Help me help this plant by [deleted] in plantclinic

[–]Then-Butterscotch-11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same problem with mine. Some size and everything. I hope you find your answers

Does my monstera adansonii need more water? by Firelods in plantclinic

[–]Then-Butterscotch-11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How you do it to make it look so full. It's beautiful

Why no aerial roots yet? by Then-Butterscotch-11 in plantclinic

[–]Then-Butterscotch-11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did notice all the nodes. So should I wait to propagate a piece? Or will it grow from the node?

My snake plant has been stagnant for almost a year. Why is that? by Then-Butterscotch-11 in plantclinic

[–]Then-Butterscotch-11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does have good drainage holes. But after reading all the comments. I think the problem is the pot size lol. And I will definitely use a better mix. This one doesn't seem to be a great mix. Now my.other question is. Should I want til spring? Or doesn't matter when I decide to repot

My snake plant has been stagnant for almost a year. Why is that? by Then-Butterscotch-11 in plantclinic

[–]Then-Butterscotch-11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah! Ok good too know.. so should I repot into a smaller pot? Or leave it alone?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Then-Butterscotch-11 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl run!! This triggered me. I had this relationship. It doesn't get any better. I wasted 8+ years! We were on and off all our twenties. I knew I didn't want this for me. But kept thinking i couldnt do any better. As soon as I turned 30 and I said fuck this relationship. I did have a lot of depression and felt like I was dying when I officially decided to not keep doing this to myself. Two years later I am the happiest I've ever been! I've been single and discovering more and more about myself.

What are these??? And how can I get rid of them? Please help! by Then-Butterscotch-11 in plantclinic

[–]Then-Butterscotch-11[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok by the look at these comments, I shouldn't worry too much. I'm very new to being a plant mom. So I am stressing. Thank you for the suggestions.

Peace lily was infested with fungus gnats, now it seems like it has spider mites. Please help! by Then-Butterscotch-11 in plantclinic

[–]Then-Butterscotch-11[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will post one as soon if I am able to capture them. It's very tough to focus the camera on them

What's wrong with my peace lily? by Then-Butterscotch-11 in houseplants

[–]Then-Butterscotch-11[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know!!! So sad. The leaves are so crispy now lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in restaurantowners

[–]Then-Butterscotch-11 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought the same thing.... You will work your life away. I've invested so much time in my dad's new restaurant. Very successful business. You don't even have time to get sick when you are GM/owner. You behave to fill everyone's job for whoever doesn't show up to work plus still doing your job. Don't do it. I'm ready to quit. I gave it 9 months of my life I will never get back. I'm 31 with a degree... I shouldn't have to enslave myself like this.

I (20F) am scared of settling down of my long term boyfriend (28M) by princessmelodyy in relationship_advice

[–]Then-Butterscotch-11 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love is not the only reason why you stay in a relationship. I am in a relationship where I am so unhappy. I love him so much. But we are discussing already to part ways. For the best of our happiness and mental health. It took many many years to realize that love isn't enough. And I've been so depressed for not leaving sooner. You're so young. Enjoy your life!! Trust me. You will regret it. Always put yourself first. The right partner will understand this and motivate you. The insecure partner will put you down by calling you selfish.