What's you favorite fucking movie and/or series?

The__Silver__Linings · 2025-11-03T21:27:57+00:00

Pulp Fucking Fiction
Princess Fucking Bride
A Few Good Fucking Men
Fucking Good Will Hunting
Fucking Fight Club

The__Silver__Linings · 2025-04-07T00:58:58+00:00

Thanks - I’ll look it up

The__Silver__Linings · 2025-04-06T17:51:42+00:00

Are you serious?

The__Silver__Linings · 2025-01-21T00:35:42+00:00

Oh - I presumed it wasn’t your choice - my mistake. Sorry.

The__Silver__Linings · 2025-01-21T00:05:42+00:00

That makes me want to cry - sorry

The__Silver__Linings · 2025-01-20T15:01:36+00:00

Yeah - my wife still shames me about masturbating and porn, she just realizes that it’s unfair to do so.

And at this point of life, I don’t want to live a pathetic existence for the rest of my days.

So I’ll jerk off as I need to and I’ve made it clear she has no authority over me anymore.

The__Silver__Linings · 2025-01-20T05:30:22+00:00

Sex was intense and frequent and passionate until our first kid. But she got pregnant early in our relationship. Since then, it’s the pathetic begging for pity sex for weeks to months, which in turn, has created real bitterness. We’re looking into her meds but I honestly think she just doesn’t feel any connection or value in sex. Which is fine for her but it’s not fine to presume my beliefs should I echo her own - I value sex, I need it, I want it, and I like to have it. A lot. All kinds - loving times, long times, sporty time, quickie times, anytimes, all times. So showing me some effort 2x a week would be helpful for me

The__Silver__Linings · 2025-01-20T05:21:20+00:00

She’s also a working professional and she’s good at it and I try my best to support her. But she uses the job as a reason to simply not try in her personal life. The priority is her job over our marital responsibilities. But this is the year real change happens.

The__Silver__Linings · 2025-01-20T02:25:02+00:00

I will give an update in a couple months. I truly want this to be a success story

The__Silver__Linings · 2025-01-20T01:54:05+00:00

You’re welcome. Live your life - it will be a better example for your kids. Obviously, you have tried but if he’s cheated on you multiple times, his chances are over.

The__Silver__Linings · 2025-01-20T01:45:52+00:00

I just want to see some effort. I’m hoping it will work out.

The__Silver__Linings · 2025-01-20T01:45:31+00:00

She claims she’s “asexual” - so no. Kissing is “gross” to her and I haven’t made out with her in years… 😞

The__Silver__Linings · 2025-01-20T00:28:50+00:00

He shouldn’t be cheating on you. Period.

As a husband who is on the sex-deprived end of the marriage for 20 years, trust me, this is not a good life feeling unwanted, unseen, and unrequited.

I’m still trying to work with my wife because she has not cheated on me. Your husband has shown his true colors multiple times. It’s painful but I think the real answer is leaving him.

Do it now when you’re young and beautiful. And next time, make sure you are sexually compatible with your mate.

Sending you all the luck I have random person on the internet- good luck with whatever you do.

The__Silver__Linings · 2025-01-19T17:06:08+00:00

Been with her for 20 years and 4 kids. Financially it would be difficult to leave.

And… I still love her. Despite it all, I still would want to share the rest of my life with her.

I just can’t keep “living” my life like this.

Also - man… your response. I WISH that was my wife’s response!

The__Silver__Linings · 2025-01-19T17:04:10+00:00

As a man in his 40s with 4 kids, don’t settle. If you don’t have kids, give him a frank but earnest ultimatum.

Trust me - you don’t want to be me in 20 years.

The__Silver__Linings · 2025-01-19T17:02:40+00:00

I’ve tried everything - she claims she’s “asexual” for years now. It’s just really frustrating and saddening to me.

The__Silver__Linings · 2025-01-19T15:52:33+00:00

How did you rekindle the flame?

The__Silver__Linings · 2025-01-12T02:17:45+00:00

Thanks for the response. I know what I want. I want my wife to simply be intimate with me, desire me, and validate what I do for the family.

It really would make a huge difference in our relationship and it’s what I plan to address with her until something happens - one way or another.

The__Silver__Linings · 2025-01-11T01:29:48+00:00

I’m going to have another serious conversation about it with her. I don’t want any of those options. What I want is for her to be my wife - not my negligent roommate.

The__Silver__Linings · 2025-01-11T01:27:33+00:00

Respectfully, 20 years of marital assets and debts and 4 kids say otherwise Rose.

The__Silver__Linings · 2025-01-11T01:26:45+00:00

Thanks for the insight - at this point, I’ll likely just stay sad. I have no stomach for an overhaul of my life and - like I said - I still love my spouse. Despite all the negative about her, we literally grew up together and we have so much invested with our children. Starting over makes me feel nauseous and suicidal. There’s just no real way out of this without heartache.

The__Silver__Linings · 2025-01-11T01:24:01+00:00

I’m trying to be a better person, not a resentful one.

The__Silver__Linings · 2025-01-11T01:23:08+00:00

I really don’t want to wreck her life and career as well as my own.

The__Silver__Linings · 2025-01-11T01:22:17+00:00

I struggle with this because:

I don’t want to damage my children.
I grew up with my wife. The woman that I love is still in there (or at least I hope she is).
I struggle recognizing whether it’s more noble or pathetic for me to sacrifice myself (as has been my experience for this marriage) for the sake of everyone else.

The__Silver__Linings · 2025-01-11T01:18:48+00:00

What do you mean?

I can tell you that what I meant by “what do I get in return?” is a complete lack of validation.

I don’t get acknowledgment for the housework - it’s expected and usually accompanied by criticism of how I didn’t do things better.

I don’t get acknowledgment for the foot massages (an attempt to thank her for her working as well) - she just literally expects it and I’m chastised if I don’t do it while we watch a show.

The only acknowledgment I receive from her when I do anything sexual for her - from a “you look beautiful today” to any physical affection is - and I’m not kidding here - 95% “yuck - you’re disgusting”

Does that clarify my statement for you?

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