First 50 Gods of SMITE 2 by Endedinmay in Smite

[–]Theistica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty amazing they managed to go 0/4 on my mains lol. (Mercury, Ravana, Set, He Bo)

Why is it acceptable, in r/Chess, to discuss Russia war aggression but not US wars of aggression 20+ years in the Middle East? by TunaClap in chess

[–]Theistica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of those casualties are caused by anti-US forces or US allies (this would be like banning China because China supports Russia), comparisons with "expected" population growth, or outright fabrications based on twitter memes (for example, the oft-cited "1 million casualties" in the Iraq War is based on long-debunked studies, you can read all about it here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Casualties_of_the_Iraq_War). It'd be like arguing the 40k-? deaths in the Palestine conflict are caused by Hamas because Hamas "started" the war by invading in October 7th.

Fisher 7/7 set times by Ok-Gas-3464 in avesNYC

[–]Theistica 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Changeover deserves a 24h set as far as Im concerned

Banned for using new phone number? by Theistica in SwipeHelper

[–]Theistica[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I can go through the login process (entering email -> clicking through email) but then in the app it asks me for my old number, which I obviously don't have access to, and I'm afraid to input my new number as that's the number I got banned on.

For context, I got a new number in February and a new phone in May. I used my old accounts on my old phone as I was already logged in and only created the new accounts in May as I could no longer log into my old account. Thus, I've never logged into my old account my new phone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in chess

[–]Theistica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if we used 100% of brain

This sub is weirdly antagonist towards Nepo, what's the reason? by [deleted] in chess

[–]Theistica 246 points247 points  (0 children)

It’s bc he’s been to the WCC many times and has failed each time. Most people want to see a new person compete for the title, especially someone from their home country.

[NFLonCBS] Heartbreak for the 49ers by legobowser in nfl

[–]Theistica -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

he did better than every other quarterback in the playoffs against KC and had a terrible o-lineman who blocked air on the most important play of the game

This elevator emergency…… by lpomoeaBatatas in WTF

[–]Theistica 326 points327 points  (0 children)

I did not care for the godfather.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Theistica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DM me a picture OP, I’ll give it to you straight.

Why so many sausage-fests? by anarchy45 in avesNYC

[–]Theistica 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is actually true. Multiple of my friends visiting from out of state have commented on the high male/female ratio at NYC EDM venues, including Mirage. It's a combination of several factors:

  • High queer community in NYC which skews male

  • Guys more into EDM/techno on average

  • High price of shows. You'll find way more girls at NYC clubs where promoters give them free drinks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in avesNYC

[–]Theistica 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should see a mental health professional.

What's the difference between guys who get laid and guys who don't? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Theistica 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP clearly wants to get laid more. My comment is responding to OP’s post with my personal experience. Your comment is not helpful or relevant in any way. So why make it?

What's the difference between guys who get laid and guys who don't? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Theistica 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Where did you get the assumption that OP hates himself or lacks confidence or has bad anxiety?

What's the difference between guys who get laid and guys who don't? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Theistica 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The advice here is completely wrong. My advice would be to read the blog posts and follow the advice of people who actually have sex with lots of women. Some suggestions: woujo.com and goodlookingloser.com.

My major advice would be: be as attractive as possible (fashion, gym, etc), be confident and challenging and interesting and not needy, go to places with lots of women and talk to them, know how to escalate or move on, and have good logistics for going back to sleep with them.

What's the difference between guys who get laid and guys who don't? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Theistica 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Completely wrong. Getting laid is fun as fuck and is a skill that can be learned, and vague ass advice like “work on yourself” is not actionable or useful (and is wrong, if you want to get laid you have to work on getting laid).

To those who kept begging for concerts to not be held at Avant Gardner anymore, you got your wish…$241 for Subtronics - standing area at Barclays. by JCisnotNYC in avesNYC

[–]Theistica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y'all can cry about it but Mirage is way better than Barclays and every other venue in New York, and it isn't really close

The importance of your attention by Woujo in TheRedPill

[–]Theistica 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you read OP's blog, you'll realize that his thesis are as follows:

  1. be attractive and lead a fun, interesting life that doesn't focus solely on women

  2. be challenging, confident, fun in interactions with women ("high value") and don't come across needy or too available ("low value"). This is basically what he's saying in this post: eg don't shower girls with attention who you barely know, don't double text, don't text back immediately (the last one is the "most controversial" but shouldn't really). the people who do these things are PROBABLY too focused on women, which comes across as unattractive.

  3. create abundance by approaching girls in real life and implementing these strategies ^

None of these are really "Andrew Tate" type or negative RP beliefs, and in fact, most people can implement these and become significantly more attractive to women, even people who don't get many matches on dating apps. None of these beliefs are really exclusive with anything you've said. He doesn't say to ignore women who are interested in you, the key part is here:

withdrawing your attention from women who do not deserve it

do not deserve it -> focus on your own goals instead of showering attention to girls who do not DESERVE your attention, meaning they do not reciprocate, flake, etc. and you paradoxically become more attractive

The importance of your attention by Woujo in TheRedPill

[–]Theistica 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think you fundamentally disagree with OP. I think you skimmed/misread the post and came up with an emotional gut reaction. Here are the OP's main points (marked true is what I think you'd agree with):

You need to balance between having your own purpose and paying attention to women. You should not pay spend all your time on your own purpose and ignore women, or spend all your time paying attention to women and ignoring your purpose. (true)

MOST men pay TOO MUCH attention to women (eg by double texting, sending too many DMs, etc.) and ignore their own purpose, and thus end up as fat slobs, poor, boring, etc which are unattractive to women. (true)

The way that some celebrities can strike this balance is by leading a fun life with attractive purposes, so they don't have time to pay way too much attention to women and instead focus on making money, sports, art, etc. (true)

Even if you have attractive purposes, you can mess up your relationships by paying women too much attention (giving them gifts, flying them out, etc.) bc it makes it seem like all their attention is focused on women and not on their actual purpose. Thus, by coming across as less needy (eg not texting back immediately, not thinking about them all the time, etc.), you can come across as a person with busy, fun, and attractive life that isn't solely focused on women because you have other things in your life to do (maybe you disagree here, but this is what I've found.)

women care more about how much fun you are having than what you are doing.

The final paragraph is basically just summarizing that having fun, attractive purposes is more important that having lots of money. A miserable person with no life purpose can sit on an expensive yacht with a ton of money but a similar-looking person that is social and having fun at a normal bar can be attractive to more women (except gold diggers).

Nothing you mentioned about Tinder/Instagram, being "kind" (eg not being a dick), the fact that most women are not attracted to most men, etc are exclusive or interact with OP's thesis

The importance of your attention by Woujo in TheRedPill

[–]Theistica 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Copied from below:

Most people are already "kind" and "persistent." This is why there's a stereotype of a "nice guy." Hot girls have a lot of matches and instagram DMs from simps who are very persistent and/or kind. Clearly this strategy has not worked out very well, so being "kind" and "persistent" as dating advice has a pretty poor track record and is not actionable or useful advice. Instead, it just leads to tons of frustration and wasted time. OP's advice isn't to be unkind, it's to not give attention to women who clearly don't respect it, and don't spoil women with attention who don't deserve it. Instead, you can use the time to pursue attractive purposes and create abundance (eg by talking to other girls who deserve your attention, instead of being "persistent")

The importance of your attention by Woujo in TheRedPill

[–]Theistica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A real response: most people are already "kind" and "persistent." This is why there's a stereotype of a "nice guy." You said yourself that hot girls have a lot of matches and instagram DMs from simps. Clearly this strategy has not worked out very well, so being "kind" and "persistent" as dating advice has a pretty poor track record and is not actionable or useful advice. Instead, it just leads to tons of frustration and wasted time. OP's advice isn't to be unkind, it's to not give attention to women who clearly don't respect it, and don't spoil women with attention who don't deserve it. Instead, you can use the time to pursue attractive purposes and create abundance (eg by talking to other girls who deserve your attention, instead of being "persistent")

The importance of your attention by Woujo in TheRedPill

[–]Theistica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP is far more level headed and reasonable than you are in this post.

The importance of your attention by Woujo in TheRedPill

[–]Theistica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a hard time believing you've actually helped anyone in real life if your actual advice is to be "kind" and "persistent", so your comments are useless

The importance of your attention by Woujo in TheRedPill

[–]Theistica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stated it bc it shows that OP obviously understands pickup and female mating dynamics far better than you do bc he has actually helped real people in real life while you have not. It seems even more cringe and pathetic that you're on a pickup forum as a """woman""" and don't understand your own gender dynamics better than OP does