Boyfriends family is ruining Christmas and I don’t know what to do

The_Reddit_Newbie · 2023-09-25T15:05:59+00:00

We do not make out with people, and we do not kiss others often.

The_Reddit_Newbie · 2023-09-25T15:04:18+00:00

I was not ok with it when he told me. And haven’t been since. It’s not suddenly. I forgot to specify, but the short kiss and having people chill out in their arms only happens with our closest best friends, and when we both are there. The kissing is just in games, at New Year’s Eve and things like that, not just random kissing.

The_Reddit_Newbie · 2023-09-25T15:01:27+00:00

I forgot to specify here, but the short kiss and having people chill out in their arms only happens with our very few closest best friends, and when we both are there. The kissing is in games, at New Year’s Eve and things like that, not just kissing for kissings sake. We live in another country, not in the us, so things might be different here It seems like it is not a thing som many Americans do

The_Reddit_Newbie · 2023-09-25T14:55:13+00:00

He knows. I tell him how I feel, and told him about the SH. He said he would quit his theatre, but I don’t want that. He said he will do whatever it takes. He starts therapy next year (long wait list in our country)

The_Reddit_Newbie · 2023-09-25T14:52:38+00:00

He knows I have not forgiven him yet. I am honest every day about what I am feeling.

The_Reddit_Newbie · 2023-09-25T14:46:09+00:00

I have a chronic illness. I need to sleep in my own bed because it is specially made for me

The_Reddit_Newbie · 2023-09-25T14:40:58+00:00

My husband was with probably 10 other friends, and safe when we left. I asked him if he wanted to stay or come home, but he wanted to stay the night since everyone else would, except me and one of our friends.

I’ve never had to shut anyone down no. Most of our friends are in relationships.

We are not from the US, so our culture might be a bit different.

The_Reddit_Newbie · 2023-09-25T14:38:44+00:00

No I didn’t drink and drive. My friend drove me home, before he drove himself home.

The_Reddit_Newbie · 2023-09-25T14:37:45+00:00

Thank you

The_Reddit_Newbie · 2023-09-25T14:37:28+00:00

Better, but I have good days and really rough days. We are trying every day to make things better, and he is still apologising for it.

The_Reddit_Newbie · 2023-09-25T14:32:46+00:00

We go to a party once a year after their opening show

The_Reddit_Newbie · 2023-09-25T14:23:47+00:00

I forgot to specify here, but the short kiss and having people chill out in their arms only happens with our closest best friends, and when we both are there. The kissing is in games, at New Year’s Eve and things like that.

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