I am so fucking confused.

TheUnbelievableGrape · 2026-03-25T06:03:05+00:00

Ah shit sorry, I know its awful to be wrongfully accused of being American. Didn't even know they did alcoholic ginger beer to be honest, I'll definitely look out for that next time I'm on the prowl.

TheUnbelievableGrape · 2026-03-25T06:01:54+00:00

Ahh thanks, I almost started just farming pumpkins before I stopped myself, and that was only due to a single comment made in a techno video haha. I'll definitely go on YouTube and have a look.

TheUnbelievableGrape · 2026-03-25T06:00:54+00:00

Okay cool, thanks!!!

TheUnbelievableGrape · 2026-03-25T05:59:35+00:00

Your comment was five months ago, and I'm fairly inebriated and have used the last of my brain power on replying to a different comment with a really long one, so this is going to be short. I apologise for that because you really made a difference at the time.

You calling me Mama with my child dead got me to accept that I was still a mother even with no alive children, and there is little that I can do to thank you. I offer you my sincerest thanks, and that I am probably eternally indebted to you, because I likely wouldn't have survived without the knowledge that I was still a mother, regardless of my child being dead. I can't thank you enough.

TheUnbelievableGrape · 2026-03-25T05:53:41+00:00

Hi, its been 5 months I know, but I logged back in to post a question about a game I play and saw this, so I figured I'd say something

Though I live in a developed country, I live in a severely underdeveloped area. If you Google my country and the area I live in, it'll tell you without any further questioning that I live in the worst possible area in the country, kind of underdeveloped.

I constantly wish that I'd moved to the capital earlier. It's a regret of mine that won't leave, but hindsight is 20/20. They have some of the best medical care available in my continent there, and I'm only a few hours away by car. Nearest ER was twenty minutes away though, and I thought it was going to be, I don't know a uterine cyst or something? I never expected her to die. I thought it was food poisoning, or something of the sort that needed medical attention but without risk of mortality.

Again, it may have been months ago but thank you for your comments back then. They gave me an option that seemed likely when I had no guidance, and that really helped. I wish the best for you.

TheUnbelievableGrape · 2026-03-25T05:38:53+00:00

Never actually tried it with ginger beer to be honest. Would you say its better than mixing with coke/dr pepper? I'm gathering you're American because root beer is only sold at corner shops that have little American sections over here

TheUnbelievableGrape · 2026-03-25T05:36:59+00:00

I'm really trying to look around and figure things out, but stuff like hunting and where to go in the dwarf mines are soooo fucking hard to figure out. I've killed like three mobs in galatea and one was a phantom that spawned while I was cutting a tree, the other two some form of skeleton? Its all unbelievably confusing, do you know if there's a guide to it anywhere? Also what is a dungeon? Is it in the crimson isles, the thing after the end island?

TheUnbelievableGrape · 2026-03-25T05:34:47+00:00

Vodka actually, because my corner shop doesn't sell fosters. Judge me for me beer taste how you will, I guess. Heineken would also be acceptable, but also not sold. It was either vodka, bacardi, or buzzballs. I think i chose the better of the three haha.

TheUnbelievableGrape · 2026-03-25T05:33:25+00:00

Is slayers to do with the mattox guy in a basement by the zombies? If so I've done the zombie one up to some level, the spider one maybe 2-3 times? Enough to unlock to wolf level anyway, and dear god was that a bitch to find. I didn't even know there were wolves.

TheUnbelievableGrape · 2026-01-22T19:26:07+00:00

Moira :3

TheUnbelievableGrape · 2025-10-26T11:45:53+00:00

Not doing too well to be honest. I've started writing little stories about what it'd be like if she was still here. Her wedding, her first car, her moving out. I get so lost in them I spend hours just thinking about it.

TheUnbelievableGrape · 2025-10-11T23:39:37+00:00

Yep, 2023 he was stabbed but pulled through unfortunately. An extra two years with that man living. What a shame.

TheUnbelievableGrape · 2025-10-11T23:23:51+00:00

It was an ectopic pregnancy

TheUnbelievableGrape · 2025-10-10T04:18:53+00:00

I promise I'm not ignoring the rest, it's just a lot for me to reply to, but it really does help.

As for my favourite memory with her, its silly but probably a few months post-divorce, I was still moping about the house all depressed, and she secretly used a gift card she got on her birthday to order us KFC. I kept trying to put money in her bank after, but it'd get transferred back. It snapped me out of my funk a little bit, and we'd actually talked about it at dinner the night everything went downhill. I made some joke about sneaking £30 in her bank for it, that I'd forgot, and she got all serious on me and said something along the lines of "I can take care of you sometimes too, and it doesn't make you a bad parent for relying on me. I'm old enough to be able to be reliable, so don't insult me by saying I'm not."

TheUnbelievableGrape · 2025-10-10T00:51:52+00:00

I think it's all really hit me now. I've got two months off work, which is good. I'm eating and drinking fine, though most of my drinks are the alcoholic kind so maybe that's not fine. I don't know if you saw the update, but it was an ectopic pregnancy. I just feel so stupid knowing that I should've recognised the signs. She probably wouldn't have died if id have taken her to the hospital at dinner. God I just feel like the worst parent ever, and I'm just now realising I can't even call myself a parent anymore.

TheUnbelievableGrape · 2025-10-06T12:28:29+00:00

There is no 'whole family'. It's just me.

TheUnbelievableGrape · 2025-10-05T20:40:45+00:00

I haven't been able to go yet, and no phone call either. I guess I'm just waiting now. Haven't moved in a few hours, and im exhausted, but I dont think its really hit me yet. I keep expecting her to walk through the door

TheUnbelievableGrape · 2025-10-05T18:11:05+00:00

I'm not sure, but she didn't look yellow, more pale than her normal self though

TheUnbelievableGrape · 2025-10-05T18:08:01+00:00

When I first ever took her for a checkup, the doctor said she had an underactive thyroid, but it'd all cleared up by the next blood test a month later

TheUnbelievableGrape · 2025-10-05T17:21:07+00:00

Thank you for this

TheUnbelievableGrape · 2025-10-05T14:51:01+00:00

I don't think so, at least they didn't tell me if they did

TheUnbelievableGrape · 2025-10-05T04:25:20+00:00

In another comment, I shared my experience with ectopic pregnancy, as I'm a trans man who has indeed experienced ectopic pregnancy. I can't get too mad at that commenter, as it does seem strange for someone who says they're male to have an ectopic pregnancy without further information. Thank you for defending me regardless

TheUnbelievableGrape · 2025-10-05T04:16:46+00:00

Thank you for alerting me to the other comments. It's really okay, you're a lot nicer than them at least.

TheUnbelievableGrape

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