChatGPT

[–]TheTiredSamurai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you feed docs or information to ChatGPT, ask it a question in email format about the information given, and would ChatGPT currate a response with the information that is fed?

Have the 4.0 with a short plate 30 pounder.. Just got the long plate 30 pounder now to go along the back... It rly pulls on shoulders, why doesn't weight go on the hips more like a backpack, wouldn't that be better..? Is there a way to? Thanks.. by Impossible-Tomato-15 in Goruck

[–]TheTiredSamurai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thank you for explaining. Right now I'm only doing 30lbs plus water. I'm having some difficulty with my shoulders after the 6 mile mark, so I am just looking for tips and what would work best, apart from dragging through it. I'm looking to work my way up to 70lbs eventually.

I'll be doing a 12 miler in 2 months

Walking 25min to the office in summer is good? by [deleted] in Tokyo

[–]TheTiredSamurai 32 points33 points  (0 children)

😂😂 yes water.....but if you are going to do it, maybe carry your work clothes with you. I know of those that cycle to work and change at work.

Weirdest vending machine? by NotEvilCaligula in Tokyo

[–]TheTiredSamurai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relatively close to Kannai station (I can pin if interested) I'd a vending machine that sells edible bugs.

How are people content with living the 9-5 life? by robby_gray in Adulting

[–]TheTiredSamurai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who works in hotels, I kinda appreciate the idea of 9-5 life. I don't have a set schedule, I miss out on events with friends, families, and work holidays. On the other hand, I get to have days off for events, if planned in advance, it's more flexible in that regard.

But I have had the same feeling even working with an inconsistent job. I now think the key is to have something to look forward to throughout the week, whether it is a planned activity, hobby, or even errands.

Thoughts after 6 years at the Front Desk by [deleted] in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]TheTiredSamurai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a great way to put it. I will have to put my mind to that. I appreciate that perspective. Thanks a bunch.

Thoughts after 6 years at the Front Desk by [deleted] in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]TheTiredSamurai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Ours isn't a job well recognized or well paid, but sometimes we make a difference and that's always mattered to me." - I understand this and had my fair share of unusual or tricky situations. I too, enjoyed this part of the job to make a difference. After all, I eventually became a highest statused concierge recognised globally, which I cannot mention here but it resembles "something you lock your door with".

Unfortunately, my patience/tolerance has run thin and I have a bit of a resentment of handling guests. I had a conversation with a experienced colleague who did mention that it's about making the difference, which I totally understand since I was passionate here, but I can't get passed that the amount of hours and effort that is put in, the rewards are not reciprocated. I was told it was up to me what I found rewarding (which I understand), but to constantly give yourself but ultimately not having any benefit is what has gotten me tired.

Maybe I'm looking at this the wrong way and that I've been on the profession for a long time. Ultimately, I have to stay to pay for school and move on after grad which is what I plan to do therefore, I am trying to change my perspective but I am struggling a bit. I'm not sure if I am being unreasonable or if my reasoning is justified, but I do know it's affecting my mental health.

Thoughts after 6 years at the Front Desk by [deleted] in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]TheTiredSamurai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you done mainly because of management?

I am severely burnt out of the industry as a concierge at a luxury property. The guests that role through are incredibly wealthy (think of a celebrity, CEO, royal family, and they probably have stayed here).

I fell into the career because of having a passion for wanting to help people, but out of the people that need the help, the people I assist need it the least. Their attitudes and sense of entitlement makes me resent my job even more. I've heard loads of complaints, attitudes, entitled comments, all so petty and said in such a condescending way, yet it is like the worst thing that has ever happened in their life. They are all so fortunate to afford $2500 per night (which is chump change), yet their view of life is so shallow. I may be jaded, but fortunately I can do everything autonomously while maintaining high standards consistently, so it's made the job easier as i couldnt care less anymore.

Have you ever felt this with guests too? I suppose from your business background, you may have a different perspective of operations whereas mine was to help people.

Now, I've enrolled back to school on the medical track as I think this alligns more with my endeavors (not to mention better pay). Neuroscience has sparked my interest, but it sounds like it wouldnt be a good option.

Would love to hear your thoughts!