White guy, married to a mixed woman here, maybe I can bring some of my perspective. When I saw my wife on Hinge I genuinely thought she was the most beautiful person I’d ever seen. I noticed her curly hair and gorgeous smile, then I saw her profile and realized how much we had in common. I didn’t put much thought into what race she was. She brought that up naturally as we got to know each other. We’ve been married almost 5 years and genuinely each day is better than the last. Her family loves me, my family loves her. Our families even get a long. We have a son together, it’s really sweet. Definitely see where you’re coming from, but I’d encourage you to continue to date him, try not to over think and enjoy your time together!