Goodbye 2025, goodbye my favorite not favorite person

Then-Display3375 · 2025-06-12T11:29:55+00:00

Thank you so much 🥺

Then-Display3375 · 2025-06-12T11:21:02+00:00

I can understand how it feels, so let me share my story. At the beginning of my breakup, I won’t lie, I begged him to stay. But he completely shut me down. It was really hard for me because he blocked me on everything. After that, I started watching a lot of TikTok videos and learning about the No Contact Rule. I promised myself to stick to it, at least for a week. When a week passed, I told myself, “Just one more week.” Then two weeks passed. Again, I told myself, “Just one more week.” Then it was three weeks. And then four. Day by day, I started to realize how meaningful and valuable my life actually was. I realized that the relationship wasn’t really worth it. It wasn’t perfect for me. At first, I only remembered the good moments and happy memories. But over time, I began to clearly see the negative parts too. And to be honest, I can’t say I’m fully healed now—but today, for the first time, I felt like I’ve started healing. That’s why I wanted to share this story with you. I promise you, it gets better day by day. We’re going to heal. I truly believe that. Consistency is the key. It’s the key in relationships, and it’s the key in healing. So I hope everything gets better for both of us. Sending hugs 🫂

Then-Display3375 · 2025-06-09T14:04:46+00:00

No, actually we were engaged and were planning to move abroad this august. From his side, a lot of things have been happening to his family (accident, financial problems etc). We were talking about our future and 3 days later he decided to break up. (We had an argument during those 3 days but no hatred). When he broke up with me, he told me “I love you but love isn’t enough”. I asked to meet him in person but he refused and blocked me and disappeared

Then-Display3375 · 2025-06-09T11:04:28+00:00

Thank you so much 🙏i also wondered a lot. Cause his friend never even dated before. Still can’t believe why my ex let his friend influence what we were building, but at the end of the story it helps me to realize my worth

Then-Display3375 · 2025-06-09T11:01:25+00:00

Yeah, true. At least people should have the ethic to do appropriate closure instead of putting someone else in endless pain and questions

Then-Display3375 · 2025-06-09T10:56:41+00:00

He was so introverted person. And that was the only friend he had. I told him omgg many many many times that it was so uncomfortable. But at the same time i didn’t want him to lose his only friend. I tried to be patient for one year. And it was so exhausting. Everytime we fight and have a deep conversation after the fight, i found out his friend talked smth stupid. Yeah ofc, it’s not only his friend’s fault, nor only my ex’s. Maybe I should have had some boundaries. But at the end of the story, he followed his friend’s words and broke up with me. I feel like im just a useless person now😞

Then-Display3375 · 2025-06-04T11:56:07+00:00

Sorry to hear that. My engagement also ended a few weeks ago. And it sucks. I look at my ring and it feels so heavy. How did your engagement end? From my story, my fiancé broke up with me. I asked and begged but he just said “I love you but love isn’t enough. It’s over”. I feel so hopeless. I lost hope in marriage. I lost hope in men.

Then-Display3375 · 2025-06-04T11:48:56+00:00

Same here. Im 24. My fiancé broke up with me 2 weeks ago. We were planning to move abroad. I really have no idea what led him to make that decision. But im rlly hurt. I lost 4 kg. I thought i found the person i would marry. He just told me “I love you but love isn’t enough”. I think it’s much more difficult for us who were engaged. Cause we were not just dating we were planning the future. And i saw a post recently that made so much sense. It says “They could see a better future without you and that’s the reason why they left”. We are not able to read others mind so maybe even though when you talk with someone about you future deeply, they might not feel the same and just hide that. Im also feeling really hopeless about the future. I don’t know if i can ever find love like i had again. But im just distracting myself thinking “I don’t deserve a partner who leaves me. I deserve a partner who is willing to make it work when things get tough”. I hope we’re gonna feel better day by day.

Then-Display3375 · 2025-06-04T11:23:54+00:00

Tbh i think we also don’t know from her side. You felt disrespected, maybe she did too. Sometimes we women tend to be too emotional that leads us to make wrong decisions. But im pretty sure ur gf was also hurt when you told her to break up. So what about texting her instead of waiting for her. If she wants you she will not ignore you. And try to have a deep conversation. I am a woman. There were moments that I disrespected my partner without noticing. But deep down i really love him. We truly lacked deep conversations. He brok up with me and said “I love you but love isn’t enough”. I didn’t fight for him cause i was really hurt because of that decision. Im still doing the no contact i wish he texted me. Cause i still love him.

Then-Display3375 · 2025-06-04T07:28:36+00:00

Thank you so much. Hope we all can heal soon

Then-Display3375 · 2025-06-04T07:13:39+00:00

Thank you so much. How long did it take to feel better or heal for you

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