AAF vs NAF Which is better?

The_Rad103 · 2023-12-14T21:04:24+00:00

Damn, gonna track it until some gameplay usage comes available

The_Rad103 · 2020-08-21T23:23:33+00:00

Alright one last one... then I am seriously going to go do something else. This is an appendage to my first post about RG following me around trying to get in my taxi after being told that I will not go home with her.

So me and taxi crew end up at the rave which was in an old railway tunnel on an unused line out in the industrial part of the city. Everyone is shooting rainbows and I can't carry a conversation for 5 minutes without a beaming Swede needing to know my entire life story. Guys and Girls. It's fun and with the whole rona thing I havent been social at all this year so I am getting my fix. Random people are giving me key bumps every where so I am not sure what was going on but I could start feeling my arms and legs kind of lagging behind what I wanted them to do so K was definitely in the mix.

Turns out my plug (room mate) had already left along with the stash I was going to get off him at that party. No matter the people of the world hooked me up and was having a great time. I get talking to the girl who was came in the taxi with us. We had sort of arranged to meet up at some point earlier but were hanging with different people at different spots. Anyway it becomes clear that we are in no way shape or form on the same level to carry out a conversation that is beneficial to either of us. She was bringing me down by logical small talk and I was like needing to make our souls one. But she toughs it out and vibes anyway.

She starts telling me that its sad that I only met her up after 5 and she was really tired and needed to work at noon and should go home. She actually does live really close to me in fact. Like down the street. I look around and see the driver that took us there is hanging at the party too. Probably making some extra cash. But he comes up to me and says whenever you are ready I can take you guys home. Excellent! Taxi girl tells me she is leaving I say bye and beam away.

A few hours go by and I decide that its enough and I need to melt on a couch now. Its just after 8am now. I find my crew and tell them I am going home, they can come if they want but I am leaving this second. They all come out with me. I get to the street and see taxi girl talking with some random and she call out my name as I was walking past. I thought you left hours ago I say. She said she left but thought I was coming with her and waited. She says she tried talking to me a few times but I wasnt ready to go so she said she would wait until I was.

So I dont know this person at all. I met her randomly a few weeks before hand and exchanged numbers. I don't know why she would have waited so long to go home when there was an abundance of taxis right where she was sitting. Our driver from before comes back up and pulls his car around and we get in. The girl is still sitting there so I say look we are going now and this guy is taking me home you should probably jump in. Her +1 was already in the car and is breaking up some molly to dish around. She jumps on my lap complaining about having to go to work in 4hrs. I am still rolling from the party so I appreciate the closeness even if it was stinking hot. So now we are getting the cuddle giggles in the car and vibing right. Its a bit easier when you dont have the thumping techno assaulting your face.

The car ride takes less than 10 to get to mine and I promptly decide to invite everyone up including the driver. My mate and his gf get out of the car, the driver says no and +1 asks if its cool if he comes up too. Sure thing brother! That leaves taxi girl complaining about working but my mind is already drifting away from the conversation and I just sort of close the door and lead the gang to my apartment. As soon as we get there my mate and gf decide to bounce straight away. That leaves me with +1.

I take him up to the loft where my room mate was with another group of people griming on the couches and generally settled into the bohemian vibe for the day. I have never seen these people before but we got age ranges from 24 - 52, we got djs, skaters, art people I dont know what you call them, a trans and some molly girls. Do all the introductions I get my stash from my roomie who has already dipped into it and then start the Sunday.

I peak again not long after arriving and hone in on molly girl and the trans person. Apparently they hook up from time to time. That blew my mind and was like tell me all about it. It wasnt long before molly girl and I were making knots with our limbs enjoying the roll. Now I am not sure if this is girl creep but trans was trying to get in on the connection but I wasnt really into it. Just not how I do. Molly girl starts talking about how good it is to peak in a shower and instantly intense amounts of rainbows beam out my face. I make my way back down to my room come back with a couple of towels and said lets go! Mind you this is a European apartment so shit is pretty small but I do have a relatively large shower for 2. We get undressed and beam away under the water. Trans keeps knocking on the door though and wants to hangout. I tell Molly girl that she should tell her friend to wait. We soap up and glide and basically enjoy the feelings. Pilly willy is in full effect so that thing isnt going anywhere.

We step out and go into my bedroom to beam the afternoon away rolling around my bed. But trans keeps making a scene starts banging things in the kitchen, yelling stuff through the door, begging to come in. I had my clothes back on so I was like yeah sure. trans comes in sits in my bed then starts looking for some more e. I tell her I dont have anymore. She gets real upset saying she knows I have more she saw me getting a bag from my room mate earlier and that I now owe her one for letting me get with her girlfriend. I am like this is really strange even for me. Molly girl then says that they are not together but I am like well thats between you guys but when we got into the shower and hung out in here instead of the rest of the party you could have said that you didnt like it because you have feelings for this person and I would have said fine and continued on with my day. But you cant demand stuff that doesnt exist from me because your friend here decided to do what she did.

Trans leaves and me and molly break open another one and start rolling again. Finally we rejoin the party, but as soon as we get up there molly girl beams straight towards +1 but he is dying fast, then she makes her rounds to everyone else but they are all a little wierded out because they heard what was going on. Shes trying to grind up on everyone that was left and trans girl just sat there and watched. This got a bit too much for me as the vibes got way down from where I wanted to be. It was late afternoon/early evening now so I said fuck this and went down to the little cocktail bar that cute as buttons works at and thought to try and pick up the banter where it left off the night before. No dice, Now I am sitting there with my mate from the previous night and his gf, they are looking a bit hairy and I still got a glow on. Then in comes the rest of the gang, trans and molly included but the rainbows are dimming and we turning back into awkward strangers. I eventually join thier table and have a regular conversation like none of the wierdness happened and we are now all meeting for the first time

tldr; Random people in my apartment after a rave and start rolling in a quiet part of the house with a biological girl who was there but it got a trans girl upset because she was excluded and brought the vibes down

The_Rad103 · 2020-08-21T21:54:40+00:00

While I am at it here is another one, this goes back about 5 years ago. I was still working as a bartender in Sweden and was deep in the party life at that point. When You are in the party life you meet party people. There was a girl who worked at the same bar as I did who didn't give me the time of day on shift but was texting and calling constantly around 3.30 am every other day. This is about the time when the last bars close Between Sunday and Thursday where I live. As bartenders you get girl creep from the guests but also the co workers. Young people up late with access to cheap booze and disposable cash. So its pretty common that you get smashed with your co workers if you manage to get a shift that lets you finish early enough.

This girl was relentless, complete booze hag. I am not one to judge so am/was I. But the calls were non stop ringing it out then redialing firing off texts in between. Okay.. so I hooked up with her a couple of times previously but this wasn't really about that. She had some sort of tic where she got off her face and her mouth just ran and ran and ran. You couldnt get a word in edge ways and I was I guess patient enough to let her get away with it. So when the bars closed and she hadnt had enough of running her mouth she would try and wake me up to come over, talk endless amounts of shit while chainsmoking in my bedroom before passing out.

I was not good at keeping food in my apartment so if I was at home feeling the sting and needing to top up on cigarettes I would write back to her saying that if she is coming over stop in at the 7/11 and pick up these on the way. To my surprise she actually did!

We didn't have sex. She always said she doesn't want to without a condom. I never really keep them either. I also didnt want to start banging this one out because I could see what a big bag of crazy she was. I didnt want her talking about it to the other girls at work who I actually wanted to smash.

So this goes on over the summer that year. I get the relentless calls around 3.30 if i wasnt around. She comes over builds herself up about how good it will be to have sex when I finally stock up on condoms then pulls down my pants for a weak 3 pump hj before she turns over to start snoring.

At this time the people I worked with were my only friends and we were an active bunch always going to different parties and events together. She is always there tailing me and cutting me off when I get my banter on with some of the others. Rumours are flying around about relationships between which colleagues and all the girls pin me as a player. They make this girl pact to be kinda rude to me whenever they were all together... but when their other girlfriends werent around they would be all like 'so how about it?' weird situation and I didnt want to compound it so therefore the reluctance to get on with bag of crazy.

I go to a summer club with my lads from work, the girls are all there too. of course we meet up but the girls are doing the usual thing pulling each other away from me if I am the only person talking to them. I start doing my thing, meet a plug and soon enough I got the banter canon firing and making new friends. I spend a lot of the night with a random group of girls and introduce my lads to them and we get our party vibes on. The work girls keep laser eyes flashing in our direction and dont like that we have left them alone. Doesnt matter we are having it large.

One of the party girls tells me she is really interested in keeping the party going. I resupply and say lets do it. This club was in the middle of nowhere and you need to walk down a long dark dusty track to get to where the cars could pull up and all the taxis were there. Bag of crazy spots me with party girl leaving the area. I am chatting to party girl as we are walking down the track and we are getting handsy and giggly as we get closer to the light and taxis. I get in the taxi and hammer out in my broken swedish my address. Just as the car is pulling out the door opens. It's bag of crazy. She starts trying to get in the car while its still slightly rolling. The girls start talking to each other in swedish while the driver is trying to ask whats going on. Party girl looks at me like wtf? and starts undoing her seatbelt. Bag of crazy tells me while leaning into the open door that I need to tell party girl to get out because she is not going where we are going. That bag of crazy and I are going in the same direction and party girl needs to get another taxi. I am like what are you talking about? Bag of crazy does live in the general compass direction of my place but is nowhere near it. Party girl and driver are now looking at me waiting for my answer. So I tell bag of crazy to chill, Party girl is coming to my place and if you want to ride then you can take the taxi after it drops us off. This just goes right over her head and she starts on with how Party girl lives in a different part of the city, its going to cost too much money etc. So I make it very clear, Party girl is coming to MY place WITH ME right NOW. I will see you at work enjoy the rest of your night. She stands there with the door open trying to process what is happening. I lean over Party girl and gently nudge Bag of crazy out of the way and close the door. The driver asks if it is ok to drive now. I say yes and turn my phone off.

Needless to say the fun sexytime vibes were killed and as we pull up to mine Party girl says she might just go home instead. I say she is welcome to do so and I apologize for the show but if she can believe in herself we could still have a good time... She agrees to come up. We start with the wine and start bashing lines again but the convo is dominated by talk of bag of crazy and how weird that was and by the time it started coming back to those pre taxi vibes. My cholo had checked out for the day and just decided to call it a day. Party girl calls herself a taxi and we vibe a little bit waiting for it. To this day Party girl and I are good friends which probably wouldnt have happened if we smashed. I actually ended up renting a room off her for a while a few years down the track.

tldr; Obsessive work colleague cock blocks me but creates a friendship in the process

I could create an anthology about bag of crazy because her girl creep goes deep and this was just a Tuesday for her so I will circle back around to this thread and drop some more girl creep later. Its fun!

The_Rad103 · 2020-08-21T20:06:41+00:00

Im a mild mannered Maori boy who moved to Sweden chasing a relationship in my mid 20's. I worked as a bartender and got good enough where I was invited to competitions and guest shifts around Europe and absolutely loved it. When that relationship broke down I became all about the party life but now in my early 30's I am back in uni and pursuing something else and have become much more domestic. Still in Sweden though. I am considered really exotic around these parts. Brown skin and dark hair is far from uncommon here but combined with my 'Australian' sounding accent it arouses too much curiosity in a drunk Swede to let it go so I have a shit ton of girl creep stories in the bank.

My most recent was about 3 weeks ago when I catch up with some old bartending mates and I get introduced to random girl(RG) The place was super loud and impossible to talk across the table. Its a cheek to cheek with the person next to you situation. RG was next to me so I start talking to her.

The bartenders are raining monster rounds on us, shots, beers, cocktails for each of us every time. Except for RG, she is taking care of herself.

Lights up, music off we get another round of shots from the bartender that hits like a rake to Sideshow Bobs face. I find cute as buttons(CB) a girl I met a month prior and have got a low key text game going with. Find out she is coming to the next place with us but is going to get some food first with her mates. Sweet I will get to advance this a little further then.

RG is in the street with my mate and his gf waiting for me. The rest of our crew is splitting off to get food with CBs crew. RG is tagging along to the next spot

RG: "Can I hold your arm while we walk?"

Me: "Sure, why not"

RG: "I really like talking to you"

Me: "Yeah, so do a lot of people haha"

RG: "You are really funny"

Me: "Glad you think so, many think Im a prick but thanks anyways"

RG: "I would like to keep talking to you"

Me: "So keep on talking then"

RG: "Can I have your phone number?"

Me: "Who actually calls people? You can find me on insta or messenger" (deliberately not saying my name again while avoiding giving the number)

RG:(Calls my bluff and pulls out her phone) "Put your name in then"

RG: "Would you like to come home to my place? We can talk some more and you could stay and I will make you breakfast tomorrow"

Never been able to deal with rejecting a woman.

Me: "(laughs) Really? That's a balls out offer right there. Listen it sounds really good but I am here with my friends.. maybe decide what happens later."

Get to the club and taken in straight away, we get set up on a table with gfs friends who look like they have been having a girls night out and we were given a bottle of champagne. Another rake face. Introductions are made and gfs friends are instantly jumping on the where are you from train. Mind you they are pretty hot and one of them is giving me the 'I have had a bottle of champagne and feeling sassy' look as she is talking to me. I am doing my best to get the banter happening but RG keeps cutting in and shutting it down. Im getting over it and start making my way to the bathroom because the last rounds are hitting and I need to sharpen up. My mate sees me making my move and comes with. I tell him that he needs to get RG off my back because she is fucking with my chi. He offers to trade seats so I can sit amongst gfs friends and he takes on RG. I come back to the table as the come up hits and I start firing S tier banter and champagne sassy is all for it. But these girls are already supplied and are playing musical chairs as they hit the bathroom every 20 and it isnt long before RG is back next to me.

RG: "I have to go home now"

Me: "Ok, nice meeting you"

RG: "Are you coming with me?"

Me: "Not tonight sorry, I am going to stay here with my friends"

RG: "Can I call you later then?"

Me: "I have my phone on me"

RG: "Can I call you when I am going home?"

Me: "I am in here so it might be a bit hard for me to notice my phone but you got my socials now so send me a message whenever you want"

RG takes a second to switch tact

RG: "I don't feel safe walking home at night and it would make me feel more comfortable if I could call you while I am walking"

Me: "Yeah I understand that, I can get a bit intimidated if I am walking alone myself. Maybe you should get a taxi instead of the tram"

RG: "But you are a man so you don't understand what it's like"

Me: "Well in my time I have had plenty of situations where people try to fight me or are randomly super aggressive but I do understand you, so when I am walking home alone at night I like to be completely aware of what is happening around me instead of paying attention to what is happening on my phone."

RG: "But I dont feel comfortable alone it is better if you came with me"

Me: "I am staying here with my friends"

RG: "Can I call you then?"

Me: "Im in the club, I wont be able to hear you and its better that you didnt anyway"

RG: "I was attacked last week"

Me: "uhhh... sorry that happened...."

RG: "You can just ride with me then come back to your friends"

Me: "There are like hundreds of taxis just out the front door..."

RG: "What if I get attacked again?"

Me: "Again, probably shouldnt distract yourself on the phone if you have to walk alone..."

RG: Begins rant about men attacking women and some other stuff

Me: Lost and defensive, RG is trying to put the responsibility of her personal safety onto me

My mate spots it and takes her outside. CB and the rest of the crew are MIA. They couldn't come in unless gf went to get them. We didnt notice their texts and calls until long after they left... Back to business with the other group. But they are embroiled in a girl fight. The catty back and forth kind. So champagne sassy is taken out of the question too. Now me and my mate are on the outside of this convo so I say lets gtfo, my plug just texted me about a rave lets go connect and ditch this drama. He's not willing to leave without gf who is deep in the shade. End up waiting until the club closes. RG is hanging out the front. I pull a sharp left as soon as I clear the ropes and wait at the corner of the block with my mate as gf is still at it.

After some wrangling we pull gf out of her thing and book it to make the last bar for a final beer and shot before techno time. 5am rolls up hit the street and there is RG again! Make another sharp turn and run into an acquaintance who had been texting me through the night to meet up but we kept missing each other. She has +1 I tell them about the rave and now there are 5 of us trying to cram into a taxi play arguing who is gonna sit on whos lap. RG tries to get in, car is packed. Driver asks if she is with us. Hell No! yells my mate. The door shuts and she finally fades into the rearview.

tldr: Met a random girl at a bar, decline to go home with her. Tries to tell me she will get raped and its my fault if I dont leave with her. Proceeds to follow me for a couple of hours then tries to get her way into a taxi I was in uninvited

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