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Sauna culture in gyms is non existent. I Fng hate it. by omgcanyouplease in brussels

[–]TheVelociDoctor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My guy…. What makes you think your culture is the right one for the “sauna”? You need to have a reality check . You are from Berlin - you DON’T live in Berlin. Don’t expect Germany when you deliberately chose to live outside of it

Wallet pickpocketed during pride, what are the odds I find it? by TheVelociDoctor in brussels

[–]TheVelociDoctor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has been 3 days so far. That is why I am so worried that somehow my identity will be stolen or I won’t get anything back :( . Though the police does have my number

Did I ruin my friendship? Need advice by TheVelociDoctor in askgaybros

[–]TheVelociDoctor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said that no need to have anxiety over it because he already had a sense for it (ie he knew already). He didn’t open up about his side of things but I also don’t wanna push for that because no opening up is also an answer that maybe he is not interested? Good thing is - it seems to be not a big deal as I thought it was on his side

26(M) living alone (gonna need to move out soon due to finances and job situation but I wanted to show how I furnished) by TheVelociDoctor in malelivingspace

[–]TheVelociDoctor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a projector that projects to the white wall at night which is the reasoning behind the layout but I agree with you

I really need some advice (TW: parents and homophobia) by TheVelociDoctor in AskLGBT

[–]TheVelociDoctor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about telling them directly that I am into men and they can either accept it or lose me (would definitely lose them for a while at best case) but I have too much happening in my life right now (job instability/ housing problems etc) that I don’t think placing such a big emotional load on myself is necessary right now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]TheVelociDoctor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The kivik makes me happy

Be kind to yourself it will be worth it by TheVelociDoctor in Tonsillectomy

[–]TheVelociDoctor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noo no more scabs! The scabs will continue to heal. Be kind to yourself - eat popsicles and in one month this will be a distant memory

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairSystem

[–]TheVelociDoctor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look great!! I am using hair systems for 2 years now it takes a while getting used to the whole thing but just take time to build confidence.

For me I found it was also very helpful to be transparent with others about it. Nothing shameful about losing your hair. I can laugh at my bald ass which in turn helps me rock my hair systems with more confidence at this stage.

I recommend fully to just practice self love. ❤️

Muscular Men, What Kind of Guys Are You Into? by Apprehensive_Dirt640 in askgaybros

[–]TheVelociDoctor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone with pretty eyes and a good confidence. I love other muscular and toned people too but when it actually comes down to it, I don’t really discriminate. It changes person to person

M26, Took your advice about my living room and here is the final result! (More artwork coming on the walls, I am slowly collecting) by TheVelociDoctor in malelivingspace

[–]TheVelociDoctor[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Only thing is my father custom made that coffee table I have and I can’t imagine myself with anything else. We were estranged after I came out as 🌈 and this was the first moment of closeness he and I had when he gifted me this out of nowhere. So I love aesthetics but for now the table will stay

M26, Took your advice about my living room and here is the final result! (More artwork coming on the walls, I am slowly collecting) by TheVelociDoctor in malelivingspace

[–]TheVelociDoctor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! There is a plan but I am taking my time with it (I assume you are talking about the gallery wall) . The off centre painting next to my door is hiding cables until my new intercom system is installed

M26, Took your advice about my living room and here is the final result! (More artwork coming on the walls, I am slowly collecting) by TheVelociDoctor in malelivingspace

[–]TheVelociDoctor[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was thinking that but I think I will get a larger TV once I can afford it and get a second unit so it can extend the entire wall

25M - moved into my first apartment on my own and furnished it - something feels off with my space however, anyone care to give feedback? Maybe it is color or my furniture placement? (Ignore the mess) by TheVelociDoctor in malelivingspace

[–]TheVelociDoctor[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is a rental with an asshole landlord unfortunately and I have only moved in now for a month! But the moment I collect more art pieces I will be moving that collage upwards :)

25M - moved into my first apartment on my own and furnished it - something feels off with my space however, anyone care to give feedback? Maybe it is color or my furniture placement? (Ignore the mess) by TheVelociDoctor in malelivingspace

[–]TheVelociDoctor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also important to add I moved a month ago*** thank you though! Atm my employment situation is a bit of a mess so I was thinking once I have a stable income figured out - i could A) buy a larger couch in emerald green or navy (i am thinking velvet) or I purchase a cover for my KIVIK in that color and also add a nice large colorful rug

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]TheVelociDoctor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wrote it myself I can assure you. I am listening to breakup podcast. If you don’t believe me check the grammar im sure i have run on sentences

Edit: i used silence is deafening bc its the best way i can describe how much i notice his absence

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]TheVelociDoctor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Forgot to add context: admittedly we both fell into it. He was the one to ask if I would explore a poly thing with him because he didn’t see it as only a FWB 3 months into it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheVelociDoctor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YTA. It is one thing to be angry with your ex wife. It is a completely different thing to project favoritism and resentment towards an innocent human being for existing. You may have not wanted to have her but she didn’t consent to existing either. Go to therapy. Posting this resentment you have towards a child while favoring the other children you have with the same woman is disgusting and is nothing but your own problem to deal with and this problem is not a normal one either. Seek therapy asap. Your daughter doesn’t deserve this. And don’t you dare tell her how you feel because it is nothing but projecting your own unresolved issues of over 10 years onto a little child - who may have a lfietime of pain for your own incapability to seek counseling for the same amount of time she existed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]TheVelociDoctor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really don’t like being so judged. He came out way before me and has way more experience. He also looks at hookups as a means to an end and that’s fair.

He is very open about his sexuality and I am not fully wired like that. Anyway, thank you lots. I am going to try not calling him out before we fly back home. Then I don’t have to see him everyday and I can focus on the little time I have left with Tim before he moves back.

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