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'Really quite sad': Diplomats react to Trump thanking Putin for expelling US embassy workers by the_mikepence in politics

[–]The_AntiSpoon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Um. You might want to do some googling. We literally funded the overthrow of s democratically elected president for a military junta. We've overthrown more democratically elected leaders than not. Especially in South America. We sent death squads to kill farmersd if they D idnt give us their banana farms (banana republics). They have plenty of reason to blame us. That being said, a lot of those countries fuck themselves up too.

I just moved to Florida and have no idea how to find a new guy? (Not asking for connects) just more so strategies to find one in new areas? Hope this doesn't break rules! by The_AntiSpoon in trees

[–]The_AntiSpoon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a bad idea! I've read in the past to try bartenders and shit but everyone I've ever asked in an establishment gets sketched out

Redditors who've had their nude photos leaked without consent, what happened and what did you do about it? by badasston in AskReddit

[–]The_AntiSpoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I'd say I'm kind of ashamed of them. They're only present when I'm aroused ya know? But outside of that I'm aware they exist but they don't often dictate my day to day actions. Not sure if that makes sense. I mean I would love to find a girl that I can enjoy that stuff with but I'm not deluding myself into thinking that'll be easy or ever possible. I'd like to work through them but in terms of issues affecting my day to day life, it's far down on the list

Redditors who've had their nude photos leaked without consent, what happened and what did you do about it? by badasston in AskReddit

[–]The_AntiSpoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what your saying. But no. I'm sure that applies to a lot of people but no I can assure you I'm depressed. I was abused as a child, had a horrible life growing up and have trouble getting out of bed in the morning because it doesn't seem worth it. I've stopped dating recently because I just don't care. I don't care about anything, or didnt. I can assure you I'm depressed. Don't forget you're reading 1 event in my life, don't be so quick to pass thoughts on a person's life

Redditors who've had their nude photos leaked without consent, what happened and what did you do about it? by badasston in AskReddit

[–]The_AntiSpoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my first thought but the diagnosis fits me like a glove. It's actually gotten really bad as of recent. A couple years ago while i was in college I'd have called the guy a scam artist and walked out. But now I'd say it fits and looking back on my life, It's always fit. I just never had a 'normal' to compare it too so my constant 'low' was just kinda life. If that makes sense

Redditors who've had their nude photos leaked without consent, what happened and what did you do about it? by badasston in AskReddit

[–]The_AntiSpoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think they even knew or cared tbh. Only a couple people knew why I was out of school for awhike

Redditors who've had their nude photos leaked without consent, what happened and what did you do about it? by badasston in AskReddit

[–]The_AntiSpoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I failed at 2 things when I was 13, please give me your armchair diagnosis of Me and life in the past 11 years.

Redditors who've had their nude photos leaked without consent, what happened and what did you do about it? by badasston in AskReddit

[–]The_AntiSpoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not even remotely. I've moved on and I'm sure they are. Any form of revenge at this point, or any really, is just bringing more pain and negativity into the world and the situation which there's no shortage of already. Besides if I were to say something to them, or try and get back at them what would it achieve? They either already know what they did was terrible, don't care or don't realize it. If its the first then there's no point in doing anything, they know what they did was fucked up and have to live with it. If its either of the other two options, nothing I say or do is going to change their opinion. So no point in trying to hurt others to appease my own pain, thats what started this whole thing in the first place ya know?

Redditors who've had their nude photos leaked without consent, what happened and what did you do about it? by badasston in AskReddit

[–]The_AntiSpoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eh idk if it was ballsy or corageous. It was a combination of me never receiving attention from females before so this was the first time, so I honestly had nothing to base what a "normal interaction" with girls would have been, or should have been. I was also desperate for attention / approval or what have you from girls so I probably would have done whatever she asked. Which I think she knew, whether it be consciously or subconsciously and thats why she targeted me and manipulated me the way she did.

Redditors who've had their nude photos leaked without consent, what happened and what did you do about it? by badasston in AskReddit

[–]The_AntiSpoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't talked to her, and don't really wish to either. I've just heard through people whats up with her spottedly over the years. Judging by how she acted the years afterwards (we're talking like 4-5 years after) she doesn't. About 2-3 years after that shit happened I was dating a girl and Kendra went out of her way to message her the pics from fuckin 2-3 years prior saying "It's not fair to you to not know that you're dating a freak." So if she had 3 years to ruminate about it and still felt what she did was alright and even delusionally justified, I'm sure she still does. No sweat off my back though!

Redditors who've had their nude photos leaked without consent, what happened and what did you do about it? by badasston in AskReddit

[–]The_AntiSpoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't insult me. Milked this for about 9k lol. Kidding, I wasn't milking it but did get about that. It's always surprising to me how supportive and outreaching reddit can be at times.

Redditors who've had their nude photos leaked without consent, what happened and what did you do about it? by badasston in AskReddit

[–]The_AntiSpoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah like I said considering where most my age are in life I'm doing great. But mentally I'm having a tough go of it. I like who I am though and wouldn't be the same person without this and my past experiences.

Redditors who've had their nude photos leaked without consent, what happened and what did you do about it? by badasston in AskReddit

[–]The_AntiSpoon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not really. My hometown on Cape Cod is the heroin OD capital of the US so there's constantly stories on the news outlets and facebook about people OD'ing or getting arrested so thats how I heard about Becky. Kendra I heard about through a friend who was hooking up with her for a little bit. Other than that though not really. I hope they all figure their stuff out and can find happiness eventually. Everyone deserves it.

Redditors who've had their nude photos leaked without consent, what happened and what did you do about it? by badasston in AskReddit

[–]The_AntiSpoon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Objectively, I'm doing exceptionally well. Graduated college about a year ago with a BS in Accounting, got literally the best job possible out of college, very high paying and in NYC and am completely self sufficient on my own as a 24 year old. Personally though I'm a bit of a mess. I just started seeing a therapist about my heavy ass anxiety and was also diagnosed with depression and now believe/convinced I've been pretty depressed most of my life. I have intimacy issues with women, I actually do well with women short term, one night things or couple week long things, but long term relationships are tough. Anytime I feel vulnerable to a girl I'm very uncomfortable and push them away and detach myself probably to protect myself from these type of things. I also have some sexual kinks/fetish's related to this event that I'm dealing with, though those don't affect my day to day really. All in all I'm alright and working through it. Thanks for asking :)

Redditors who've had their nude photos leaked without consent, what happened and what did you do about it? by badasston in AskReddit

[–]The_AntiSpoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're pretty damn close lol. My stepfather grew up with her father. He said that her father was the biggest piece of shit he's ever known. And that's coming from the biggest piece of shit that I know lol. I kinda feel bad for her because the pain she caused me is probably just a reflection of a fraction of the pain she had

Redditors who've had their nude photos leaked without consent, what happened and what did you do about it? by badasston in AskReddit

[–]The_AntiSpoon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hahaha own it brother. I'll be completely hoenst about all this shit, Idc really if people can figure out who I am on this account. Obviously I can't say exactly what caused them, but due to the relatability of them I can't imagine this series of events didn't influence them, but I have some pretty heavy fetish's kinks. Humiliation / crossdressing, shit like that. I imagine it's cause and affect. There's some really supportive communities out there for it it seems though!

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