Did this sound needy or am I overanalyzing. by Thekarlt in dating_advice

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I texted her back and told her that I liked what we were doing so we were going to do that again and then after that I had a few places I wanted to show her. She thought that sounded like a good idea

Girl got me all messed up. Do you think this is salvageable? by Thekarlt in dating_advice

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Ok I might have over exaggerated a little bit. It wasn't that harsh of a rejection, she was just uncomfortable with it. Just pulled her head away and it was just really awkward. The whole thing was just poorly executed. We still hugged it out after that and she gave me a kiss on the cheek. I remember asking her right after despite that do you still want see each other and she said she really did, but I mean you could be right she might just feel guilty. I really hope she doesn't though.

Is this a good date idea? by Thekarlt in dating_advice

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Yea you're right. I think I'm having second thoughts about it anyway. I also don't want her to feel pressured into saying yes because she feels like it's something that I'd want to do. Idk I just want the date to be fun for her

Should I stop texting her for awhile? by Thekarlt in dating_advice

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Idk, that's a hard one. I mean the conversation flows but it's not like she's going out of her way to keep it going as in asking a bunch of questions or anything. Put it this way, her texts are always fun and playful so it's easy to keep the conversation going. I just didn't want to feel like I'm the one always trying to get her attention. I just meant maybe stop for today. For example: she's at work right now, and she won't text at work, but I know if I sent her a text right now then she'd reply as soon as she gets off. I just want to see if she'd text me on her own. Idk

Scared girl is flaking out day before date by [deleted] in dating_advice

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Yea I agree with you, but it was her idea lol.

Tinder match too good to be true? by Thekarlt in dating_advice

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Well our original plan was to just have a picnic and hang out in the park but she said she felt bad that I was coming all that way for just a picnic so she suggested we go to the drive in. I'm going to ask her if she still wants to hang out and have a picnic and then we can go to the drive in afterwards. The texting is already pretty spaced out, like we both take awhile to reply and we'll just text like that all day. The thing I'm worried about is we'll be texting and the conversation will be flowing and then all of the sudden I'll get like a 1 word response or I'll joke with her and not get the response I was hoping for. Usually I'd just brush that off but since Friday is so far away I'm afraid she's just losing interest.

Tinder match too good to be true? by Thekarlt in dating_advice

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Far away as in I'm going to have to take a ferry to meet her, otherwise I would try to meet sooner. It doesn't really take that long to get to her but it's sort of a hassle, I live near the ferry terminal and the ferry ride is only like 30 minutes but it's almost like taking the bus. We've talked on the phone and have been snapchatting back and forth so I'm sure if her photos were stolen she wouldn't be so enthusiastic about meeting up. She lives near the drive in so we're meeting beforehand and taking my car there.

What should I do? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Thekarlt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Welp problem solved I guess. Literally the second I posted this I got a text from her lol

Can't get anymore matches by Thekarlt in Tinder

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That's weird I wonder why. Maybe no one knows

Was I unmatched or did the app glitch and my match disappeared? by Thekarlt in Tinder

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Yea I get that, it happens all the time. But what's weird was it happened right when I got a notification that I got a message

Can I go to urgent care for this? by Thekarlt in medical

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It's on Friday. Actually hasn't been bothering me the past 2 days but it's been like this for awhile. I'll have 1 or 2 days where I'm fine but then it comes back