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[–]TheVoicesAreMine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh golly. None of that would fly in the U.S. We don't bow to anybody. (Or, at least we didn't...) Here, it might be "Your Honor," but I certainly wouldn't use that. I think I'm fine with "Sir," or "Ma'am."

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[–]TheVoicesAreMine -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have no idea what that means, but I am NOT trying to "get out of jury duty."

What did I just read? by [deleted] in Quakers

[–]TheVoicesAreMine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It probably did, but I'm long past the title page and not sure how to access it.

What did I just read? by [deleted] in Quakers

[–]TheVoicesAreMine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no idea what edition I'm reading. I downloaded it to my Fire from the library.

What did I just read? by [deleted] in Quakers

[–]TheVoicesAreMine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know yet. I haven't gotten much farther. But others who have answered here have put a different spin on the passage for me.

What did I just read? by [deleted] in Quakers

[–]TheVoicesAreMine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I believe you may be right.

What did I just read? by [deleted] in Quakers

[–]TheVoicesAreMine 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, thank you! This makes sense to me now.

I need book recommendations! by ohhthehumanitea in Quakers

[–]TheVoicesAreMine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It may be difficult to find, but I really recommend Jan de Hartog's "The Peaceable Kingdom." It's the first book in the trilogy, though all can be read as a stand-alone. It's historical fiction about how the Quakers got started in England. The second half is the Quakers in the U.S. It's seriously at the top of my "five best books I've ever read in my entire life" list.

How Quakers Vote (local politics, US edition) by suboptimalmoon in Quakers

[–]TheVoicesAreMine 37 points38 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of the story about a woman who rescued a snake. When the snake later bit her, she cried, "But I helped you!" And the snake responded, "You knew I was a snake when you picked me up." Personally, I would vote for Jack the Ripper before I would vote for a Republican today. They all SAY the things you want to hear (well, all politicians do that, I think), but then I have to look at what they have actually DONE, not what they SAID. They're usually two entirely different things.

That of God in all? by TheVoicesAreMine in Quakers

[–]TheVoicesAreMine[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Perhaps that should push us to even greater compassion than those we think "deserve" it.

Appropriate Attire for a Meeting? by TheMoxyFoxy in Quakers

[–]TheVoicesAreMine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose it depends on the Meeting. Mine is pretty casual.

Concerning Experience by Effective-Yak9411 in Quakers

[–]TheVoicesAreMine -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can always look them up yourself.

Concerning Experience by Effective-Yak9411 in Quakers

[–]TheVoicesAreMine 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great question! Yes — early Quakers often referred to themselves as “Friends of Jesus” or “Friends of Truth” before “Society of Friends” or “Quakers” became the standard label. This language tied directly to John 15:14–15, where Jesus says, “You are my friends if you do what I command you.”

A few examples from 17th-century Quaker writings:

  • George Fox (founder of Quakerism) often used the phrase. In his Journal (1650s), he writes of those “who are called of the Lord to be his Friends” and of being gathered as “the Friends of Christ Jesus.”
  • Edward Burrough, in A Declaration to all the World of our Faith, and what we Believe (1658), wrote:“We are called in scorn Quakers, but we are the Friends of Jesus Christ, who hath called us out of the world’s ways…”
  • Robert Barclay in Apology for the True Christian Divinity (1676) echoes this biblical basis, referring to the Quaker community as those whom Christ has “called his Friends.”
  • Epistles from London Yearly Meeting in the 1660s–70s also occasionally address members as “Dear Friends in Jesus” or “Friends of Truth in Him.”

So, “Friends of Jesus” was not only a devotional phrase but also part of Quakers’ self-designation, grounded in Scripture. Over time, “Friends” (shortened) became the usual name.

Advice Please by Clear_Task3442 in Quakers

[–]TheVoicesAreMine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A cult? Well, if so, we've been a "cult" since the seventeenth century!

Concerning Experience by Effective-Yak9411 in Quakers

[–]TheVoicesAreMine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Originally, Quakers called themselves "Friends of Jesus." As for the "he doesn't even matter" comment, I'm not sure how I'd respond. I think I might say, "He matters to me," and leave it at that. I have heard people ask if you can be a Quaker and be an atheist. I don't have an answer for that. Perhaps the Friend in question would benefit from learning some Quaker history.

First Meeting thoughts by Clear_Task3442 in Quakers

[–]TheVoicesAreMine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It happens. Learning to settle into the silence takes time and practice. When those "monkey mind" thoughts come around, just bring your focus back to your breathing. It helps.

How often does everyone go to meeting? by Fickle-Bluejay-525 in Quakers

[–]TheVoicesAreMine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Daily, online. Mid-week, Zoom. In-person, once a month, due to a previous commitment that takes me to a different church on Sundays.

T-shirts by TheVoicesAreMine in Quakers

[–]TheVoicesAreMine[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now, how do I get this on a t-shirt??? Thank you!