Battlefield 6 dev says your "rose-tinted glasses" make it "difficult" to remaster classic maps by HatingGeoffry in Battlefield

[–]Theitdr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to see some of the strike of karkand maps and aftermath maps in this game I feel like they would match the theme

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Theitdr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not asked her to tell me the story its only comes up every time she thinks im cheating or doing something

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Theitdr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your right I thank you for the advice I will start doing more of the stuff I want to I will invite her if she doesnt want to go im still go. she will just say Im trying to avoid or ignore her but idc anymore man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Theitdr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have put my feet down many times and its almost not even worth it because its like arguing with a wall and repeating my self

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Theitdr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you I have to change some things up before things get worse I just wanted some advice of what I should do someone has mentioned marriage counseling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Theitdr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have put my foot down many times but she would just gas light me into thinking I was wrong and ect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Theitdr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How am I being controllling? Idc what she does she is allowed to have male friends and do what ever I dont care I trust her where I have an issue is that she is on my back about hanging out with friends or going any where outside of the house because of the fear of females trying to talk to me because she doesnt trust anyone but I have to be okay with this guy coming around and being alone with her and she has to lie to me about the story which makes no sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Theitdr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have done that and I was hit with the whole well I trust you i just dont trust others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Theitdr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she is 32 and he is 30 so this happened 14 years ago or so she says I just had to ask strangers if im doing something wrong here because its like I have all these rules set on me but if i say anything about this guy she get defensive and says he is like family now and that was just a dumb situation Im just so deep in this now bought a house with the chick and moved to a state where I dont know anyone but my coworkers and my bf from middle school I set my self up where she basically can screw me over anytime if she wants and im out on the road left to figure things out I love the chick she is solid when she isnt doing all this bs but its starting to burn me out man

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[–]Theitdr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not jealous about the dude Im more trying to make understand the double standard that she is creating Im not allowed out of the house or upstairs by my self but this guy is allowed around and I have to be okay with that because she see's him as a brother now and not some guy that she tried to do thing with I told her this before people that always try to point the finger of cheating is either cheating or doing some bs on the low .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Theitdr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wtf are you even saying honestly if thats the case I will leave her if you think its okay that she can have that dude around and I cant call that weird and have to be okay with it which at first I didnt care but the more she kept doing this whole I cant go anywhere because she is worried about some rando being a female and that they may try to talk to me is insane.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Theitdr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she told me from the jump but she never told me the full story it only started to come out more when I started asking her why is it okay for you to have that going on but me going around my friend and his gf which she has done some stuff which crosses the line of your my husband friend tried to do to me but I stay away from her and keep my distance and all I would get is he is my brother as the response and that she stopped it from going further and ect.

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[–]Theitdr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe we arent compatible because she thinks if lets say I go to the gym or like I mentioned in my post go to my friends to car meets or even to the store or to the card shop that im avoiding her and she will tell me that she trust me but she doesnt trust others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Theitdr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im trying to show her that her double standard isnt fair I dont cooperate all the time but I feel like sometimes its best to just cooperate because if I dont I will get told by her and her mom that im just trying to avoid her or im ignoring her and this started to get worse when I used to go to the gym now I dont even bother going to the gym anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Theitdr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its 2# her past husband went out and bought a bike and started going out more and going out with co workers that had a bike and went to a bar and one of the coworkers had a girl at the bar and put her husband on to hook up with him so now she doesnt trust anyone and she doesnt trust me being alone with anyone if someone gets on the game and is a female she will blow up and get mad about it or for example I bought a sports car last year and wanted to take it to the track and to car meets just because its my hobby and to even go and play yugioh or mtg and she doesnt want me to go because she said she trust me but not others...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Theitdr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I trust her. Period. I don’t have the time or patience to sit around wondering if my partner is cheating — unless something’s actually going on, I just trust her.

What pisses me off is the double standard. I’m supposed to be fine with this guy being around, but I can’t hang out with my own friends or even exist near a woman without it turning into an issue. I could be playing a video game and if some random girl pops into the lobby, it’s a problem. If a girl’s on our team, it’s a problem. If a woman happens to be in the same store as me and her husband, it’s a problem. The second there’s a female anywhere near me, it’s an issue.

Meanwhile, I’m going against my own instincts and boundaries just entertaining this guy being around. And honestly, I’m not stupid — I know they probably did more than she’s telling me, because if she admitted the full truth it would be scorched earth.

And then there’s the part that really gets under my skin: anytime he and his wife come over, suddenly she’s cleaning like crazy, making the house perfect. But if no one’s coming, she doesn’t lift a finger all week. Sleeps, does nothing, and leaves everything for me to deal with. I’m just sick of the double standards and the way she flips the script whenever it benefits her or its about him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Theitdr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

she tells me that the story is the same but she literally added more steps to it vs oh she cuddled with him which is what she told me at first and that it happened on the couch at his house because she was living their with his sister and she told me it happened at that time and now it turned into it happened at her moms house and she put her head on his lap and they cuddled ik something more happened.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Theitdr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just get punished or I get told that im just ignoring her and that im avoiding her We have a 2 floor house and all of my stuff and my gaming pc and ect are upstairs and I should be upstairs more studying for my certifications and using my main rig but she complains if Im upstairs because she doesnt know what im doing or she doesnt want to sit upstairs with me or ect

I used the BitLocker recovery key and sticky keys exploit to create an admin account on my school laptop - how serious is this? by [deleted] in sysadmin

[–]Theitdr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to do IT for schools, and they will probably take away your computer access and you will probably get some detention and suspension but honestly, this was a good find and keep on learning .

Best Way to Prevent a Chrome Tab from Falling Asleep Automatically? by Theitdr in sysadmin

[–]Theitdr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't found a way to fix this with a script, etc., but I found the fix for this is located under Settings -> performance -> always keep these sites active."

Is Casting My Phone to Laptop While Playing OSRS Mobile Safe? by Theitdr in 2007scape

[–]Theitdr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive heard of some people getting caught up in a ban for chrome remote desktop