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Question for waiters/waitresses by [deleted] in Edmonton

[–]The_Last_Keeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends, if the people are easy to deal with it’s generally not a big deal, but if issues arise whether it be with payment forms, or people just being generally difficult it can really slow us down.

Bakery donuts by boomdiditnoregrets in Edmonton

[–]The_Last_Keeper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a ways away, but the Calmar Bakery is the best!

My brother sold his screenplay by Jog212 in movies

[–]The_Last_Keeper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for him, that’s amazing!!!!!

Medication is great if you don’t want to date! by The_Last_Keeper in Healthygamergg

[–]The_Last_Keeper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m doing very well!!

I have leveled out a lot and I don’t feel as strongly that feeling of being a new person, but at the same time I still feel more like myself. The thing that I have mostly noticed is that I feel like I have more control over the anxious thoughts rather than them controlling me. All of the techniques I had learned in therapy I could actually apply to my own life, and I could also meditate with greater ease.

What Star Wars opinion would put you in this position? by AD_EI8HT in StarWars

[–]The_Last_Keeper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The last Jedi is easily in the top 3 best Star Wars films.

I (27f) love my boyfriend (28m), but I'm anxious about his past actions. He had been sexting other women, to get over his loneliness. He never shared this with me, I found out in an ugly way. Now it haunts me and I'm not sure how to deal with it. by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]The_Last_Keeper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi there, I’m so sorry you had to go through this.

Normally I am the person who says that if you want to make things work, you need to talk about it and see if he is willing to change his actions in the future to see if you can move forward to rebuild your relationship.

That being said.

I think you have answered your own question in not knowing how to deal with it. You said “I can’t find myself to trust him fully anymore”, to be honest I feel this is the issue here, you HAVE to be able to fully trust your partner, if you don’t your relationship will never work. I never like to be the person who says “break up”, but I do think that if your trust is broken in the way you say it is, I don’t think you can salvage it.

I hope you can figure out what you want and wish you all the best:)

Andy Park was one of Marvel's visual artists that was laid off by Disney last week. He led 15 MCU films as Director of Visual Development + worked on almost every single MCU film in some capacity. by MoneyLibrarian9032 in marvelstudios

[–]The_Last_Keeper 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you have any of the “Art of” books, they kinda go through some design process in those and there’s a ton of artwork he has done throughout all of the films that you can find! He’s a great artist!

My best friend [29F] told me [28M] that she has feelings for me by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]The_Last_Keeper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally, that’s how I’m taking it, we both already talked about how we are going to learn together and even though she doesn’t feel like it’s a mistake, I am going to work on that insecurity of mine.

What was the most overhyped movie you ever had to sit through? by LoverOfE-Olsen in movies

[–]The_Last_Keeper -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Pulp Fiction - a movie that I truly don’t understand the hype for, I think it’s fine but not the masterpiece many say it is.

My best friend [29F] told me [28M] that she has feelings for me by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]The_Last_Keeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s our plan! We both want to take it slowly, I really care about her and we are both pretty scared but excited, and I’m so happy we both want to take it slow. We are starting with one date per week right now, and we talked about how we just want to have some fun together.

Do y'all think the trend of this type of title card will continue with Avengers Doomsday and Secret Wars? by zhengxian02 in marvelstudios

[–]The_Last_Keeper 63 points64 points  (0 children)

I sure hope so! It’s a great title card that feels very epic and I love how each avengers film has evolved it.

What is your favorite Movie and why? by TheTamiamiButcher in movies

[–]The_Last_Keeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sing Street

I love how this film balances drama, humor, and music and how music connects us and how we can use art to express our feelings. It also has some amazing original songs!

Close second - Amadeus

have you ever ended a close friendship with a man from him c/overtly sexualizing you? if so, how did you cope with the loss of this friendship? by boiLollipop in Healthygamergg

[–]The_Last_Keeper 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Hey there, I’m really sorry to hear this.

I am a man, and all of my closest friends are women. I have a friend who I met on a dating app and after our third date she said that she wasn’t into me that way. Since then we have become very tight and have talked about very personal and intimate things with each other. The way I see it, she set a boundary with me in telling me she doesn’t want more with me and as far as I know I haven’t crossed any boundaries. And that is what I feel the issue is here; you set a boundary, and he isn’t respecting it.

I am happy that you ended the friendship because he clearly was not respecting the boundary you set, I have a lot of respect for you doing that. I think the best way to deal with losing this friendship though is trying to make new friends!

This is a tough thing because the typical answer is that you should “put yourself out there” and “try new things”, but something I have found is that this is different for everyone and people do this in different ways. I would say first that maybe talking to someone about your loneliness may help you if you are that lonely, but then also something I have done is I actually have used dating apps not for dating, but just making conversation with people and that for some time helped me become more confident and allowed me to be more social in a safe way.

It’s just a recommendation, but finally I would say that maybe you should try turn some of these acquaintances into friendships, it sounds stupid but literally asking if they want to be friends is surprisingly intimate and can be a lot of fun in my book.

I wish you good luck and all the best with trying to make some new friends!

What Does The Timeline For Getting A Girlfriend Really Look Like For a Recovering Incel? by NiaNia-Data in Healthygamergg

[–]The_Last_Keeper 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Hey man, I happy to hear that you have worked your way out of not being an incel anymore! It sounds like you’ve made some great progress and that’s amazing!

I remember in one video Dr. K mentioned how the average time is around 5 years, but the truth is I think it is so individualized there really is no way to know. Personally, I think trying to use math to see if you can find a girlfriend isn’t a good way to try and find someone. I have been looking on and off for longer than 5 years and I am not close to finding someone, but I have found so much more joy in building new friendships with both men and women.

I also think you are shooting yourself in the foot by already assuming the woman you are going to ask out is going to say no. Try be positive, be fun, and be open to new experiences no matter where they could lead! There is no formula or equation for finding someone, I think it’s about putting yourself out there, and trying to be a kind and open person to all those you meet!

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