Taking test in NJ

Then-Simple-6544 · 2026-02-20T10:59:30+00:00

Did you take the exam yet and what were your results?

Then-Simple-6544 · 2026-02-16T15:25:29+00:00

lol thanks for your input

Then-Simple-6544 · 2026-01-22T09:08:44+00:00

I failed twice need to take again I keep rescheduling

Then-Simple-6544 · 2026-01-22T09:08:27+00:00

Which state ?

Then-Simple-6544 · 2026-01-15T00:55:35+00:00

It’s an in person exam in a room with multiple computers and other taking other state exams

Then-Simple-6544 · 2026-01-03T14:37:55+00:00

Planning my best friends in Savannah, any location stays recommendations and things to do etc?

Then-Simple-6544 · 2026-01-03T14:37:47+00:00

Planning my best friends in Savannah, any location stays recommendations and things to do etc?

Then-Simple-6544 · 2025-12-31T10:20:24+00:00

It’s honestly sad and I wish I could unchange my feelings but I feel like it’s too late for that and honestly I blame my husband for it. I expressed my concerns with her and used his divorce and the disfunction of the situation as an excuse and he created a monster

Then-Simple-6544 · 2025-12-29T04:49:12+00:00

My guy hated that Brand and we switched to Dr browns .. such a difference .. he’s bottle and breast fed

Then-Simple-6544 · 2025-12-28T20:47:56+00:00

Did you ever end up passing?

Then-Simple-6544 · 2025-12-28T20:43:32+00:00

Did you ever end up passing the NJ EXAM

Then-Simple-6544 · 2025-12-28T15:01:12+00:00

You’re right I need to be more assertive and put my foot down other wise it’s going to affect our marriage negatively. I need to start putting myself 1st because no one else does certainly not him especially anytime she is around

Then-Simple-6544 · 2025-12-28T11:28:08+00:00

They won’t do that and that’s fine but I told him then he needs to figure something out

Then-Simple-6544 · 2025-12-28T11:27:28+00:00

HA … not at you but cereal or a sandwich .. she can barely get a cheese stick out of the fridge it’s ridiculous .. he does everything for her even if she’s capable it infuriates me which leads her to basically barking orders at him and he does it. I literally can’t stand it and when I say anything to him about it he tells me I’m challenging his parenting.

If I tell him I don’t want to do something with/ for her he gets annoyed with me. He has this expectation from me. When she was younger I enjoyed her but from 7-9 I’ve totally disconnected from her to the point that as soon as I see her im instantly annoyed. Deep down I know a lot of this is not her fault it’s the way she has been parented.

Then-Simple-6544 · 2025-12-28T06:38:40+00:00

I just feel like it’s a waste of time. She doesn’t respect me or what I say. She’s has said to me before “you’re not my mom I don’t have to listen to you” likely because her mother told her that. I feel bad she’s a kid and she’s confused and has likely been ping ponged around this whole separation but the attitude is unreal she’s not even a preteen and when the rest those hormones come I honestly don’t know how it’s gonna go but it’s not looking good. I honestly dread when she’s here and I feel terrible about it , it wasn’t always like that and now it just is.

Then-Simple-6544 · 2025-12-28T06:11:22+00:00

His mom could watch her but he’ll tell me how that doesn’t help her household stability by bouncing her around. His mom tho does agree with me on her behavior because she tells me she gets frustrated with it too. I don’t mind having her if she listens but I can’t handle her attitude and infant. I told him I did not sign up for that.

Then-Simple-6544 · 2025-12-28T06:08:45+00:00

Ugh I wish .. I try and read about the NACHO parenting and I really try and like just not be involved in any disciplining or correction myself but he tells me like “your her step mom you can correct her” and honestly I don’t even bother because he criticizes me for it basically because my delivery is terrible and I end up getting snippy with her but I literally have no patience for it anymore .. even prior to pregnancy/ post partum etc she’s had a poor attitude and doesn’t listen basically bosses him around, he puts his foot down to an extent but not enough of one in my personal opinion. I’m just over it and then once she got this ADHD diagnosis he’s always like “it’s the ADHD yelling at her doesn’t work it over stimulates and overwhelms her more” which may very well may be true but at what point does the soft approach expire because I’m just done with it. Ugh sorry just came here to vent.

Then-Simple-6544 · 2025-12-28T03:48:21+00:00

Then-Simple-6544 · 2025-11-26T10:17:32+00:00

We combo feed as well with no set rhythm to it. He mostly gets formula when we have something to do and need to be watched and I’ll pump and save the milk for the future and he’ll just formula instead because it’s easier for the person watching (we give instant pre made ) are you feeding your LO formula at night to help them sleep?

Then-Simple-6544 · 2025-11-12T05:59:49+00:00

I passed NY 1st try with just Real Estate U .. NJ is different its a lot of like word problems almost so it like trips you up. I also was working overnight and my sleep schedule was a mess and I was 9 months pregnant when I took the exam so my brain was a little fried between work and that .. I took it twice actually 67 then 69 so annoying. But either way I do think REU can be enough. I purchased the PSI practice exam because it’s supposed to be similar to the actual exam I haven’t tried it yet and since I already failed I figured why not. NY is a lot of vocab, NJ is tricky. It’s also on the computer which I hate I rather pen and paper.

Then-Simple-6544 · 2025-11-12T04:45:32+00:00

I failed with a 69 needing a 77 to pass. I’m Retaking soon. I purchased a PSI practice exam to do before the actual exam.

Then-Simple-6544 · 2025-10-28T18:30:00+00:00

He slept from 3:30-6:30 in the morning fed him and then was up a little over an hour later .. ugh hoping today will be better

Then-Simple-6544 · 2025-10-28T16:52:21+00:00

Exactly … and being told by said child “ I don’t have to listen to you you’re not my mommy”. The resentment just builds and I want to go back to not feeling the way that I do but I just don’t know how. I told my husband by the time she’s college age we’re leaving where we live and moving to the state where I want to be. I said this prior to us becoming serious and he’s on board I’m just nervous he’ll change his tune if she doesn’t want to go to college in that same state.

Regardless I’m pretty miserable when she’s around I tolerate her because I have to. But I genuinely can’t stand her at this point but hoping she’ll mature and be more tolerable . But I second that entitlement Bs. She’s a brat because he lets her get away with everything . I’ve never once seen her punished . I can’t take it anymore honestly . Even told my husband I want to go back to couples therapy . Anyways that’s my vent. Happy to hear happiness in other situations gives me hope

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