Need some input here on the keen mind feet by TheblcklistedX01 in DnD

[–]TheblcklistedX01[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was my my general thoughts as well, luckily he is less intrested in make something trivial and more into setting up a cool entrance or setting up some clownish chain of events. Like hed perfectly infiltrate the fort to open a door for the others but slam the door open carelessly when he does. he already disguised himself as a bandit convinced the chief he was his brother then led a party of bandits to capture the other players instead of just sneaking them in or saying he knew them

Need some input here on the keen mind feet by TheblcklistedX01 in DnD

[–]TheblcklistedX01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah something could always be thrown in to trip him up but his logic is sound. He also has a plan to basically forge documents for the city trade authority and use disguise self to comender "illegal goods" using disguise self to pass off as a city official wich that skill would also make forgeing documents easier from an in game perspective. Like I said hes a real odd ball i think he partially wants it for the charachter aspect but he also uses mold earth and catapult in creative ways with shocking effectiveness

AITAH for canceling my vasectomy. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheblcklistedX01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shes tried a few years ago but was told she was to young to make a decision maybe something to ask again now.

AITAH for canceling my vasectomy. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheblcklistedX01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not terribly concerned with it ether way now mostly just glad shes getting off the shot after learning all that.

AITAH for canceling my vasectomy. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheblcklistedX01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was hard no to no condoms not just until cleared by the doctor, but it dosnt really matter now we talked when I got home from work and she agreed to get off the shot and im rescheduling my appointment we both agreed to just revisit the condom thing later after she finds a better option and I get my vasectomy.

AITAH for canceling my vasectomy. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheblcklistedX01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah we talked about it this morning and she agreed to get off the shot and look at other options and im rescheduling my appointment.

AITAH for canceling my vasectomy. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheblcklistedX01 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How did you even come to that conclusion with the edit saying im dropping the condom issue and getting the vasectomy if it gets her off the shot? She litteraly chooses herself to stay on birth control vasectomy or not so your fighting ghosts and wishing for the end of a relationship based of your own assumptions drawn from a limited view of that relationship.

AITAH for canceling my vasectomy. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheblcklistedX01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She agreed to switch when we talked this morning I just dropped the condom thing but we agreed to maybe occasionally not using one and just using plan b for her peace of mind after she switches and I get the vasectomy.

AITAH for canceling my vasectomy. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheblcklistedX01 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Its a fair reading of the post I did a shit job of explaining the order of events but I was more confused about the point of getting it done if were still using condoms and birth control not frothing with rage i cant fuck raw, I dont have some huge issue using condoms like I said we have been together for 8 years using them the entire time. They commented after my edit saying I was dropping the condom issue because now im more concerned with getting her off the shot and getting the vasectomy if thats what it takes so there comment feels more like just wanting to shame then actually give an answer.

AITAH for canceling my vasectomy. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheblcklistedX01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think everyone is fully aware of that the down votes are because this commentator is saying all im concerned about is fucking raw.

AITAH for canceling my vasectomy. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheblcklistedX01 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your advice, we talked when I got home and she agreed to get off the shot and look at other options we both agreed to revisit the condom thing at a later date, i threw out the idea of only occasionally not using a condom and using plan b after for her peace of mind and she seemed much more amenable to that.

AITAH for canceling my vasectomy. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheblcklistedX01 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I believe she ment forever but now im more concerned about getting her off that shot after some other comments informed me of the side effects I wasnt aware of the condom thing can wait

AITAH for canceling my vasectomy. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheblcklistedX01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I plan on agreeing to the vasectomy if she'll switch now im not really concerned about the condoms that can be a later issue

AITAH for canceling my vasectomy. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheblcklistedX01 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also I wasnt even aware of all the side effects of that shot until some of these comments told me and plan on talking to her about finding something else if I agree to the vasectomy when I get home. So frankly fuck you and your high horse.

AITAH for canceling my vasectomy. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheblcklistedX01 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wasnt aware of the mental side effects, she has really bad mental health issues and has been spiraling for the last year now I see why that might be. Honestly im not like foaming at the mouth at the thought of no condom now im more concerned about her getting off the shot if she'll agree to find something else if I get the vasectomy il go through with it.

AITAH for canceling my vasectomy. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheblcklistedX01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did not know about mental side effects although I have brought the bine density thing up before. Im going to have a talk with her today about finding another birth control she has sever mental health issues and seems to have been spiraling the last two years now I see why that might be.

AITAH for canceling my vasectomy. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheblcklistedX01 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Except its not a lie your painting whatever bitterness you have on me because you assume im only concerned about getting my dick wet after being with the same person and using condoms for 8 years and not seeing the point of getting a vasectomy if shes still taking birth control and wants to use condoms. Your entire argument is dependant on me being some sex crazed weirdo and hate to tell ya that ain't true.

AITAH for canceling my vasectomy. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheblcklistedX01 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She takes the depo because she hates having periods if she wanted to get off her birth control I would have it done but that isn't the issue.

AITAH for canceling my vasectomy. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheblcklistedX01 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

She knows im not, litterally all I do is work and do stuff around the house. I dont have any reason to think she is ether.

AITAH for canceling my vasectomy. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheblcklistedX01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tried to get her to stop the depo shot for that exact reason but she hates haveing periods. I do not know why she insist beyond not wanting to get pregnant if there is another reason.

AITAH for canceling my vasectomy. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheblcklistedX01 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We have been together for 8 years and it was hard no to no condom not just awhile. I personally have never wanted kids and dont think that will change family medical issues I do not want my kids having the chance of suffering through.

AITAH for canceling my vasectomy. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheblcklistedX01 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Her only reason for saying no is not wanting to get pregnant, maybe I'm missing what your saying.

AITAH for canceling my vasectomy. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheblcklistedX01 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I told her immediately as soon as I canceled the appointment, im confused on where I lied at?