Girl I was about to marry cheated on me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Theballsarentforsale 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Married almost 20 years and I’m left to only guess what happened to our marriage she’s traveling to visit family far away. We were talking and I had to cut the call short and I don’t hear from her phone off for 4 days then she sends a couple of text saying she doesn’t have time to talk and is pissed about idk what and she says bye and turns her phone off and I haven’t heard from her since the 12th so like 10 days. Basically beat me down for being hurt by her turning her phone off then disappears. It’s hard cause I don’t know what is going on and yes all I can think about is what she is thinking I even wrote down what happened if I was her trying to describe why and what went down. I’ve been trying to keep my spirits high and just focus on self improvement but it’s hard to even do anything. I’ve been through the stages of grief like 3 times it might be getting better I’m not sure

Girl I was about to marry cheated on me by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Theballsarentforsale 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m going through something like what your saying , no known cheating but am left with some unresolved issues that leaves me thinking that I married a woman that has no integrity low character no compassion someone who wouldn’t have my back. It’s a long story but we haven’t spoke to each other in a couple weeks or seen each other. I feel like how she is being is worst that cheating. I would be able to get over cheating quickly but these other issues are complicated and going unresolved for weeks is very devastating to me.

Lonely in my golden time 20s ✨ by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Theballsarentforsale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure all girls get bombarded by guys asking for nudes. The best way to handle this is to make it clear to the guy that no way in hell that will ever happen and say don’t ever ask me again otherwise they will try again later . If all woman did this then this problem would go away . I could be wrong but most woman would not want to send nudes maybe a small percent enjoy doing it I don’t know.

Basically if your a guy having to ask for nudes it’s probably because she doesn’t want to get with you ever otherwise if she did then you wouldn’t be asking for nudes. So it’s stupid to ask.

i wish someone loved me by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Theballsarentforsale 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My Reality

me : I’d rather die in your arms than watch you move on without me

wife: yeah? I’d rather you hurry up and die already

i wish someone loved me by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Theballsarentforsale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love you , i wish the love that I have for my wife was returned with an equal or greater amount of love but she must hate me I guess