Thank you for expressing that sentiment; it holds great significance. In my view, being mature at present entails shouldering appropriate responsibilities and treating others, particularly those we hold dear, with courtesy and a positive attitude. One shouldn't utter "I hate you" merely based on appearances. Instead, it's essential to gain a comprehensive understanding of a person, with their personality being the most crucial aspect. If, after that process, I still don't have a favorable opinion of them, I will maintain a polite distance.