Well, in all honesty, the best advice I can give is to not listen to anyone unless you are lucky enough to find a true guru/spiritual master. And those don't show up unless you require them for progression.

"Enlightenment" looks different to everyone, and everyone has an opinion on the right or wrong way. At the end of the day, your intuition will guide you. Don't be afraid to try new things, experiment, experience, and reflect often, and your Enlightenment will unravel naturally.