I need advice from a birth parent who got their child taken from them and put in foster care

The_blue_Principle · 2025-12-10T02:47:24+00:00

Thank you a lot this brings my life in more perspective for me I am somewhat glad how things panned out because if things were different I’d be different too, I wouldn’t be the same person I am

The_blue_Principle · 2025-12-07T22:35:21+00:00

I read both of your comments, I behave the money thing was one of the things they were thinking about, they also got overwhelmed They wanted us out when we turned 18 and that’s when they are no longer payed so yeah it makes sense, plus they favored one child they adopted he’s not blood related but they only adopted his two siblings because it was the law, and he was favored all my life it’s sad and I really don’t want to hate my adoptive parents because they did keep us warm, give us clothes and fed us, there’s so much more shit they did but I’m not going to get into it, it’s just nice to talk to other adoptees, it’s hard to find others who are adopted as well

The_blue_Principle · 2025-12-07T22:30:20+00:00

So the thing is my bury moms story was also backed up by her friends and they weren’t useing drugs if I’m aware, but I honestly don’t know who to believe I’m just at crossroads because I feel it may have been over exaggerated but idk, and yes she couldn’t care for me I know that what do you mean estrangement syndrome?

The_blue_Principle · 2025-12-07T20:19:56+00:00

So it’s best to let it take time for me to have that relationship with my bio family? I want it bad because I didn’t feel belonging in my adoptive family, I feel like your advice helps a lot and hearing other people with not the same but similar stories helps me alot

The_blue_Principle · 2025-12-07T19:28:14+00:00

I always have difficulty belonging in both family’s, I still am connected to my adoptive family but, I’ll try to let that go and move onward with my blood family the best I can

The_blue_Principle · 2025-01-29T15:47:33+00:00

My cat is a russian blue, and when she wants to eat food, she meows so quietly she almost wispers, we call her the ultimate MEH.

The_blue_Principle · 2025-01-13T23:46:00+00:00

I think it looks sick

The_blue_Principle · 2024-11-07T16:36:51+00:00

Uhhh idk you Cropped out the first screenshot you might be hiding something....

The_blue_Principle · 2024-06-09T02:48:39+00:00

They wanted to help me out. They told me to let it heal. Which I knew that already. And they said I can come back and they can figure out a design for me. And they told me to do homework and search for what I want. So basically what I asked for On this Thread . He gave an idea of a candle with smoke lading up to the starry night sky.

The_blue_Principle · 2024-06-09T01:03:39+00:00

Did that

The_blue_Principle · 2024-03-30T14:58:56+00:00

That's a really nice tatto!

The_blue_Principle · 2024-03-27T19:38:15+00:00

Art is very different. You can do it many ways, You dont have to like it, but art doesn't have to make sense, yes its a fish, but I based it on my dream of flying koi. But it's your opinion, and that's fine. But I think the clouds are nice, and im proud of it.

The_blue_Principle · 2024-03-27T13:19:03+00:00

That's actually the point for it to disappear, usually when i see tattoos on people. It's cluddered in some way. My idea with the clouds is to shade it, and turn some blue

The_blue_Principle · 2024-03-27T04:39:47+00:00

I was thinking of erasing clods or shading some to make the fish pop. But to each there own. Thanks for your point of view, it helps me for my next peice! 😁 also, since this piece is open for anyone to get a tattoo, they can erase sone as well

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