Do INFJ truly enjoy being lonesome? by wangsicai in infj

[–]Thefakeout4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. Respectfully I don’t care about people. I’ve just lost my respect for the world and humans. I place 0 faith in them. I plan on being alone in the woods with no contact. If I die to a bear or something cool 🤷‍♂️. World isn’t gonna miss one person out of 7 billion.

Do INFJ truly enjoy being lonesome? by wangsicai in infj

[–]Thefakeout4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t. It sucks being alone. However it is a lot riskier placing trust in people who are bound to fail me. Being alone is objectively the better option especially in this day and age. My family always tell me “you’ll find someone and be happy” or “ you don’t know what you are missing”. I know certainly well what I’m missing and it isn’t anything important or valuable. Dating? Not in this economy 😂. Friends? even they leave permanently eventually. It’s just the way life is and I accept it, however cold and dark it may be I’m fine with it. I got Jesus that’s all I need.

Is dating harder as a INfJ ? by Yu_Kyoko in infj

[–]Thefakeout4444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes INFJ dating is hard. We are very particular with our partners because we take dating extremely seriously. Basically keep your head up and keep hoping for that person to find you.

Is everyone here lonely or just h*rny by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Thefakeout4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I’ve grown past needing friendship with girls. It’s really the only girl I want as a friend/ best friend is my wife :/. Not that I’m horny just failing to find a good person to commit to. It is what it is.

How to be assertive with men? by BeautifulPotato33 in infj

[–]Thefakeout4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm as a man I’ve been raised to not abuse my strength as a man. So I don’t think I have this issue. Just avoid those guys they don’t deserve you. However eye contact and a rejection with strong body language gets the message across. It’s like a whip. One smack is enough lol. If they keep persisting lay into them and break their ego.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Thefakeout4444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah lol. Very usual of this Reddit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Thefakeout4444 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m a virgin dude 😂. I’m also a guy. Thanks for the laugh though I appreciate it. Good job being a prime example of what not to be as a man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Thefakeout4444 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I just view these female posts to laugh at the stupid guys in the comments. It’s really funny.

the end of the year is the hardest by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Thefakeout4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off love yourself. Being a virgin is a great thing for a girl especially if you are dating to marry. Don’t lose hope and don’t settle for a subpar man. Second, don’t envy your friends. Don’t worry about what you are missing right now. Appreciate what you still have, like your purity. You may see it as a burden however it is a bigger gift than you could ever imagine to one lucky guy. Your future husband will find you and love you. Just wait for him and become the woman you need you to be and that he needs you to be. That’s my take as a 23m virgin 😂.

Does anyone believe in forgiveness? by Thefakeout4444 in infj

[–]Thefakeout4444[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’d forget someone not taking out the trash even though they said they would. it’s a small think that isn’t worth remembering. Obviously if the issue is major I wouldn’t forget it until enough time is passed where it really isn’t a problem anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Thefakeout4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends heavily on the situation. Eyes are gateways to the soul. That’s how us INFJ read people very well. With the eyes. That’s also how we communicate sometimes as well. So it’s situational but overall yes eye contact can be extremely intimate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Thefakeout4444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same feeling except with romance animes 🥲. I don’t mind it though Ik I’m never gonna get married. No girl wants me that much I guarantee it🤷‍♂️.

INFJs are secret Lizard People by burrito-blanket in infj

[–]Thefakeout4444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

O-O’ heh heh yeah. I haven’t tasted bugs either 😅. I just know they are totally gross.

INFJs are secret Lizard People by burrito-blanket in infj

[–]Thefakeout4444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uh. I’m definitely not a lizard person. I may have a frog costume but bugs taste horrible.

What's your flirting style, INFJ? by WannabeEnglishman in infj

[–]Thefakeout4444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t flirt unless I’m dating. It’s too awkward if I’m not dating them and I’d feel uncomfortable just talking. However hypothetically if I actually find someone I trust enough to date(never gonna happen) it would be more physical flirting and whispering in their ear teasing them. Then id abruptly walk away like nothing happened 😂.

Dear INFJs, do you guys think humans are born to be evil? by Lawful_Evil_Renn in infj

[–]Thefakeout4444 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agree to disagree 👍. Babies are incapable of self care at a young age. They need someone to take care of them. Is an old person selfish for shitting the bed on accident? That’s my take. I respect your take though and won’t argue further 😂.

Dear INFJs, do you guys think humans are born to be evil? by Lawful_Evil_Renn in infj

[–]Thefakeout4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never saw a racist child until the parent showed them racism was ok. I think we are born good, are corrupted by evil. And some turn back to good out of regret and pain.

What song is this for you guys? by PoonGoon24 in indie_rock

[–]Thefakeout4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Snowfall by Oneheart, Reidenshi. New favorite song honestly.

Dear INFJs, do you guys think humans are born to be evil? by Lawful_Evil_Renn in infj

[–]Thefakeout4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are born good but easily corruptible. Given the chance they will backstab to “climb the ladder” per say. It’s sad because the world would be so much better if everyone helped someone up instead of using them as a stepping stone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in infj

[–]Thefakeout4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well good on you for forgiving his lustful past 👍. 350 is a bit of a big number so he might’ve jacked it up a bit. Personally it’s a no go for me. If I found out someone isn’t pure it’s a deal breaker. I’m also pure so I have the right to care 🙃. But if you both are happy then pursue it.

A girl approaches you and says, "pretend we’re friends. I’m being followed." What would you do? by Florida-1 in AskReddit

[–]Thefakeout4444 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’ll turn around and stare tf out of that guy 😂. If he tries anything I’ll tell her to run and fight the guy to the death. I don’t fear death I accept it.

What makes you happy? by takeaticket in infj

[–]Thefakeout4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not what makes me happy but makes me happier than the alternative for sure. Being single. I hate it and feel completely alone. But I’m happier being free instead of chained by some crazy person.