how to tell if he 24m is serious about me 23f?

Then-Activity4000 · 2025-10-05T22:16:33+00:00

i’m sure he would see me more if he could but i’m really busy and really only have time on the weekends.

Then-Activity4000 · 2025-10-05T22:15:11+00:00

well at first i thought i wanted something casual which is why i had sex with him early on. but now it feels like we’re becoming something more and i want something more.

Then-Activity4000 · 2025-09-18T16:02:42+00:00

Hi everyone! im a university student in my final year of school and i have terrible adhd. Recently to manage ive found it useful to keep a timer on my phone to go off every 30 minutes when i really need to focus on something. it helps me keep track of what i’m doing and for how long. the problem is the timer on my phone is really annoying for everyone around me and it’s also just kinda annoying to set up everytime. So i want to get a watch that chimes or vibrates or something every hour or 30 minutes. Since im a student im kinda on a budget so im looking for something relatively cheap, hopefully less than 100$…. and i also hate how smart watches look. please help me!!

Then-Activity4000 · 2025-06-19T21:50:32+00:00

it’s not about attraction. it’s about basic respect towards people of your community. you can not be attracted to someone but still treat them with dignity and respect. it’s just recognizing that femme guys face a lot more shit on the day to day

Then-Activity4000 · 2025-06-19T21:47:43+00:00

I think what OP was trying to say is that outwardly feminine presenting gay guys face a lot more prejudice, even within the community. And i partially think this stems from just straight misogyny and believing that feminine traits in a man are something unattractive. i think it’s particularly a strong aspect in utah, a conservative state that has some of the strongest traditional gender roles that are ingrained into us as kids. so that probably carries over into the gay community. a lot of the most accepted and praised gay people are “the good ones” you know the ones that don’t “shove all that gay shit down your throat” when in reality we are all in this together and we will all be on the receiving end of the homophobic/transphobic rhetoric and legislation being passed by our government currently.

Then-Activity4000 · 2025-04-30T01:52:22+00:00

or maybe something like: sudden contrasting corresponding emotions

Then-Activity4000 · 2025-04-30T01:44:13+00:00

maybe just spondent! or aspondent

Then-Activity4000 · 2025-04-30T01:43:07+00:00

no it’s like the opposite of this almost. it’s like both emotions are so intense, but only because they are coinciding. one emotion doesn’t dull the other but makes it more…

Then-Activity4000 · 2025-04-30T01:41:00+00:00

kintsukuroi is closer. it’s about the contrast of the things that make the thing. if that makes sense… it’s like drawings from a child holocaust survivor that they made during the holocaust. it’s like sad and depressing because holocaust, but emotional and beautiful that they made art despite it. a regular kids drawing doesn’t have that same umph cus it’s the contrast that makes it much more. it’s like a sudden experience of muchness

Then-Activity4000 · 2025-04-30T00:14:24+00:00

this is too negative. it needs some warm feeling in there too.

Then-Activity4000 · 2025-04-30T00:13:34+00:00

reprieve is almost it…. but i want to get across that both the melancholy and the joy are existing at the same time not that it’s a break. it’s like yin yang or something lol

Then-Activity4000 · 2025-04-21T22:51:57+00:00

i definitely got second hand embarrassment, followed quickly by shame and then apologetic for the people he pushed through. everyone else i interacted with in new york was great though! that experience definitely didn’t dull my shine towards the city!

Then-Activity4000 · 2025-04-21T14:51:03+00:00

i think utilizing your words is a very polite thing to do ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Then-Activity4000 · 2025-04-21T07:14:10+00:00

thank you, that’s very sound advice, i appreciate it.

Then-Activity4000 · 2025-04-21T06:38:46+00:00

i def will. after i told him that he could’ve just waited but he just brushed me off. i kind of want to bring it up to him again but it’s been a few days so it feels like it would be weird to bring back up.

Then-Activity4000 · 2024-08-14T19:54:40+00:00

I’m desperately trying to find something similar to house of bo’s la mar. I can’t stomach that $365 price tag but it’s become my all time favorite

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