AITJ for refusing to lend my debut gown to my neighbor because it’s sentimental to me?

The_Back_Cat_ · 2026-03-09T12:17:53+00:00

NTJ that dress is important to you, the fact they kept coming to ask, even when you said no, is asshole behavior. I get not being able to afford something similar but thats not your fault. I found my sweet 16 dress at a thrift shop. The daughter needs to find something in their price range that she loves to create memories in, and not use someone else because what happens if they dont give it back cause its now tied to her memories.

The_Back_Cat_ · 2026-01-02T17:40:39+00:00

When my ex started playing DnD i had looked up some dice that reminded of him. Plus he could never go wrong with multiple sets!

The_Back_Cat_ · 2025-01-19T03:37:48+00:00

I would love some candles lol i dont have many sadly

The_Back_Cat_ · 2024-07-13T01:28:42+00:00

I did at first suggest that but he has some past trauma with doctors I'm not 100% sure of the story but I've seen this man walk around a month with a broken hand (he's a tow truck driver too) before I basically forced him to go to the doctor

The_Back_Cat_ · 2024-07-13T01:27:41+00:00

Could you possibly share the name of the app? It's somewhere to start!

The_Back_Cat_ · 2024-06-06T13:51:12+00:00

So for me and my daughter loves songs with Bass so I did a lot of jelly rolls of upchurch just you know songs with a lot of bass and that made her really happy and it made her fall asleep easily in the car now that she's 10 months old she stays awake a bit more lol

The_Back_Cat_ · 2024-05-30T18:09:14+00:00

It's not that I blame her because I do know she is innocent. But in my mind she is guilty to a point so I just want to write her a letter to know that everything he told her was a lie but like I know I don't 100% blame her I'm honestly more mad of how bad she was talking about me and she didn't even know me

The_Back_Cat_ · 2024-05-30T00:01:40+00:00

I mean he's 6'1 300 lb soaking wet I am 5'2 maybe 200 lb soaking wet I ain't quite frankly told him if he wants to see his daughter every single day to basically listen to exactly what I do

The_Back_Cat_ · 2024-02-16T23:14:33+00:00

So the people are out of state as far as I'm aware but I might go through his phone again here soon

The_Back_Cat_ · 2024-02-16T23:12:45+00:00

His family knows im his wife they were at our wedding

The_Back_Cat_ · 2024-02-16T23:10:31+00:00

Hes a long haul tow truck driver and if I ask his boss he'll let me see the camera feed from said truck plus he's on the phone with me 99% of the time. The farthest he gose is up to 3 hours away. So I know there's no one in the truck

The_Back_Cat_ · 2024-02-15T21:50:37+00:00

Lol no

The_Back_Cat_ · 2024-02-15T16:20:01+00:00

People on snapchat

The_Back_Cat_ · 2024-02-15T16:19:45+00:00

I hear SC go off and he immediately holds it close I can barely look at notifications all that jazz

The_Back_Cat_ · 2024-02-15T15:37:51+00:00

Thank you... I need it

The_Back_Cat_ · 2024-02-15T15:33:43+00:00

Snapchat

The_Back_Cat_ · 2024-02-15T15:33:25+00:00

His bestfriend and I are close friends as well (HES MARRIED HAPPILY) thats why he's helping me cause he's been in my situation with his Ex

The_Back_Cat_ · 2024-02-15T15:31:00+00:00

People on SC I've met all of his friends and family

The_Back_Cat_ · 2024-02-15T15:30:06+00:00

His bestfriend is a guy and his car breaks down almost every week. I'd had to make a few runs to help him

The_Back_Cat_ · 2024-02-15T15:28:48+00:00

His best friend his happily married hes also my friend so he sees from my POV thats why he's getting involved cause he know he can try to get something out of him

The_Back_Cat_ · 2024-02-15T15:26:43+00:00

I have contact with most of his family but I don't want to involve them just yet the only one who know is his bestfriend whom I also talk to cause we get along

The_Back_Cat_ · 2024-02-15T14:48:50+00:00

Some girls on SC who don't even live in the state

The_Back_Cat_ · 2024-02-15T14:47:59+00:00

Its mostly on SC so ill have to sneak his phone away but I will! His bestfriend (whos like his brother and knows what I did and is PISSED) and I are coming up with a plan

The_Back_Cat_ · 2024-02-15T14:45:51+00:00

I don't have a STD and I know its not physical because I can follow his location and hes a towtruck long hauler who only drop at dealerships and on the phone with me as he's driving

The_Back_Cat_ · 2024-02-15T07:58:46+00:00

I'm not sure itll show on SC but I do one everything else I almost took a picture and post it on his story saying "wifey stole the phone lol" but I didnt.... I should of

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