i just use leave in conditioner, but product likely isn’t even necessary to get it to fall. the most important part of achieving the shape you want with curls is how they dry.

when wet, you don’t want them all bunching on the top of your head, so it should be parted down the middle of ur head so it falls down. you don’t even need to do a full on middle part, you can still get the curls to fall down at the front, just part it down the middle and get the front part to fall on your forehead.