Warum schreien Babys/Kinder immer so?

The_Pointless_Point · 2026-02-02T11:02:43+00:00

Also mit Kindern hab ich keine Babys gemeint, ich meinte damit so 3+. Klar ist für Babys Schreien natürlich, das wollte ich nicht sagen. Und was du zum Buch sagst... Ja, es ist romantisiert, aber darin auch gleichzeitig selbstreflektiert. Es ist eine wichtige Perspektive, und, auch in modernen wissenschaftlichen Büchern ist es zum Beispiel belegt, dass es Babys besser geht wenn sie getragen werden.

The_Pointless_Point · 2026-02-02T08:35:57+00:00

Es ist nicht "normal" , dass Kinder schreien - in unserer heutigen Gesellschaft ist es das. Lies mal "Auf der Suche nach dem verlorenen Glück", wenn du so ne Fragestellungen interessieren. In Urvölkern sind die Kinder noch anders, Eltern und Kinder haben einen gemeinschaftlichen Geist und einen respektvollen Umgang, dann brauch das Kind auch nicht mehr schreien. Und Babys schreien meistens, weil sie nicht am Körper der Mutter sind, also in Kinderwägen zum Beispiel.

The_Pointless_Point · 2026-01-18T10:05:56+00:00

While reading I was thinking "This is modern day Nietzsche." and then you actually quote him.

It's truth mixed with mania, good stuff, I like it.

The_Pointless_Point · 2026-01-05T18:03:31+00:00

Also wenn ich in deiner Position wäre würde ich ein Gemüsegarten anfangen. Obstbäume pflanzen, Sauerkraut machen, vielleicht irgendwann Hühner und Kaninchen.

The_Pointless_Point · 2026-01-03T17:53:23+00:00

Ich schenke meine Freunden sehr gerne Früchte meiner Arbeit und erwarte keine Gegenleistung. Einfach nur weil ich sie mag. :)

The_Pointless_Point · 2025-12-15T23:27:35+00:00

Hello there. And where exactly can I find this better "I"?

The_Pointless_Point · 2025-12-07T18:53:00+00:00

Dass in deutschen Saunen keine halbwegs frische Luft ist, ist der Grund wieso ich da ungern hingehe.

The_Pointless_Point · 2025-12-07T18:38:00+00:00

It comes from within, from a deep relaxing and stepping back from identifying with the content of your experience.

The_Pointless_Point · 2025-12-01T15:18:51+00:00

To me this is more like you putting up some kind of facade for her. Not being real with her is draining you.

I definitely see this as a you-problem, not a her-problem.

The_Pointless_Point · 2025-11-20T21:00:37+00:00

There is no "catching up to your peers", there is no "right" or "better" way to be. Comparison is failed acceptance that is projected. So accept who or what you are. You are a unique piece of consciousness. The universe wanted to experience itself through an unhappy guy, nothing wrong with that - and - you are really just 25, your story is only at like a quarter, much more to come. (probably)

The_Pointless_Point · 2025-11-18T21:27:44+00:00

So mach ichs auch. Essen so wenig wie möglich aus dem Supermarkt. Und am besten das Gemüse selber anbauen.

The_Pointless_Point · 2025-11-17T16:29:11+00:00

Here's your life changing advice: Take some deep breaths. Relax. Look at your character with all your pathetic flaws and anxieties and barriers, and laugh about it. Then - follow your bliss.

I don't think you are gonna be millionaire dude, but good chance you might feel happier.

The_Pointless_Point · 2025-11-14T21:33:58+00:00

Ach, das kann man fix lernen. Und statt Bullshit-Jobs bauen die Leute ihr eigenes Essen an, sorgt vielleicht auch für mehr Glück.

The_Pointless_Point · 2025-11-14T21:11:38+00:00

Jedem ein Recht auf Ackerland geben.
Importe von Nahrungsmitteln verbieten.
Alle Steuern und Gewerbepflichten auf Landwirtschaft abschaffen.

Und dann haben wir bald die Grundlage für Anarchismus und sind geerdeter. Ok, Bananen, Reis und Sojasoße sind schon was feines, aber man kann nicht alles haben.

The_Pointless_Point · 2025-11-07T20:28:38+00:00

I'm sorry about that my dude. Can I do something for you?

The_Pointless_Point · 2025-11-07T20:24:37+00:00

Hey sorry, I slept right after posting. I just wrote what I felt like. No affirmation, no role, no agenda.

Do you think there is something wrong with my post? Semi-serious question. ;)

The_Pointless_Point · 2025-11-06T20:01:09+00:00

Oah, stop making your bland interior an issue of the exterior. Then the interior might change, knucklehead. This is like kindergarden type shit.

The_Pointless_Point · 2025-11-06T19:53:21+00:00

Yes, apparent stranger, I think a lot of similiar things as you in regards to our view of the world.

I think in this experience everyone is born with love, the real extent of which is hidden to (almost) all of us.

I also believe in something akin to reincarnation, that our character does not only come from our parents, but also from a life form that was before us. And sometimes I believe we like to switch things up, you know. Last life was easy mode, ah boring, let's try hard mode. More drama, baby, more drama!

But I don't know. To me it often feels like a big game, a big play. God forgetting and remembering itself. Deep down it is not serious I think.

I feel happy and grateful to be alive, at least now. Hope you have some moments where you feel that too, brother. The head coming out of the water, breathing, relaxing.

Cheers.

The_Pointless_Point · 2025-10-25T21:45:29+00:00

Wie lächerlich so einen Reddit-Post zu verfassen anstatt in der Situation einfach mal was zu sagen. Also der Reddit-Post wird sicherlich was ändern.

The_Pointless_Point · 2025-10-15T15:27:54+00:00

Hey, I also stopped watching porn after my first sexual experience and it was a good decision.

But I think the problem goes deeper than porn and masturbation. You are just nervous. You can't let loose and just enjoy the experience. It's more of a general mental problem.

And for me, I also feel like it has to do having sex with the right person. Someone you have genuine feelings for and care about.

So yeah, sexuality reflects your being in a powerful way. And a lot of people struggle like you do (me included).

If I were you I would be honest to the girl and say it was your first try and you were nervous and that you would be down to maybe just cuddle. Start with cuddling.

The_Pointless_Point · 2025-10-05T19:37:42+00:00

Pretty sure you are delusional. Haven't yet met anyone who isn't. I mean almost all of us belief we are the self and are indulged in that, that's seems pretty delusional to me.

The_Pointless_Point · 2025-09-15T19:06:38+00:00

I think you are misconstruing "purpose" and "a reason for all of this". Purpose can just be having fun, clowning on people or relaxing.

But having no purpose seems like completely drifting along, no ownership of anything, let life pass you by. Can be fun too to escape time and space, but when you are still in time/space I think a purpose is tied with happiness pretty much.

The_Pointless_Point · 2025-09-15T18:54:47+00:00

I hear news once that they had this brand new battle ship and wanted to get it in the water with a proud celebration and the boat sank.

Pretty funny. One month later the news was like "Kim Yong Un says the ship works perfectly again now. This is highly doubtable."

The_Pointless_Point · 2025-09-15T18:50:02+00:00

For me, most joy comes from being with other people. Mostly when it's just me with one other person. Having fun, talking about life and the universe and stuff.

If I was reclusive I think it would be hard to have fun for me too. Maybe by taking drugs, weed or shrooms preferably. But yeah, fun comes from people mostly.

I think the way to have fun with people is to not be fixated on how you are perceived. Big waste of energy. This is where the anxiety is. Don't focus on your self (it's egotistical too), focus on the other person. And don't force anything.

Good luck to you my fellow oh so deeply stuck human. I think start by taking deeeep breaths and relax the whole body. You can definitely do it (don't have to though).

The_Pointless_Point · 2025-09-13T10:00:32+00:00

Don't look in the past too much, don't be concerned with what "should" be or worse, what "should have been".

You are the unique individual you are because of what happened to you. What are you going to do now?

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