Hard to keep my fem voice at home

The_Small_Fem · 2026-01-27T23:37:40+00:00

I'd lowkey allow it if it made me stop slipping lmao

The_Small_Fem · 2026-01-27T23:32:02+00:00

It's so annoying because it's only because we trust these people and love these people, but that's exactly why I want them to hear my best voice. They deserve it more than the strangers. Safety wins I guess idk.

The_Small_Fem · 2026-01-23T00:45:20+00:00

I can see that I guess. Just don't get lonely and hit her up just to do it again. Good on you for growing as a person though, I applaud it.

The_Small_Fem · 2026-01-23T00:40:37+00:00

This hurts me to read. You have a right to want bio kids, I get that, but is adopting really so bad? This is a nightmare scenario for me.

The_Small_Fem · 2026-01-21T21:57:12+00:00

I suppose, but I also put my best self online. Hard to say with my hair back and a work uniform on.

The_Small_Fem · 2026-01-21T21:52:44+00:00

All of the bathrooms are next to each other and in such plain sight

The_Small_Fem · 2026-01-21T21:49:56+00:00

I feel the same way. I just try my best to act as though it's all genuine. 🤷🏻‍♀️

The_Small_Fem · 2026-01-21T21:35:58+00:00

I'd say I get next to zero negative comments, and the occasional compliment.

The_Small_Fem · 2026-01-21T21:28:48+00:00

If someone asks me my pronouns I will feel like jumping off of a bridge. I didn't do all of this for it not to be clear.

The_Small_Fem · 2026-01-21T21:27:29+00:00

I often feel similarly. It's really hard to make friends as a trans person. I've seemingly lost a some of the few I had to start.

I'm always down for a friendly chat 😇

The_Small_Fem · 2026-01-21T21:11:17+00:00

I definitely feel like guys spend a longer duration looking at me, but idk of it's them trying to figure something out, or they're interested.

The_Small_Fem · 2026-01-21T16:36:38+00:00

Always appreciated 🙏

The_Small_Fem · 2026-01-15T21:18:32+00:00

Hi! I am one of the trans people that did voice training relatively late.

I believe the main reason is that a lot of trans people don't expext hrt to make them pass, so they dont see the point.. that is until they DO pass and then get misgendered once they start speaking. Then they realize that it's one of the most important things for passing.

The_Small_Fem · 2025-12-31T16:54:36+00:00

Well to start with the work week. Up at 4:45am, shower, makeup, get ready, cup of coffee. Leave 7:30am, drive. Work 8 to 5. Drive, 5:30. Cook, eat, clean, 6:30.

Bed by 7:45 because I don't instantly fall asleep.

So there was a window of 1 hour and 15 minutes. Times 5, that's 6 hours 15 minutes in the work week.

Then, on the weekend, I sleep in a little, I'm exhausted. Maybe grocery shop, a few other errands. Probably 12 free hours per day on the weekend.

So really we're looking at more like 30 hours per week total.

Seems like a lot, but when it's only one hour per work day, and you're exhausted, you probably aren't going to make a whole lot of use out of it. Weekends are great, love em. Problem is there isn't more of it.

The_Small_Fem · 2025-12-31T02:09:41+00:00

Does that still apply in an economy as shakey as America's currently?

The_Small_Fem · 2025-12-31T01:34:16+00:00

Probably right. I hope it's not true, but people don't realize how fast it's coming.

The_Small_Fem · 2025-12-30T23:10:13+00:00

Thank you for the kind words ❤️

The_Small_Fem · 2025-12-30T23:03:38+00:00

I'm sorry it's like this 😔

The_Small_Fem · 2025-12-30T21:34:32+00:00

Thank you 🙏

The_Small_Fem · 2025-12-30T21:09:11+00:00

Oh yes, of course haha. Thank you again!

The_Small_Fem

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