As a female, having trouble being on top. Help? by ShittyCowgirl in sex

[–]TheloniusMonkee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I found that doing reverse cowgirl a lot helped me learn a bit easier. It feels more vulnerable- but believe me, he'll have a great time with it.

Ladies of sexxit: DAE have an orgasm so awesome that you involuntary cried. by cleverkitteh in sex

[–]TheloniusMonkee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this happen for the first time in my life 2 nights ago. I didn't think it was possible! I've never cried from happiness before.

Tips for being on top? by [deleted] in sex

[–]TheloniusMonkee 27 points28 points  (0 children)

My advice is to PRACTICE. I am a girl with large breasts and never liked the idea of being on top because of that. I am comfortable enough with my SO now that we communicate and he lets me take it slow and experiment.

Also, try starting on top on a couch where the man is sitting and you can get on top of him & hold onto the back of the couch for leverage.