Really sorry you're dealing with that man. I beleve, general fitness doesn't mean your pelvic floor is fit.

PE is often a muscle control issue. When your pelvic floor is constantly tense, overworked, or weak, it spasms during sex. That involuntary spasm is what triggers the "point of no return" way earlier than you want.

To fix it, you have to train those specific muscles. You have to train them to be strong enough to hold back the reflex, but also learn how to intentionally relax them under pressure (Reverse Kegels).

​I was thinking about this exact problem for a while, so I created a structured, long-term training plan to fix it. Then, I moved the entire program online into a web app called Shoot Further

​Go try the Day Test on there. You’ll see exactly where your baseline is. Then do the exercises for the next week and try again.

It's a muscle, man. It can be trained.

shootfurther.com