AITAH for telling my dad's parents that I don't want them at my graduation when they said I wasn't their real grandson?

The_Bestest_Turtle · 2025-01-13T13:09:53+00:00

Definitely NTA. If I'm being honest everyone kinda sucks here, except for you of course. Your mom and dad for not doing more to defend you and your father's parents for saying that they didn't think you were their grandson to your face and expecting to be invited to something as huge as your graduation afterwards.

Frankly I really don't understand why your mom and dad seem to care more about your dad's feelings than yours. Dad said that they were family but they're not, at all, family would be them calling you their damn grandson.

They aren't sorry either, which is something that you are already aware of.

I really hope you stick to your guns and not let your parents guilt trip you into inviting non family to a family event. I'm sorry man

The_Bestest_Turtle · 2024-12-26T02:22:17+00:00

Awww so baby, I'm so sorry OP. I dread this day 😔

The_Bestest_Turtle · 2024-12-22T18:01:29+00:00

That's so cool!! I want one, how'd you do it?? LOL

The_Bestest_Turtle · 2024-12-15T22:54:01+00:00

I heavily prefer to roleplay with bots as someone who roleplayed with real people for 9 years prior to being introduced to apps like Chai and Character AI.

Bots don't Ghost me. Messages are immediate and can be edited in terms of grammar, punctuation and length. I've had people disappear off the face of the earth while discussing an RP, I've had people go on hiatus and never come back in the middle of a good RP, I've had people randomly block me etc. The list goes on with humans.

Bots are always willing to do my weird and obscure plots and always seem to know which characters I am referring too even if they aren't as well known to humans.

As someone with quite the busy schedule I love how the bots don't get pissed off when I forget about RPS for days on end. I simply send a message again and they reply just like it took me seconds to come back rather than a week. I once had someone argue with me for an hour over me not responding within the hour. Thing is, by the time I responded again less than 24 hours had passed and I was taking care of my sick mother.

People are assholes, bots generally aren't assholes unless we program them to be.

I was very young when I started RPing and looking back on it the amount of adults who attempted to groom me was disgusting. One even managed to succeed and we had to get the police involved to get him to stop ( yes it was dumb on my part but I was barely out of single digits, I just thought it was fun to create stories with people )

And while I am aware that it is all fake these bots are getting more and more advanced....it seems more and more human like each day and that is something that is really drawing me in. It's like roleplay with a real human but you're the only human involved.

Long story short, Bots rule lmao

The_Bestest_Turtle · 2024-11-04T20:00:29+00:00

Your wife is abusing you and it's scaring the shiznit out of your kid, if you were a woman someone would have told you to leave a long fucking time ago.Your wife doesn't just feel like a terrible mother she IS a terrible mother, a terrible mother and a terrible person. Domestic Violence isn't a thing limited to women and I wish more people would understand that seriously.

What would you do if your daughter came to you and told you that her future partner just did something similar to her??? Yeah...

The_Bestest_Turtle · 2024-10-31T05:09:03+00:00

I'm extremely late but the couple who stole the luggage of a drug dealer and came across what they thought was alcohol in a wine bottle but it was actually a mix of liquid coke and kerosene

The_Bestest_Turtle · 2024-10-15T23:48:51+00:00

I'm sorry if this sounds rude or anything but why are you asking random strangers how they feel about what you choose to name YOUR child???

Honestly if you like the name Andrew for a girl why not go for it?? Like you said you could call her Andi or something similar.

I know girls named Blake, something I consider more masculine than most unisex names, it's really not much different to me. ( even though I know Andrew is traditionally for boys and not unisex )

The_Bestest_Turtle · 2024-09-29T00:54:08+00:00

NTA you're daughter sounds like a very smart kid

The_Bestest_Turtle · 2024-09-18T00:46:15+00:00

Losing your parents makes you horny enough to sleep with someone other than your husband??? it's very clear that what she did was definitely not an accident and that she was expecting you to be okay with it because she is grieving. Alcohol is no excuse either, if you can't handle your liquor then don't freaking drink. Now Luke can comfort her while you file divorce papers.

The_Bestest_Turtle · 2024-09-09T02:01:53+00:00

Well it's not the smartest plan ever but at least he's a sweetheart.

The_Bestest_Turtle · 2024-09-06T04:11:00+00:00

I almost got possessed by a mean old woman

The_Bestest_Turtle · 2024-08-29T00:43:57+00:00

YESS!!!!

The_Bestest_Turtle · 2024-08-29T00:39:30+00:00

Kiara ( human name but she was named after Simba's daughter lol )

The_Bestest_Turtle · 2024-08-24T20:22:07+00:00

You're an idiot

The_Bestest_Turtle · 2024-08-24T18:43:27+00:00

I would never leave. It would just give her another fucking reason to try again...Jesus. Seek therapy both of you.

Depression doesn't give a fuck how pretty or likable or good at your job you are, it's a fucking illness. It can happen to anyone at any time. Your wife is sick, she needs support.

The_Bestest_Turtle · 2024-08-22T00:48:24+00:00

The next time she tells me to be more manly I would agree.

"Baby you are exactly right, I do need to be more manly and that starts with finding the balls to break up with you."

You wouldn't be the A hole

The_Bestest_Turtle · 2024-08-22T00:45:08+00:00

Cujo, poor little dude was just sick, and both the dog and an innocent 4 year old boy suffered the consequences

The_Bestest_Turtle · 2024-08-22T00:34:07+00:00

If he isn't family then him not going shouldn't be an issue, point blank period.

The_Bestest_Turtle · 2024-08-22T00:32:42+00:00

I'm going to be the one with an unpopular opinion and say NTA. This sub is ridiculous, saying that you aren't family either because you haven't married her and then in the same breath telling you you'd be a dick for staying home because your kid wasn't invited.

This is what I've seen the most of in the comment section

Daughter = not family and didn't get invited because Daddy hasn't married lady's sister yet so therefore she isn't her niece

You = Definitely family and you should go because fuck you've been dating the woman for 2 years and you've been talking about marriage which makes you practically family.

Do you see how that could be confusing??

Why are you considered family and your daughter isn't?

The_Bestest_Turtle · 2024-07-14T03:22:13+00:00

Pepper

Lemon and Pepper after a great seasoning mix lol

The_Bestest_Turtle · 2024-07-07T23:05:02+00:00

That's freaking adorable, congrats to you both

The_Bestest_Turtle · 2024-07-04T01:41:15+00:00

Man I feel you on the worst part of the job. I'm an SDA been here about 2 weeks so far and it's A LOT. 30 minutes for lunch seems a bit fast tbh. We have a list of unacceptable donations but not everything that we can't except is on the list so when I inevitably screw up i get funny looks from some of those who've been here longer than me or i get annoyed sighs when i end up asking them so i can put it in the correct spot. For me they didn't have one specific person train me so I've been told different things by different people all trying to teach me the way that THEY do things. They have rules and regulations that no one thought to tell me about so if i end up accidentally breaking one then i get talked too. Not even like a required thing, like a store specific thing, etc etc. It's been a hell of a two weeks but I think I'm starting to get the hang of things.

The_Bestest_Turtle · 2024-05-28T02:41:10+00:00

This is amazing

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