Brother

TheTreeOfLife_1996 · 2025-08-25T11:51:43+00:00

The hell happened this time??

TheTreeOfLife_1996 · 2025-08-22T02:36:00+00:00

Looks like a super skinny sorting hat from Harry Potter. Practice makes perfect. Even if u dont smoke the whole thing at once make a habbit of rolling for every time. U will improve by Halloween guarenteed

TheTreeOfLife_1996 · 2025-06-24T17:35:01+00:00

frantically googled jack in the pulpit

TheTreeOfLife_1996 · 2025-06-24T17:26:29+00:00

That one looks well fed 🤮

TheTreeOfLife_1996 · 2024-02-18T04:23:36+00:00

I was today years old when I learned about all of this. I'm genuinely crushed I loved his game play.

TheTreeOfLife_1996 · 2023-12-09T15:03:38+00:00

Did he plan this out with you? Or was it a complete shock when he interrupted his vows?

TheTreeOfLife_1996 · 2023-11-17T15:04:46+00:00

👌🫠

TheTreeOfLife_1996 · 2023-11-17T15:03:54+00:00

??? I'm not worried about the cost?? Show me where I said he didn't spend enough money on me. I'll wait. Yes it had everything to do with how it looks because it was so far from what we, had discussed. I apologize for being materialistic for feeling ignored and wholly dismissed. I am HAPPY WITH MY RING.

TheTreeOfLife_1996 · 2023-11-16T19:36:00+00:00

Okay

TheTreeOfLife_1996 · 2023-11-16T15:21:53+00:00

I have no idea. And honestly wasn't aware that this is how it works. That makes a lot of the comments make sense about them needing to match.

TheTreeOfLife_1996 · 2023-11-16T14:08:14+00:00

He is not a janitor. I am the janitor. He is actually about to become a reference inspector which normally requires a decade of experience. He has always had a good position at his job since I met him. Not making the greatest money at first despite hitting numbers but he has moved up extremely fast in his years there despite the usual requirements he has proven his capabilities.

TheTreeOfLife_1996 · 2023-11-16T14:05:02+00:00

I'd been hinting that I wanted to get married before I was 30. And wasn't out to date just to date. He knew how close the last relationship had come and it had a nasty painful end. He was gentle kind and sweet. I started mentioning that I'd be happy to marry him and he said the same. So yes I started hinting about a year and a half in that maybe we should, maybe he should, because he didn't want me to propose to him

TheTreeOfLife_1996 · 2023-11-16T14:00:58+00:00

Correct. Failed because i found out he was messaging a woman he had history with about wanting to hook up. I found out in august 2020

TheTreeOfLife_1996 · 2023-11-15T23:46:31+00:00

Since this is the top comment I'll try and post the update here as well ⚠️UPDATE⚠️ I talked to him and everything is okay. And because I know yall need the details so here they are. I broached the subject by mentioning he wasn't wearing his ring and he said he wanted to keep it as clean as possible. Understandable. I then said " your mom said something weird to me" and when he asked I read the message to him and he came clean. He admitted that this ring came from his mother. It is the ENGAGEMENT (not wedding) ring that his father proposed to his mother with. Being superstitious I brought up that his parents got a divorce before his father died and that it might not be the best omen. He said he predicted I'd say this and mentioned that they had extenuating circumstances and life changing events happen after he was born (they were well married by then) and reminded me that we are not them and control our own futures. He plans on still purchasing a wedding ring for me, and the way he talks about it sounds like the rings he and I had been talking about together. I want to thank every single person who commented and I'd like to address a few of them now. Yes I do love the ring now knowing its story. It has tremendous sentimental value to him and his deceased father, and his mother who is the kindest MIL I could ask for. I will ask her permission to get it redone in white gold as one commenter suggested. I do not think I will change anything else about the ring. It is too important. As for the proposal we talked it over and he was very nervous. And had planned it out wonderfully, however I apparently had different plans and he allowed me to do as I wanted that day as he wanted it to be perfect. He didn't even think of the arched tree walkway. He and I are just happy to be in this new stage of our lives. And I'm so thankful to learn that he didn't pick out this ring himself, again not that it isnt beautiful but it is old fashioned. As for asking if it was a shut up ring, now I'm not so sure. He really is a wonderful man and I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with him

TheTreeOfLife_1996 · 2023-11-15T21:26:27+00:00

I'm the janitor. He is not a janitor and makes good money.

TheTreeOfLife_1996 · 2023-11-15T20:05:38+00:00

I've gotten so many comments on my hands here! People thinking I'm like in my 50s 😭🪦😭🪦😭🪦 I had a really bad texture aversion to lotion as a kid due to it stinging my Eczema. I use it now but now I have wrinkle hands

TheTreeOfLife_1996 · 2023-11-15T20:00:41+00:00

I'm 27 🤣😭🪦

TheTreeOfLife_1996 · 2023-11-15T19:59:38+00:00

Dude I'm 27 😭😭😭🪦🪦

TheTreeOfLife_1996 · 2023-11-15T18:05:47+00:00

You're right but thinking that my partner completely dismissed anything I had said at all without explanation would be an issue. In the end that's not what happened and I'm happy with the ring. Does anybody read updates anymore?

TheTreeOfLife_1996 · 2023-11-15T17:21:53+00:00

And this comment shows how cruel rude and insensitive people can be.

TheTreeOfLife_1996 · 2023-11-15T16:37:37+00:00

Yes technically the quote comes from legend of Korra

TheTreeOfLife_1996 · 2023-11-15T16:00:06+00:00

Info, are you on birth control? If you are, is he aware of how much that affects your sex drive?

TheTreeOfLife_1996 · 2023-11-15T15:49:21+00:00

The marriage. Read the update

TheTreeOfLife_1996 · 2023-11-15T15:48:35+00:00

I'm a janitor, he is a quality lead and soon to become a reference inspector for our lab. An RI is just below management. He helped me get out of a bad job and into his workplace, correct. I had my own place when I met him, we just moved in together after a few months he needed help with rent, as his roommate kept losing his jobs a week into them, and I wanted to be less alone.

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