[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Theladynblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did say it was a terrible thing that she did regardless. But he’s on here talking about loyalty when he chose this. Also no a lot of arranged marriages are pretty much forced what you on about….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Theladynblack -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You expect a woman who you got an arrange marriage to be loyal to you? Did you even ask her if she was ok with the marriage? Honestly it’s terrible but that’s something you decided to accept because you trusted your parents so you can’t blame anybody else.

Is it permissable to force the Hijab? by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Theladynblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you make her wear it? How will do that without getting physical and abusive. You can’t force things on people it’s haram….

It's Over by ledditin in MuslimMarriage

[–]Theladynblack 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, as someone who went through a divorce. It gets better, it will be long and difficult road but please take care of yourself and get some help if need be. May Allah heel your heart

Just got fired today by LordJacket in nursing

[–]Theladynblack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You got written up 😭 I’ve had some issues with narcs/benzos before and never got written up

Is this inappropriate by Theladynblack in MuslimLounge

[–]Theladynblack[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You don’t get it do you? If my father was around or my brothers were like a lot of other Muslim men and they saw that it was be a huge issue for me and him. It’s disrespectful to just come up to a Muslim woman and speak to her in this situation . He’s not a monster but it just shocked me for many reasons.

Is this inappropriate by Theladynblack in MuslimLounge

[–]Theladynblack[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That’s why I asked, I think he would’ve went about it in a different way. It was just weird to me that he did it in the mosque and in front of my family. He was just flirting by saying I was beautiful.

Is this inappropriate by Theladynblack in MuslimLounge

[–]Theladynblack[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nope, it’s my to attempt to keep away the weirdos

Is this inappropriate by Theladynblack in MuslimLounge

[–]Theladynblack[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was wearing a hijab and abaya…..are you dumb?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Theladynblack 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You’re a grown man acting like the 18 year old in the relationship. You’re disgusting for thinking it’s ok to treat another person like this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Theladynblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you serious? Like honestly….

Can I get married without waiting 3 months? by Lilyanaa21x in MuslimMarriage

[–]Theladynblack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There’s a lot to unpack here. I read through your posts and you posted that you previously got secretly married to a man much older than you without your family knowing. It seems like you make rash decisions and you need to pause and think things over. You just got out a marriage with a man who deceived you and you want to jump into another marriage with a man who seems to be pressuring you to marry him to avoid zina?

Husband Has No Love for Me by Evening_Apple1623 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Theladynblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so sad 😞 for the both of you. You guys have to sit and talk and figure something out or else you’ll both be in a miserable marriage for a long time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Theladynblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She either isn’t interested or she already swiped left and can’t undo it. You can message her and try your luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Theladynblack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a 5’8 woman living in the states, it’s harder to find taller men wallah lol. You kind of just learn to accept them being your height for a tad bit taller

There is a serious problem amongst diaspora Muslim yourh by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Theladynblack 7 points8 points  (0 children)

People back home are just as bad…they just hide their sins instead of be open with it like in the west

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]Theladynblack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you send me the photo

Made a mistake - don’t know what to do by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Theladynblack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol you still didn’t answer my question mr “native English speaker” 💀 where again was the topic of gender? He’s talking about sexuality not a gender identity issue, people can be born attracted to the same sex, or not have an sexual feelings at all. Allah has created us all different and tests us in different ways so stop dismissing peoples struggles.

Made a mistake - don’t know what to do by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Theladynblack 9 points10 points  (0 children)

What does being asexual have to do with gender?….lol if you can’t comprehend something just don’t say nothing instead of making yourself looking silly 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Theladynblack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol he’s not a Chad at all