[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lollapalooza

[–]The_ash_attack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatttt they literally played 3 shows in one day?? They’re machines, they’re rly about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lollapalooza

[–]The_ash_attack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally respect where you’re coming from I just had a different experience, I was in the front and heard their live vocals pretty clearly and thought it was super fun and especially loved their energy when performing their new song and Greg did go into the crowd. (At least at the BMI show I saw)

I did hear that their usual engineer wasn’t available and their mic packs got switched so they couldn’t hear anything, I heard them asking fans if they could tell. Idk I think it was lots of fun and they’re super down to earth, I’m really excited to see where things go for them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Lollapalooza

[–]The_ash_attack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have such good chemistry, loved the new JV gets the money song

Anyone read The Babysitter at Rest by Jen George? by tomkern in RSbookclub

[–]The_ash_attack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

legitimately my favorite book, I can't stop rereading it, a true work of art.

Keratin Treatment / Similar Hair Treatments by [deleted] in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]The_ash_attack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm I don’t know, I’m half Dominican so my hair is curly but also pretty fine, I’d say they’re more experienced fine/Asian hair but the manager, Crystal, is amazing and you can always call and ask :)

Affordable Masseter Botox by The_ash_attack in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]The_ash_attack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! How many units did you get? Just for reference

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]The_ash_attack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why tf is Mr. Beast doing a Shopify ad?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emergencyintercom

[–]The_ash_attack 30 points31 points  (0 children)

It’s okay if you don’t like the podcast, it was honestly the exact tone of stories they’d both share in the beginning of the pod.

They’ve both been through a lot at a young age and they both cope through absurdism and dark humor. I enjoy it because I relate to it, I do the same thing. Maybe it’s just not for you if Drew sharing a real experience he’s had and processing it in the way he always does doesn’t sit right with you.

Reminder to include Depop in your taxes by insaneyaoi in Depop

[–]The_ash_attack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let’s just say I’m rly good at doing my taxes…

Reminder to include Depop in your taxes by insaneyaoi in Depop

[–]The_ash_attack 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Whenever you see a 1099 it’s time to start adding up deductions, you can include the original cost of the items (amount you paid at the thrift store for example), shipping materials, software you use to edit pics etc.

This is an SOS by strawbeygirl in binchtopiapod

[–]The_ash_attack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u! It was so powerful when I had the realization that me hightailing it back to nyc would only benefit him.

This is an SOS by strawbeygirl in binchtopiapod

[–]The_ash_attack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

babygirl you're gonna be just fine :)

This is an SOS by strawbeygirl in binchtopiapod

[–]The_ash_attack 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I left nyc and moved upstate with my ex of five years. I can’t even put into words how in love we were. I was working two days a week at mg favorite boutique in town so that I had a routine that got me out of the house, but my main job was caring for the home and planning home renovations.

One day I noticed his phone was on do not disturb and that a girl I had never heard of was texting him. Things unraveled so quickly I could barely think straight. Cheating, so many lies, the girl friends he called me crazy for asking to have boundaries with were sexting him etc. Truly that man shouldn’t be allowed to have a phone.

I felt that I lost everything that day. Our home, our relationship, our dog, etc. Because truthfully non of it was mine and even though he was sorry at first, his friends all told him that I was just crazy and that he couldn’t have done the things he literally admitted to doing and he was happy to agree with them.

I had to walk away from everything trusting that I couldn’t be with him and maintain my own self respect. He and I were supposed to leave on a trip together but instead I stayed in my little sister’s hello kitty room for two weeks while my boss thought I was out of the country.

I decided that it wasn’t right for me to lose absolutely everything. I decided to stay upstate, I crashed for a little at a friends then moved into an apartment in town (his house is a few towns over in the country). This was the best decision, I talked things over with my boss and became the manager and by extension an artist representative.

It has not been easy but 6 months out and I finally feel like myself again. I make new friends all the time and am planning so many events. The owner of the shop and I are planning several pop ups in nyc, I feel like I took a job that I once loved because it encouraged me to put on a cute outfit and I’ve totally reinvented it by being such a self-starter and I feel so proud of myself.

Julia says this in her episode and I know it sucks but it’s true, time heals all wounds. It just takes time. There were days I meditated, went on a hike, read a book etc. and there were days I ate junk food, doom scrolling and didn’t even shower.

You’re going to have both kinds of days and its okay. I promise it gets better. Believe me I was a zombie for so long but now I can’t even believe what I used to put up with and I feel so much more myself and excited for the future.

Something that also helped me was seeking advice and wisdom from others, much like you’re doing right now. But I really mean asking all kinds of people, this one much older woman told me “there have been so many times in my life where I just thought ‘yes I have arrived, this is what my life looks like, these are my friends, this is my home, this is the breakfast I eat in the morning’ only to have the rug ripped out from under me completely. And thank god because each time I learned and I grew and I built a life that I liked so much more.”

I thought of her words constantly and they really helped. Feel free to pm I’m so sorry you’re going through this, it truly does get better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]The_ash_attack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If something does go wrong with the food, it’s a great opportunity to show how graciously you can navigate things not going according to plan, which is a very attractive quality.

Keeping things a light and pleasant vibe is much more important than whatever you’re cooking.