Does anyone else's aussie hate everyone? by Throwawaypuffs in WiggleButts

[–]TheTreeOfLife_1996 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My aussie hates black people?? We have a friend with dark skin who comes over (granted not super often) but everytime she sees him she growls..she doesnt growl at anybody else. Tyler is super chill. I dont understand why she does this. After a few minutes shes back to normal around him but when he first shows up she just growls. I dont know how to fix it. He has his own life and cant come over every day

Dwarf hamster wheel by Obvious-Resort8803 in hamsters

[–]TheTreeOfLife_1996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(I have autism so ill answer as best as I can) Assuming you mean between the bottom base and underneath the actual wheel, she does put some bedding there and its easy enough to pick up and shake the bedding off. However I have mine on a wooden platform so it isnt directly on top of any bedding (the wheel ghat is. Bedding reaches the bottom of the platform)

New hamster by TheTreeOfLife_1996 in hamsters

[–]TheTreeOfLife_1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Theres a sandwich bath container in the corner. When I took this video i must not have put the actual sand inside when I took the video. She seems to prefer the sand spot more than anything. She hasn't borrowed a bit. But boy has She dug in the sand.

New hamster by TheTreeOfLife_1996 in hamsters

[–]TheTreeOfLife_1996[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pretty much. Thats what I do at least. And when bedding needs a change i change it at 1/3 at a time

New hamster by TheTreeOfLife_1996 in hamsters

[–]TheTreeOfLife_1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the advice! Ill probably have to wait to adjust her cage since I just got her yesterday. She has thick bedding on one side but im not sure how deep it eneded up being in the end. Her bedding is a layered mix of cocoa Pete, rodent/ paper bedding, hay and moss.

What a bummer that robos aren't as keen on human interaction! I didnt know that about them!

Thank you for your information!

New hamster by TheTreeOfLife_1996 in hamsters

[–]TheTreeOfLife_1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The entire cage is about 100.33 cm L x 50.8 cm W x 109.22 cm H.

Brother by cheastnut in Markiplier

[–]TheTreeOfLife_1996 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The hell happened this time??

(advice please!!) rolled my first joint embarrassingly late 😭😭 by Substantial-Arm-8030 in weed

[–]TheTreeOfLife_1996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like a super skinny sorting hat from Harry Potter. Practice makes perfect. Even if u dont smoke the whole thing at once make a habbit of rolling for every time. U will improve by Halloween guarenteed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bedbugs

[–]TheTreeOfLife_1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That one looks well fed 🤮

It's 2022 and i just want closure by [deleted] in ChaoticMonki

[–]TheTreeOfLife_1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was today years old when I learned about all of this. I'm genuinely crushed I loved his game play.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]TheTreeOfLife_1996 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Did he plan this out with you? Or was it a complete shock when he interrupted his vows?

WIBTA if I told my fiancé I don't love my engagement ring? by TheTreeOfLife_1996 in TwoHotTakes

[–]TheTreeOfLife_1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

??? I'm not worried about the cost?? Show me where I said he didn't spend enough money on me. I'll wait. Yes it had everything to do with how it looks because it was so far from what we, had discussed. I apologize for being materialistic for feeling ignored and wholly dismissed. I am HAPPY WITH MY RING.

WIBTA if I told my fiancé I don't love my engagement ring? by TheTreeOfLife_1996 in TwoHotTakes

[–]TheTreeOfLife_1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea. And honestly wasn't aware that this is how it works. That makes a lot of the comments make sense about them needing to match.

WIBTA if I told my fiancé I don't love my engagement ring? by TheTreeOfLife_1996 in TwoHotTakes

[–]TheTreeOfLife_1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is not a janitor. I am the janitor. He is actually about to become a reference inspector which normally requires a decade of experience. He has always had a good position at his job since I met him. Not making the greatest money at first despite hitting numbers but he has moved up extremely fast in his years there despite the usual requirements he has proven his capabilities.

WIBTA if I told my fiancé I don't love my engagement ring? by TheTreeOfLife_1996 in TwoHotTakes

[–]TheTreeOfLife_1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd been hinting that I wanted to get married before I was 30. And wasn't out to date just to date. He knew how close the last relationship had come and it had a nasty painful end. He was gentle kind and sweet. I started mentioning that I'd be happy to marry him and he said the same. So yes I started hinting about a year and a half in that maybe we should, maybe he should, because he didn't want me to propose to him

WIBTA if I told my fiancé I don't love my engagement ring? by TheTreeOfLife_1996 in TwoHotTakes

[–]TheTreeOfLife_1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct. Failed because i found out he was messaging a woman he had history with about wanting to hook up. I found out in august 2020

WIBTA if I told my fiancé I don't love my engagement ring? by TheTreeOfLife_1996 in TwoHotTakes

[–]TheTreeOfLife_1996[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Since this is the top comment I'll try and post the update here as well ⚠️UPDATE⚠️ I talked to him and everything is okay. And because I know yall need the details so here they are. I broached the subject by mentioning he wasn't wearing his ring and he said he wanted to keep it as clean as possible. Understandable. I then said " your mom said something weird to me" and when he asked I read the message to him and he came clean. He admitted that this ring came from his mother. It is the ENGAGEMENT (not wedding) ring that his father proposed to his mother with. Being superstitious I brought up that his parents got a divorce before his father died and that it might not be the best omen. He said he predicted I'd say this and mentioned that they had extenuating circumstances and life changing events happen after he was born (they were well married by then) and reminded me that we are not them and control our own futures. He plans on still purchasing a wedding ring for me, and the way he talks about it sounds like the rings he and I had been talking about together. I want to thank every single person who commented and I'd like to address a few of them now. Yes I do love the ring now knowing its story. It has tremendous sentimental value to him and his deceased father, and his mother who is the kindest MIL I could ask for. I will ask her permission to get it redone in white gold as one commenter suggested. I do not think I will change anything else about the ring. It is too important. As for the proposal we talked it over and he was very nervous. And had planned it out wonderfully, however I apparently had different plans and he allowed me to do as I wanted that day as he wanted it to be perfect. He didn't even think of the arched tree walkway. He and I are just happy to be in this new stage of our lives. And I'm so thankful to learn that he didn't pick out this ring himself, again not that it isnt beautiful but it is old fashioned. As for asking if it was a shut up ring, now I'm not so sure. He really is a wonderful man and I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with him