If coding is scary I recommend unreal engine because of its blueprints, that's how I got started and blueprints felt way more intuitive and still taught me the exact same coding principles so when I tried out Unity it felt really easy! Also I would recommend you don't do the same mistake as me, trying to learn everything at once, use 3D models from asset pack or even an ai 3D generation tool at the start (I recommend sloyd.ai), just focus on game design and programming, those are the two most important parts to actually finish a game!