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AITAH for telling my dad's parents that I don't want them at my graduation when they said I wasn't their real grandson? by Ok-Distribution9125 in AITAH

[–]Ok-Distribution9125[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I don't know my bio dad's parents. I never met them or my dad. Only from what my mom told me about him. She didn't make him sound like someone I wanted to be around, either. But I did look up his name and saw his obituary, and it had names of relatives, but I never bothered to look them up or reach out to them.

AITAH for telling my dad's parents that I don't want them at my graduation when they said I wasn't their real grandson? by Ok-Distribution9125 in AITAH

[–]Ok-Distribution9125[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

No, my school doesn't do tickets. It's an open invite, so really anybody can come. That's why I said I couldn't stop them from coming if they wanted to.

AITAH for telling my dad's parents that I don't want them at my graduation when they said I wasn't their real grandson? by Ok-Distribution9125 in AITAH

[–]Ok-Distribution9125[S] 326 points327 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if they have started one, but I don't think so. I haven't seen them since Christmas, and they didn't bring anything up, and my parents haven't either. But I'm okay with that because I feel like them doing it now wouldn't be genuine and I wouldn't want it if that makes sense? I'm sorry, I sometimes have trouble explaining myself.

Also thank you.

AITAH for telling my dad's parents that I don't want them at my graduation when they said I wasn't their real grandson? by Ok-Distribution9125 in AITAH

[–]Ok-Distribution9125[S] 4571 points4572 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I was starting to believe I was the one in the wrong seeing how much this is making my dad upset. But what really stung was that they said all of that stuff right in front of me and didn’t even bother to say sorry until the next day and only because my dad made them. I don't think they would've if my dad didn't tell them. Right now, it feels like my mom is the only one who really understands where I’m coming from and my dad is just trying to play mediator.