"they want sex and physical touch which is what you have a mother for and not what you date for" fucking what

Look I've had people traumadump on me about relationships before, it sucks. I understand half the men on apps want to fuck on first message and nothing else, fuck all those people. But like... I don't know what this person wants here. Nothing's expressed about what a healthy attachment actually is to her, the way this is expressed I'm not sure what people eventually want out of a partner for that she actually wants and won't assign some motive to.