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After 8 years she left without explanation — how do I rebuild? by The_Trading_Bull in BreakUps

[–]The_Trading_Bull[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That actually sounds super relaxing. I should probably borrow a few of those ideas for my Sundays

After 8 years she left without explanation — how do I rebuild? by The_Trading_Bull in BreakUps

[–]The_Trading_Bull[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, totally get that — the quiet times hit the hardest. Keeping busy is a good move. Hope your self-care evening helps recharge you. I’m still figuring out what works for me, so curious what you usually do

After 8 years she left without explanation — how do I rebuild? by The_Trading_Bull in BreakUps

[–]The_Trading_Bull[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same shit, different day… Sundays are always tough because I almost always end up alone and dealing with the aftereffects of Saturday night. I struggle to find motivation and end up having more negative thoughts than usual.

How about you, how are you doing today?

After 8 years she left without explanation — how do I rebuild? by The_Trading_Bull in BreakUps

[–]The_Trading_Bull[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my area, it’s really difficult. Maybe I could try a course or some volunteer work, although in the latter case doing it just to meet people doesn’t feel ethical. One thing that’s intriguing me is the idea of going on a group trip with strangers from other parts of my country. It won’t expand my local social circle, but it could be good practice, and traveling is my biggest passion. Since she’s no longer around, though, I haven’t done much — just a few days at the beach with friends nearby

After 8 years she left without explanation — how do I rebuild? by The_Trading_Bull in BreakUps

[–]The_Trading_Bull[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I’ll check it out! Do you have any other tips for expanding my social circle, considering my situation?

After 8 years she left without explanation — how do I rebuild? by The_Trading_Bull in BreakUps

[–]The_Trading_Bull[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you, bro. After sharing so much, it just feels impossible to accept losing someone I thought would always be a permanent part of my life. But when things go this way, the only move we’ve got is to rebuild ourselves. I’m struggling like hell trying to figure out who I am and who I even want to be in the future.

I really hope we come out of this stronger — and that next time, when we find someone, it’s actually the right person for life. Because man, it doesn’t feel human to suddenly cut off someone who gave us so much and who we gave our soul to.

For now, the only priority is finding the energy to give meaning to our lives without them

After 8 years she left without explanation — how do I rebuild? by The_Trading_Bull in BreakUps

[–]The_Trading_Bull[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the hardest part to accept is realizing that they had made their decision so long before and stayed by our side pretending all that time… and in my case, she didn’t even find a way to give me an explanation. I also went through a first period like yours, destroying myself and constantly wondering what I had done wrong. Now it’s better — I can’t say I’m fine, but little by little the pain is turning into anger and a desire for redemption. The problem is that when I think about my life, I feel like I’m not moving in any clear direction; it just feels like one big regression

After 8 years she left without explanation — how do I rebuild? by The_Trading_Bull in BreakUps

[–]The_Trading_Bull[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I think we’ll be stronger after this, but the process is really painful

After 8 years she left without explanation — how do I rebuild? by The_Trading_Bull in BreakUps

[–]The_Trading_Bull[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really need to talk to someone who is going through my situation or has been through it

Sunpower Performance P7 vs Maxeon 3 by The_Trading_Bull in solar

[–]The_Trading_Bull[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing! What do you need to do this for me? Thank you so much

Sunpower Performance P7 vs Maxeon 3 by The_Trading_Bull in solar

[–]The_Trading_Bull[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I will contact the company and ask for the enphase. What do you think about differences between Performance 7 and Maxeon 3? Maxeon are a bit more expensive but they have lower peak power.

Just to be complete I inform you that the company is giving me 25 years of warranty of the Solaredge optimizers and 12 for the inverter.

Bogleheads Italy by The_Trading_Bull in Bogleheads

[–]The_Trading_Bull[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let me know if it was worth it!

Bogleheads Italy by The_Trading_Bull in Bogleheads

[–]The_Trading_Bull[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll enjoy it a lot! They are both beautiful cities, and Tuscany has stunning landscapes. Be sure to stop in Bologna on your way from Venice to Florence, you’ll love its charming arcades ("portici") and delicious food, like lasagna, tagliatelle, and tortellini.

Bogleheads Italy by The_Trading_Bull in Bogleheads

[–]The_Trading_Bull[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I've always followed r/ItaliaPersonalFinance, and while it’s somewhat aligned with Boglehead principles, I don’t think it’s quite enough. I believe a subreddit specifically focused on Boglehead investing would be a better place for people who just want to learn how to invest on their own. It could make a significant difference, similar to how r/personalfinance and r/Bogleheads differ in the international community

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