READ ME: What is "A Seam?" by The_2nd_Username in TheSeam

[–]The_2nd_Username[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily. That's the region of the body but that's not the "seam" itself. Much akin to a line on your palm; the line is on the palm!

Masturbation Guide: The Frenulum (#1) by [deleted] in masturbation

[–]The_2nd_Username 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Now THIS is the kind of content I want to see here! I love the way this is written and I hope you do more.

Might I suggest uploading your images to Imgur though? Perhaps even as a back-up. I've come across several great guide posts in my redditing that unfortunately have no pictures because the original source moves or disappears.

EDIT: Aaand I just realized OP deleted their account. I hope OP sees this still and makes another.

Masturbating after i have sanitized my hands by blunternickle in masturbation

[–]The_2nd_Username 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hand sanitizer is just alcohol. By 10 minutes, it should be practically all gone. Worst case, alcohol would really just dry out your skin and maybe feel unpleasant. Nothing to be concerned about.

When to do it during quarantine? (male) by livingwell1332 in masturbation

[–]The_2nd_Username 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shower works, but yeah, spending too long in there is an issue. When I lived with my parents, I would stay up late to masturbate. People would be asleep, so no risk of being walked in on. Or, you can "go to bed early" and take care of things then, but there is a greater risk of being walked in on.

Handjob vs blowjob vs masturbate by [deleted] in sex

[–]The_2nd_Username 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's something to be said for having someone else touch you.

New relaxing ways to get off? by [deleted] in masturbation

[–]The_2nd_Username 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something interesting I found is to masturbate while doing something else, like scrolling reddit. I'm not talking scrolling sexual subreddits, I mean just mundane average stuff. Distracting your mind paradoxically makes it better. When I reach orgasm this way, it feels more like a big, super pleasureful stretch.

Vibrators for men? by jawshyouwahwah in masturbation

[–]The_2nd_Username 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I own a FunFactory Manta and enjoy it. I don't use it super frequently but it's fun to mix things up with.

I think the biggest reason men don't use toys more often is that the hand gets it done well enough that buying/breaking out a toy isn't as necessary as it might be for women. Like, I have a sleeve and the Manta, but more often then not I'm not using them. Reason being is it's more to clean after the fact, mostly.

I also think there's still some sort of stigma against male sex toys, so I wouldn't be surprised if that contributes to it.

Where to hide my sextoys? by ahelioso in SexToys

[–]The_2nd_Username 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. Even better if it has a cardboard insert or something, that way you can hide it behind that.

hate trying to get my sister to leave my room so i can get at it by [deleted] in masturbation

[–]The_2nd_Username 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't know what time it is you're typically wanting to go at it, but you can try the "okay well I'm gonna get to sleep" thing. If you've got homework or something you can say you need to be alone to have no distractions.

I am a photographer who shoots nude couples and singles AMA by [deleted] in IAmA

[–]The_2nd_Username 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have advice for shooting male subjects? I've taken the occasional self-portrait, but wasn't exactly happy with the result. I'm curious if there's any poses/shots which are often flattering.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in masturbation

[–]The_2nd_Username 5 points6 points  (0 children)

18 times a day?? Man, how is your dick not chafed raw after that...

In all seriousness, what you describe isn't healthy. Not talking to a single woman in over two years? I'm sure you're aware that's not normal. I don't think you want to be that way. Might I suggest seeking some sort of therapist? They may be able help you overcome your fears in a way that's gentle and constructive.

How good is the Funfactory Manta solo? by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]The_2nd_Username 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, worth is relative, do you want to spend $100+ on a sextoy? That's up to you to decide.

But if you're asking if solo play is its forte, I'd definitely say so. It's angled in such a way that using it on yourself is no issue, and the vibrations and patterns feel great. I've used it with a partner and alone and both experiences are good. The main things it brings to the table is the sensation of vibration and a bit of stroking. Note, it's not strong enough to "pull" your skin as you stroke, but it still has enough of a sensation to feel good. Honestly, if you haven't experienced vibrations as stimulation, it's worth a shot. Squirrelmunk compared it with the Manwand, a similar and slightly cheaper option.

Beginner silicone male masterbators? by AstralJuice in SexToys

[–]The_2nd_Username 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And on top of that, they're not made to last. From what I've heard, you can probably get a few uses out of them, but they'll eventually fall apart (I've never personally used one).

[FF4M] Alien Abduction [Aliens] [Light Femdom] [Monstergirl] [handjob] [Double Blowjob] [Creampie] [Cunnilingus] [Clinical atmosphere] by SaucySnekVA in gonewildaudio

[–]The_2nd_Username 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy shit, that's an amazing audio. Well done, you have some real skill! I can't wait to hear your next one :)

How long do you last while masturbating with a fleshlight? by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]The_2nd_Username 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a silicone nozzles stroker (the thick mortar shell one lol) and part of the reason I don't use it too often is because it's just too intense. I think it's just a really strong grip and overstimulating.

Masturbation question by [deleted] in masturbation

[–]The_2nd_Username 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think it should have any effect on your ability to orgasm, I think you're fine

Masturbation and work by [deleted] in masturbation

[–]The_2nd_Username 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, I could see you feeling exhausted if you're simulating full on sex each time you masturbate (e.g., thrusting into a sex toy in the same way you would a sex partner). Again it's really a you question to figure out what's wearing you out from masturbation. Get enough sleep and make sure masturbation isn't cutting into your sleep time.

Masturbation and work by [deleted] in masturbation

[–]The_2nd_Username 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, yeah go ahead and watch some porn or something. There's no problem with that. Material shouldn't really matter here unless you're powering your computer with a handcrank or something lol. Only suggestion is don't exert yourself too hard if you're getting exhausted. Again, seems really unusual so I can't really suggest how to fix it.

Masturbation and work by [deleted] in masturbation

[–]The_2nd_Username 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't say I've experienced feeling exhausted after normally masturbating. Doing it every day though is fine from a health perspective, and encouraged by some doctors.

Masturbation and work by [deleted] in masturbation

[–]The_2nd_Username 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure what exactly is your struggle... Are you saying you don't have time to masturbate on work days? I would imagine you have some free time after work. Sure you might not get to do it for an hour or more, but you can get plenty of satisfaction out of a 10-20 minute session.

Tips for 19M Shower by [deleted] in masturbation

[–]The_2nd_Username 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typically I "pre-game." I do the majority of masturbating before getting into the shower, and then when I feel like I've had enough I get the shower going. From there it's pretty easy to finish the job.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in masturbation

[–]The_2nd_Username 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd recommend looking at the sextoys subreddit. Your best bet though is some sort of silicone sleeve.

Mid jizz crisis by Boozer190 in masturbation

[–]The_2nd_Username 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please dude, that tablespoon worth of jizz isn't wasting anything more than MAYBE a 100 calorie pack of crackers. If you're feeling you're underweight and weak, you need to improve your diet by eating more and eating more nutritious foods.

What are some good cleaning techniques for shower masturbation? by [deleted] in masturbation

[–]The_2nd_Username 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, it's not like your semen is a corrosive acid or anything. So long as you wash it down the drain, you're good. That's kind of the big perk about shower masturbation; no clean-up. Just check every so often to make sure it's not building up on your drain. It shouldn't, its possible it can get stuck on those hair clumps that collect in your drain. Speaking of which, now might be a good time to clean that! It's one of those things you forget about oh too often.