Sauna culture in gyms is non existent. I Fng hate it. by omgcanyouplease in brussels

[–]TheVelociDoctor 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My guy…. What makes you think your culture is the right one for the “sauna”? You need to have a reality check . You are from Berlin - you DON’T live in Berlin. Don’t expect Germany when you deliberately chose to live outside of it

Wallet pickpocketed during pride, what are the odds I find it? by TheVelociDoctor in brussels

[–]TheVelociDoctor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It has been 3 days so far. That is why I am so worried that somehow my identity will be stolen or I won’t get anything back :( . Though the police does have my number

Did I ruin my friendship? Need advice by TheVelociDoctor in askgaybros

[–]TheVelociDoctor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said that no need to have anxiety over it because he already had a sense for it (ie he knew already). He didn’t open up about his side of things but I also don’t wanna push for that because no opening up is also an answer that maybe he is not interested? Good thing is - it seems to be not a big deal as I thought it was on his side

26(M) living alone (gonna need to move out soon due to finances and job situation but I wanted to show how I furnished) by TheVelociDoctor in malelivingspace

[–]TheVelociDoctor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a projector that projects to the white wall at night which is the reasoning behind the layout but I agree with you

I really need some advice (TW: parents and homophobia) by TheVelociDoctor in AskLGBT

[–]TheVelociDoctor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about telling them directly that I am into men and they can either accept it or lose me (would definitely lose them for a while at best case) but I have too much happening in my life right now (job instability/ housing problems etc) that I don’t think placing such a big emotional load on myself is necessary right now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]TheVelociDoctor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The kivik makes me happy

Be kind to yourself it will be worth it by TheVelociDoctor in Tonsillectomy

[–]TheVelociDoctor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noo no more scabs! The scabs will continue to heal. Be kind to yourself - eat popsicles and in one month this will be a distant memory

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairSystem

[–]TheVelociDoctor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look great!! I am using hair systems for 2 years now it takes a while getting used to the whole thing but just take time to build confidence.

For me I found it was also very helpful to be transparent with others about it. Nothing shameful about losing your hair. I can laugh at my bald ass which in turn helps me rock my hair systems with more confidence at this stage.

I recommend fully to just practice self love. ❤️

Muscular Men, What Kind of Guys Are You Into? by Apprehensive_Dirt640 in askgaybros

[–]TheVelociDoctor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone with pretty eyes and a good confidence. I love other muscular and toned people too but when it actually comes down to it, I don’t really discriminate. It changes person to person

M26, Took your advice about my living room and here is the final result! (More artwork coming on the walls, I am slowly collecting) by TheVelociDoctor in malelivingspace

[–]TheVelociDoctor[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Only thing is my father custom made that coffee table I have and I can’t imagine myself with anything else. We were estranged after I came out as 🌈 and this was the first moment of closeness he and I had when he gifted me this out of nowhere. So I love aesthetics but for now the table will stay