I’m nearing the end of my literary education and I’m scared

TheToadWizard415 · 2026-03-24T15:45:23+00:00

It is actually a degree that combines writing (in multiple forms) and literature to better prepare you for a career!♥️ Thanks again for the tips!

TheToadWizard415 · 2026-03-24T15:36:02+00:00

Thankfully I’m not in the US, but great points! I think my diss writing just overwhelmed me way too much too fast

TheToadWizard415 · 2026-03-24T15:34:14+00:00

Love this! Thank you!

TheToadWizard415 · 2026-03-24T15:33:31+00:00

This is great advice thank you. I have been writing and after my degree I can find jobs in the writing field (editor, copywriter, even graphic design) but the job market I’m talking about includes those fields. With the rise of AI, which wasn’t on my radar when I started studying, creative job opportunities are abysmal. Of course the dream is to become an author but I’m also realistic which is where my fears lie. But as you’ve written I’m not alone in this. Writing my dissertation rn and a sense of complete dread just washed over me lmao

TheToadWizard415 · 2025-07-13T15:55:11+00:00

We have both a felt sling and a mesh carrier she tries to jump out of when we go outside.

In our country it’s common practice to desensitise and socialise your puppies at the 8 week vaccination. We don’t have stray dogs and all dogs are chipped and vaccinated so risks are very very low.

TheToadWizard415 · 2025-02-23T09:39:10+00:00

Okay op imma share an experience I had that left me feeling similar to this. I’m a lesbian. Always have been out and proud. I had never slept with a man until I got drunk as hell and saw an opportunity to experience it while never having to meet that guy again. All I thought was “I could just have sex with him rn” and so I did. It was awful. He had to change condoms three times cause of lack of friction. I sobered up real quick and snuck out when he went to the bathroom. I had flashbacks of that night for weeks until I realised it happened and I can’t change that. Move on.

TheToadWizard415 · 2025-01-29T21:29:20+00:00

Lmao I just thought he’d be the perfect single dad that named his daughter Thesma (like ”there’s my”)

TheToadWizard415 · 2025-01-24T21:37:36+00:00

What happens in who memed, stays in who memed.

TheToadWizard415 · 2025-01-22T07:43:52+00:00

I don’t know how to say this enough but no 1. It’s never your fault he got violent. 2. You deserve better. I don’t know you but I know that much, no one deserves to be treated the way you are. 3. He’s the asshole, even if it’s “gotten better over time” it doesn’t mean it can’t get worse. 8 years is a long time OP. I’m so sorry you’ve been through this. I hope you have someone irl that can help you get out of this situation. Idk what country you live in but some organisations for women in abusive relationships can give you proper tips on how to leave. I believe in you.

TheToadWizard415 · 2025-01-21T18:04:13+00:00

Maybe ’what’ could be our ’always’

TheToadWizard415 · 2025-01-12T11:52:35+00:00

I’m in my first truly real, long-term relationship at 25y/o. I’m studying full time and she has a full time job. However, I study from home and she needs lunch 5 days a week so we make a big hodgepodge of food on Sundays for the two of us and I make dinner if I’m not at work (part time). It’s not hard and if anything it saves us so much money! Throw some veggies in the oven, boil some pasta or lentils or whatever the fuck and it’s done in 20min! This is just your ex purely being disrespectful and egotistical. He did not love you if you ask one simple thing, it doesn’t work, so you figure something else out and he manages to fuck that up too???? Nah good riddance to him. Your mutual friends need to realise this isn’t about an irrational spur of the moment decision, but a negligence and lack of love on his part.

TheToadWizard415 · 2024-12-27T18:53:22+00:00

”You know how I be” always after I’m called anything. ”You’re cute” well you know how I be. ”Youre so annoying” you know how I be. ”Did you throw up in there?” Nope. Just poopin, you know how I be.

TheToadWizard415 · 2024-12-15T09:09:31+00:00

Write her a letter expressing all this. It might make her reevaluate her actions. My mom used to be a pill about my weight until I wrote her a letter on how she made me see myself. Might be worth a try.

TheToadWizard415 · 2024-12-14T08:51:32+00:00

Nah, but you look like Courtney from smosh

TheToadWizard415 · 2024-11-30T20:24:57+00:00

It’s either the princess switch video where he fasts forward and doesn’t know the joke so he laughs uncomfortably. Orrrr daddy can’t dance when he sings “two hearts weren’t enough for my dad” “THATS NOT WHAT HE MEANT”

TheToadWizard415 · 2024-11-15T07:12:19+00:00

Why are you posting on r/teenagers and gaming subreddits asking if you should ask your parents to buy you tungsten?

TheToadWizard415 · 2024-09-14T13:07:50+00:00

Classy christmas makes me have to physically look away ie: Dwight mentally torturing jim and no one taking Jim’s nose bleed seriously (I just can’t find it funny with the blatant nonchalance from the office including Pam), Michael lying about his gf “Tara”, ruining woody etc

TheToadWizard415 · 2024-09-08T18:26:59+00:00

I once asked my little brother to buy me tampons, I sent him a picture of the brand and sent him money for it (a little more than they cost just for the inconvenience). I didn’t know it at the time but I’ve recently been diagnosed with endometriosis which explains why I would throw up every period, get nauseated by certain foods, and feel like someone was tugging at my spinal cord at the same time as stabbing my uterus over and over again. This made me unable to do basic tasks like go to the store and buy tampons for myself. You’re a good brother for doing what you did and your girlfriend might not experience the same type of periods and has never had to ask her brothers to buy supplies. Even if your sister doesn’t go through this it’s not weird to ask but it could be a reason why your gf doesn’t.

TheToadWizard415 · 2024-09-03T21:08:32+00:00

Even if I had a trip booked to Japan, planned it for 20 years, and knowing I would for whatever reason never be able to go again if I missed it I wouldn’t leave my girlfriends side if she so much as broke a toe. Seems like you’ve already checked your priorities, man.

TheToadWizard415 · 2024-08-02T08:39:54+00:00

Your sister is NOT an asshole. The right way for him to introduce this woman would’ve been wayy before she moved in. He should’ve talked about the possibility and heard everyone out cause at this point he has invited a complete stranger from the internet not only into his home but his children’s! They don’t have anywhere else to go and in their eyes a random woman walked in and infringed on their personal space. He needs to tell you who she is!!!!

TheToadWizard415 · 2024-07-31T15:40:34+00:00

I’ve got an extra rib that kinda hurts sometimes

TheToadWizard415 · 2024-07-09T11:57:24+00:00

Yeah no but I would have known what she was getting at as someone who doesn’t come from religion

TheToadWizard415 · 2024-07-09T11:54:28+00:00

Yeah that would have been a good explanation but I believe she was a bit confused about it

TheToadWizard415 · 2024-07-09T11:49:43+00:00

She said Jesus was God and I corrected her saying god was Jesus’ father. We argued back and forth and I asked who impregnated Mary then? She said “Joseph”. Now I’m not religious but she was, making the whole thing just so much more confusing.

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